More layers of understanding...
I wanted to thank you for the invite to the teleconference this past January. I found it hard to have a question because I'm not into the PUA realm yet.
See, I'm divorced twice with 4 kids in child support. I have my youngest with me on weekends, and my free time is spent at the local boxing gym. My job is a work at home job, and the hours tend to fluctuate. So I really haven't had the time to pursue the PUA lifestyle just yet.
I do spend some time at bars, go-go and such. In fact I have a date with a hot blond Russian tomorrow ( I know the dancers there, my ex-wife was a dancer...French), but for the most part I'm just doing as you suggest; getting my inner game in shape before I try to do anything like open a set on a group. I have had the opportunity to try some tactics, but for the most part, I'm more concerned about me first before them. I'm just methodical that way.
I'm doing ALOT of reading. I'm up to page 177 of the Alpha Man Ebook. I've gone through your cd's a number of times. I'm reading "how to talk to anyone-92 little tricks for big success in relationships" by Leil Lowndes. I have the "48 Laws of Power" to read. There are all these books I got from Mens Health..."Guy Q"..."Powerfood Nutrician Plan"..."10 minute workout"...etc....
I'm gonna order your "dating black book" and I'm intrigued by your "How to Approach Women" thing you're advertising.
My favorite thing about your ebooks is the completeness of philosophy, which is right up my alley. I always love to read a good quote, or anecdote. They just resonate. I never knew so much about yin/yang. This is a symbol I have tattooed in my Tribal Phoenix tatt (hence my nickname), I've always adhered to the philosophy, but never had it explained. Thanx.
Anyway, I'm here to just check in and let you know that you are my PUA sensei, and I look forward to adding more layers. What little I've done is working wonders.
Thanx Carlos,
~T
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CARLOS:
Ah, yes... I know it seems like this is just an ego post for me, but there's actually a few things I wanted to point out that other guys should note:
1) This guy is on a path of self-development.
He's working hard to make himself the kind of man that women will want, and that's important. Not to sacrifice your identity in some dysfunctional way, but to make the most of yourself and recognize that change may be uncomfortable, but it's necessary.
2) Even though his schedule isn't the most accommodating, he's still working at creating the lifestyle he wants.
He's not letting the easy excuses stop him from creating this lifestyle. Nor is he letting the fact that he's got kids stop him.
This is what I mean when I say you've got to be relentless about this stuff. Life will give you more than enough opportunity to cop out with some lame excuse about why this 'isn't you' or you 'can't do this.'
Excuses are a dime a dozen.
Alpha Men are one in a million.
See, I'm divorced twice with 4 kids in child support. I have my youngest with me on weekends, and my free time is spent at the local boxing gym. My job is a work at home job, and the hours tend to fluctuate. So I really haven't had the time to pursue the PUA lifestyle just yet.
I do spend some time at bars, go-go and such. In fact I have a date with a hot blond Russian tomorrow ( I know the dancers there, my ex-wife was a dancer...French), but for the most part I'm just doing as you suggest; getting my inner game in shape before I try to do anything like open a set on a group. I have had the opportunity to try some tactics, but for the most part, I'm more concerned about me first before them. I'm just methodical that way.
I'm doing ALOT of reading. I'm up to page 177 of the Alpha Man Ebook. I've gone through your cd's a number of times. I'm reading "how to talk to anyone-92 little tricks for big success in relationships" by Leil Lowndes. I have the "48 Laws of Power" to read. There are all these books I got from Mens Health..."Guy Q"..."Powerfood Nutrician Plan"..."10 minute workout"...etc....
I'm gonna order your "dating black book" and I'm intrigued by your "How to Approach Women" thing you're advertising.
My favorite thing about your ebooks is the completeness of philosophy, which is right up my alley. I always love to read a good quote, or anecdote. They just resonate. I never knew so much about yin/yang. This is a symbol I have tattooed in my Tribal Phoenix tatt (hence my nickname), I've always adhered to the philosophy, but never had it explained. Thanx.
Anyway, I'm here to just check in and let you know that you are my PUA sensei, and I look forward to adding more layers. What little I've done is working wonders.
Thanx Carlos,
~T
--------------
CARLOS:
Ah, yes... I know it seems like this is just an ego post for me, but there's actually a few things I wanted to point out that other guys should note:
1) This guy is on a path of self-development.
He's working hard to make himself the kind of man that women will want, and that's important. Not to sacrifice your identity in some dysfunctional way, but to make the most of yourself and recognize that change may be uncomfortable, but it's necessary.
2) Even though his schedule isn't the most accommodating, he's still working at creating the lifestyle he wants.
He's not letting the easy excuses stop him from creating this lifestyle. Nor is he letting the fact that he's got kids stop him.
This is what I mean when I say you've got to be relentless about this stuff. Life will give you more than enough opportunity to cop out with some lame excuse about why this 'isn't you' or you 'can't do this.'
Excuses are a dime a dozen.
Alpha Men are one in a million.
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