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CARLOS XUMA and Dating Dynamics
Women have shared information since time began on
how to rule the world of relationships, through sexual power and an innate
understanding of psychology and persuasion. Men need an ally in this game,
and I created Dating Dynamics to give you that edge.
A lot of guys ask me how I got into this field of dating
advice for men, so let me give you a little background...
I had a girlfriend or two back in high school. Didn't
give my dating life (or lack of) much thought.
Until disaster struck.
I had a relationship that turned sour on me, and I
started getting all "Nice Guy." I started reading the self-help
books by PhD.s that didn't know dick about how REAL attraction is
built. They could only tell you that it should be this way, and
all the rational crap that did NOT work. (Like telling
a woman your true feelings for her.)
I remember being on a date where the girl actually CRINGED
away from me when I went to hug her good night. I remember losing
it on my balcony after they left, and I swore that I'd never go
through that again.
I knew there was some kind of behavioral change I could
make to fix this. I had to know how to make women attracted to
me, or it was going to kill me.
I started reading all the books in the bookstore on
the topic. When I realized they didn't have the information I needed (or
even a clue for guys, really), I started looking for books that talked
about "pickup,"
"seduction,"
and "techniques" - the forbidden information
that you couldn't find anywhere else.
(I started this before there was an "Internet," mind
you. :)
When I got as much as I could find (and that wasn't
a lot) I started trying and experimenting with women and dating.
I got rejected and blasted, and occasionally I also got some success. I
watched why certain guys did the things they did and noticed how their
behavior influenced and built strong attraction in women.
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I have spent years and years out there getting battered,
deep-fried, and served up as a meal ticket in the world of dating, and there's
no reason why any guy should have to go through that. That's why I create these
programs for men - and just started creating programs for women.
I wrote these books and CD and DVD programs, and then crammed
them full of information that is practical, useful, and REAL.
None of that "buy
her roses/write her poems/tell her how you feel" crap.
I teach men how
to attract women by being themselves - the confident
and dominant men that really get women. I teach from a place of values and honor, and I'm proud to
say that my material doesn't rely on manipulation or tricks to get you more
dates and more women in your life.
Ask yourself: Do you want to wind up in your rocking chair
whining about all the things you should have done?
You only get one shot at this life, so seize
this opportunity.
It's time to start winning.
Invest in yourself and learn the
strategies and mindset that will make you successful not just with women
but in LIFE."
I salute you for the step you're about to take. I can honestly
say that learning how to get this part of my life under my control has been
the biggest step in my development as a man. And now you can get the benefit
of this information, too.
If you're going to start with one program, I suggest you
look at the Get
a Girlfriend FAST audio course. This
one program will give you all the basic
strategies for attracting women into
your life.
Carlos Xuma is a dating and attraction advisor, as well as a motivational
and life counselor. He's the author of The Dating Black
Book, Secrets of the
Alpha Man, Approach Women NOW, the Alpha
Immersion DVD program, the Advanced
Audio Coaching Series (in its fourth year), and too many other articles to
mention. He also produces a weekly podcast (available on iTunes) and a regular
newsletter.
Carlos brings to the table a variety of life experiences, including a background
in relationship skills, life-coaching, motivational psychology, sales, management,
Martial Arts, teaching and instruction, technology and engineering, Eastern
philosophy, the psychology of achievement, and music.
Yes, you can call him a bit of a Renaissance
Man.
Carlos' mission is to bring men and women together through awareness of both
our traditional and contemporary gender roles. He conducts workshops and in-field
training sessions, phone counseling, as well as group seminars.
Notable Quotes from Carlos Xuma:
- Learn the secrets of REAL attraction - by using the REAL you...
- Attract
QUALITY women that you can have a QUALITY relationship with...
- You need techniques
to help you learn how this stuff works, because techniques reinforce your
inner game...
- No matter what a woman SAYS, she
wants a confident, masculine man that she can feel safe with..
- Get rid of
the reactiveness in your game with women...
- Women want leaders and initiators
- not imitators
- Approach a woman with curiosity and the battle is half won
already...
- You will learn more about yourself in the context
of a long-term relationship then you will in any other way...
- Find the right attitude and you'll always have the
right technique...
- You will learn more in one night of real life approaching than you
will in a month of reading about it...
- Anything worth doing will NOT be easy...
- If you are heading on a path towards
your own passions and purpose, women will want to come along for the ride...
- It's
better to regret the things you did do than the things you didn't...
- You are
what you think about all day long...
- The more things you do that unsuccessful
people will NOT do - the more successful you will be...
- Understanding a journey is not the
same as TAKING it...
- Men and women are on two different timetables with respect
to relationships...
- 90% of what you worry about never happens, and 90% of
what happens to you, you never had a chance to worry about...
- Your number
one technique for winning a woman's respect is to never REACT to her...
- Reduce
your availability and you increase your desirability...
- The opposite of courage
isn't cowardice... it's conformity.
- Women have sex with the men they fall in
love with; Men fall in love with the women they have sex with...
- Easy rule
of sexual intimacy: Go just a little bit slower than she wants you to...
- Fight
familiarity - the more you become familiar to the woman you're with, the
less novelty and excitement there is...
- Women want men to approach them - because
they will not meet men unless they get approached...
- Sex is inevitable if you're behaving
like a confident and secure man...
- Flip the switch in your head: The world
is abundance - not scarcity...
- Carlos Xuma's Pendulum Theory - every behavior can
- and should - swing to extremes...
"All
truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second,
it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."
- Arthur Schopenhauer
German philosopher (1788 - 1860)
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