What to do if you bump into her from behind...

I have been reading your emails for about a month now and I feel I've really learned a lot so far. The one thing is I've been having a hellofa time meeting new people and everyday I just see the same ol‚ people.

Yesterday morning I was driving along to school as usual and I guess I hadn't really become awake yet because I bumped the car in front of me. Luckily there was no damage, but the driver of the car steps out and I almost passed out when I saw her. She was a bombshell and she gave me her name and telephone number and I gave her mine as well.

I was thinking of calling her and I looked her up on Facebook and it said she's single and goes to a different college. Later however my dumb ass friend added her as a friend and said I'm friends with the kid who hit you. Do you think I still have a chance with this girl?

I was wondering what you think is the best way to approach her or contact her for a date. Thanks so much I'd really appreciate any help you can give me.

- Steve
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CARLOS:

Wow. I've been getting a TON of letters from guys with problems with their friends messing with them.

Seriously, guys, if you've got a friend that's pulling this crap, your Alpha Manhood requires you to pull him aside and FIX THIS NOW.

A dominant, confident man does not let his friends pull this crap.

Remember what I say: You teach people how to treat you.

Your behavior tells them what they can and cannot get away with. I do not tolerate this sort of thing from any of my friends, and neither should you.

Step 1: Call out your friend on this and let him know this is unacceptable. Then clear the air and get a beer together. (Watch how Tony Soprano handles these kinds of touchy situations. He's harsh, but effective.)

Step 2: Whatever you do - DO NOT let this girl know you did all this research on her. It's not romantic - it's actually a bit creepy.

Step 3: Contact her however you have to (probably email through Facebook) and joke with her about her "backing up" into your car. Make sure she's not too miffed about being banged from behind. (Uh, you know what I mean.)

Step 4: On the next email, you tell her to give you her phone number. TELL HER. Don't keep up what I call "E.C.C." (That's Electronic Chickenshit Communication.) Just get her number.

Step 5: Call her the next day. Take her bowling. Take her someplace fun. Just get her out.

Step 6: Ignore your stupid-ass friend. Act on your own initiative.

Hopefully I've caught you in time before you get yourself locked into a spiral of doom where you cease to make any decisions because of a fear of doing the wrong thing.

Doing SOMEthing is always better than NOthing when it comes to initiating the relationship.

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