ALPHA MAN QUESTION- Playing hard to get:

First let me thank you for saving me from my self. You have a lot of straight advice and clear understanding, I'm grateful for both. I'm now on the path to be a more confident and more aware Alpha Man. I've already notice a difference to how women respond to me. I've only started, but the future looks good.

I'm still in college, and I've ran into a snag and I wanted your input. I'm getting really positive signals from one individual. I was being smart, cocky, and funny; and before I knew it she asked me for my number.

I have class with this girl once a week, (Economics) and I'm getting really good signals, strong eye contact, good flirty conversations, and a disappointed tone when I end a call early.

The problem is when I try to set something up out side of class, she's hard to reach. She's out of town when I'm available, she has plans with her friends and that she will call me back but doesn't. (I didn't call back after that; I'll see her again in a few days) She seems a little shy to be a female player, and I'm getting the sense that she's playing hard to get.

My question is am I reading this wrong? Are these female games? If she is interested then how do I pass these obstacles?

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She's probably playing hard to get, but the worst offense is that you're playing this game with her.

Women do this crap all the time. They flash you a winning smile, and then you're smitten. You're falling all over yourself to get with her, but somehow you just can't make it happen.

They dangle this carrot in front of you ALL the time, but nothing happens, and you're left with the impression that there's something to be salvaged here.

There's NOTHING here. Things didn't move forward when they should have, and now she's just turning into another flake.

This is the simplest way I can say this, and I don't mean to sound nasty when I reveal this earth-shattering truth to you, but ...

If a woman is into you, she'll MAKE TIME FOR YOU.

It will happen.

If she's not into you, it won't. And there's no amount of fantasizing about what might happen or could happen that will get this to change.

Drop her like a bag full of Dalmation poop and get on the path to finding the next one... the REAL one.

Remember, YOU are the one accepting this treatment. And I do need to remind you that we teach people how we want to be treated. We teach them by how we behave when they test us like this.

You have no time for a woman who plays these stupid and infantile hard-to-get games, and she needs to FEEL that. Ya dig?

Go find five other girls who want what you've got and are willing to set aside a few minutes to enjoy your wonderful world and what you've got to offer.

And then this gal can come running back all depressed because she missed out.

Then maybe she'll start to learn not to take things for granted - right now instead of ten years down the road.

Short story, dude - you don't have the time to waste on her. Get busy with the rest of campus. They're waiting!

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