Someone that just needs to prioritize things...

Hi Carlos,

Greetings from Spain. Enjoy your writings here and yes maybe

I am afraid of more success.

Here's the deal.....I need to break out of my comfort zone. I am currently sleeping with a 3 sexy uninhibited women; 1 hottie of 30, 1 bisexual lawyer nieghbor of 26 and a shapely 41 year old doctor.

Truth is I was hurt both times I was in love and now find attracting attractive younger & older women easy....but find it hard to motivate myself to look for more. For example I 'd like to find one special Spanish woman that is sexy, fit, happy, and independent for an exclusive LT relationship with kids.

Any advise would be great!

ciao 4 now,

Valor
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CARLOS ANSWERS:

Well, I can honestly say that you are in an interesting definition of "comfort zone."

My only advice for you is to get rid of one or two of your current harem and give yourself back the free time to LOOK for this special Spanish girl.

The only thing you need is time, not advice.

Just remind yourself that the longer you stay in something you don't want (?) is the longer you keep yourself from what you DO want.

Sit down and plan out how you're going to search for one of these women. Could she be one of the women you're already seeing?

You just need to shift your priorities from avoiding emotions to finding what you want.

Meanwhile, all the other 3 billion guys on this planet are feeling REALLY sorry for you.

No, really.

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