Vulnerability

A reader comments:

Hey Carlos,

  I never knew your mom past away man. Hey we've noticed how sometimes after a person greatest success, is a great failure, or low point. I think that was good part of it right there.

I just finished watching the video with all the interviews, and even though I haven't meet you personally, through your site, newsletters, personal e-mails, and e-books, I can see all those qualities that those men mentioned, such as professional, unpretentious, and genuine. They all glow from your work.

One thing that I noticed is that I love how you tell of your real life experiences, before you got to where you are, and where you are now. Being so, myself and others can confidently say that we can relate to you. That, and another thing that's important is how you present your work. It's well rounded, very general and broad, you don't focus on certain areas, you allow men to analyze many area's of there live, point those area's in the right direction, to make there life successful and stable for women to join and share.

Keep it up.

Thank you for what your done. Dating Black Book, Alpha Man...

For what you're doing- (R.E.A.L GAME).

And what's to come......

- Victor
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CARLOS:

I appreciate your comments more than you can know. And how appropriate that your name means WINNING. Your attitude screams "winner", not "whiner."

When I set out on this mission years ago, I knew that chasing women was important, but that there was MUCH more to the story. That's when I created the Secrets of the Alpha Man Program. A real-life primer on how to be a MAN first, and then the women will follow.

When you do it the other way ... chasing success with women to fill a hollow self-image, well...

I'm reminded of some words from "DUNE":

"Many have tried..."
"Tried and Failed?"
"They tried and died."

If you base your success with women on the wrong foundation, your integrity and self-esteem will die, too.

One of the things you'll notice is that:

1) I almost never whine about the competition, or dis them.

2) I don't brag about being the "first" or the "Greatest" or the "one and only" (even when I am :). I don't need to pump up my ego or be Mr. Salesguy. I just want to spread the word and unplug as many guys from the Matrix as possible.

3) I reveal personal details to you because I want you to understand that I'm not some "high and mighty" pickup artist. I'm just a man. And I feel I've got some valuable information to share with you.

That last one is important to me.

I don't mind showing you these things because I want you to understand what women are REALLY attracted to.

And that's REAL men.

- Carlos Xuma
Strength & Honor

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