Damage, Inc.

Dear Carlos:
 
I wanted to pose a question that I think is of interest to all men: First, let's face the facts: women can do lots of damage to a man -- false accusations of rape, false accusations of domestic violence, they can COMMIT domestic violence against a man, they can lie about taking birth control pills, they can get  man thrown out of his own house (if they live with him) through a  restraining order....the list goes on and on.

Is there a stance, an attitude a man can take with women to discourage these behaviors? Can he give the woman a message message, "You better not give me any crap, or crap on me? Please advise.

Thanks.
 
Best regards,
 
E.F.
Denver, CO

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CARLOS:

Women can do a great many negative things to men. The best defense is a great offense, as it was once said. Don't get caught up in thinking that you are within minutes of this kind of reprisal from a woman. If you set the right precedent, you won't have this problem.

The attitude you must take is that of an Alpha Man. You communicate through your demeanor that any kind of misbehavior on her part is TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE.

It starts by not letting little things go without letting her know that you notice them. When she makes a rude comment, you do NOT let it go by. It starts with the little things, so you have to be watchful and wary of them.

But first and foremost, she must understand CLEARLY that if she makes an egregious error in her behavior, she is GONE.

I've actually let women know this by explaining past situations (without making it sound like a warning) that I will break up with a woman who misbehaves or takes me for granted.

If you want to know how to communicate this attitude, your best resource is the Secrets of the Alpha Man program. Get it HERE.

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