What do you get her for the First Date?

Hi Carlos,

I just wanted to ask when you go on your 1st date what should you give to the woman you are going to see as opposed to flowers? I wanted an idea that is original.

-D.
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CARLOS ANSWERS:

Absolutely NOTHING but your commanding masculine presence.

I mean that. Giving women stuff on a date is supplication and - unless a demand of your culture that you're living in (not from) - you should not give them things as a way to "buy" attention or affection from her.

If YOU are not enough now, you never will be.

Would you ever see James Bond giving flowers on a date? Can you imagine any of the most prized Hollywood hunks giving their women something to date them...?

And if your objection is "but they're higher-value men than I am... what have I got to offer?"

The reality is that a man's value is COMMUNICATED, not bought or shown with wealth.

Don't place so much importance on "1st Dates," either. By doing what you're proposing, you're communicating desperation to this woman. You're also communicating that you don't get dates very often, because you're so focused on this as an "event."

If you want to change that, I suggest you get busy with this:
http://www.thealphalifestyle.com

Best of luck to you...

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