DATING ADVICE FOR MEN - QUESTION:

Hey Carlos,

I am in the process of going through a divorce. I have a female attorney that I am attracted to. She has given me signals that she is interested, crossed legs pointing toward me, touching me, playing with her hair,etc. Would I be pushing the ethical issue by asking her out while she does the legal work. Its not that I would have a problem separating the two cause issues and would not want anything to come between us. Do you think I should wait till after my divorce to pursue her or go far it now?

- S
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CARLOS:

This is an interesting situation...

But I'd say that you might want to let one situation resolve before complicating another.

I'd wait until after the things have settled with the legal part of your relationship before you pursue the lawyer. Just in case you haven't been reading the signs right, you want to make sure you pinch off the other artery you're severing.

Uh, so to speak.

(too gross?)

You also can't be sure SHE won't have a problem keeping the two issues from overlapping. Don't underestimate the immaturity of a woman (or a man) based on the short time you've had interacting.

Plus, there could be trouble if your wife and the other lawyer found out.

But there's nothing wrong with a little flirtation in the meantime...

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