NEWSLETTER - 6-13-2005
Carlos gives you the straight Truth...
Okay,
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QUESTION ABOUT ONLINE AD:
Hey
Carlos,
Your
Blog is one of the most greatest ideas that you came up with
other than your "Women Understanding Wisdom" (WUW another one
for you), my question is how do I recreate my online profile? And how
do I change it from Boring Needy Wuss to Deserving Alpha Man?
Here's
my profile:
About
Me: "I'm very intelligent, down to earth, very liberal, and adventurous.
I am very strong physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I always
stand up for what I believe in and fight for what's right. Also I am very
trusting and loyal and respectful. Another great trait about me is I'm very
bold and not afraid to be who I am. Personally I'm what women are looking
for in a real man known as Mr. Right. I have a wild side (I'm a bite of Bad
Boy/ Adventurous and Dare Devilish) known as the "MAN" that your
mother has warned you about. But hey, we both know you never listen. You
are looking for: Looking for a girl who has a similar personality like mine,
but other different unique qualities as well. Some whose confident and independent
(not y and superficial), responsible, down to earth, very liberal and open-minded,
strong and sensitive, and very respectful to people and men with a good heart.
Most
important she's very simple not shallow and and high maintenance. Someone
who appreciates the finer things of life and honors values. Also has morals
and integrity and is very confident in herself. To very honest, I like Asian
women (with beautiful hands and sexy Feet) nothing personal nor disrespectful
to nobody, that's just what I like. But if you your the type of girl (regardless
of what walks of life your from) who has what it take be my mate, and satisfy
me "intimately". I'll be open too changing my mind.
My
idea of the perfect first date: is a very romantic peaceful walk on the southern
California / Hawaiian beach coast (or any beach wherever we are). Where we
are laughing and talking with each other, and just having a great time with
each other.
My
perception of an ideal relationship: Where me and my mate are always happy
and enjoy being with each other. Going out and being in the great outdoors
of doing things and when her and I at sitting on the sofa and cuddling with
each other and romantically sweet talking and talking dirty to arose each
other. With teasing and physically touching each other and making out.
What
I've learned from my past relationships: Never assume that people that you
like is going be what you want them to be. Always take it slow and get too
know them before you have feelings for them.
Please
give me helpful advice to this list of 5 and examples to this profile, your
Antiwuss-Bitch-Slapping is greatly appreciated.
Guidance
Needed,
C.J.D.,
NJ
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CARLOS GIVES UP SOME GOOD STUFF:
Ah,
well then, let me administer the stinging slap of bitch-dom.
Here's
a rule I want you playa's out there to remember: Don't be afraid to scare
away the women you don't want.
Sounds
kind of obvious, but you'd be amazed how many guys are trying to create the
profile that wins them all. Or they go into this with the idea that they
can avoid offending anyone.
Life
is hard. Wear a cup.
As
I like to say.
So,
when writing your profile, write it with the person in mind you want to read
it and go, "Hey, that's cool..."
Write
with your audience in mind.
Now,
let me clear something up right now:
No
matter how much or how clearly you write what you WANT in your profile, you
will have tons of women read it and THINK that's them - or WANT to think
that it's them.
In
other words, saying what you want doesn't get you what you want online. It's
not like making a grocery list. You'll get women who are 20-30 pounds overweight
who haven't seen a gym since sixth grade writing you, even though you asked
for someone who you can "workout with."
It
never ceases to amaze me what I used to get all the time. It got so bad I
almost wanted to start writing:
"ALL
FAT BROADS NEED NOT APPLY."
Kinda
harsh, but come on, man. What part of "athletic build" did you
not understand?
So,
with that in mind, here's the way you need to construct your profile:
Make
it FUN.
Just
go crazy with it. Have a blast. Don't worry about getting all specific about
your description so that you get the perfect woman. The fact is that the
woman that will match you will probably not really match her own profile
after you get to know her.
Sad
truth.
So
what you have to do is just inject your profile with a bunch of fun stuff
that she'll latch on to and go with.
You
see, you want the kind of woman who responds to a fun and offbeat profile.
(At least I hope so.) You want a woman with a sense of humor and adventure.
And
that kind of woman WILL respond to a more laid back and less specific profile.
Face
it - you'll probably end up screening out most of them on the phone anyway,
so why try to do too much unnecessary work in your online information? It
doesn't work, so you might as well cast a wider net.
Plus,
when guys state what they want in their profiles, women actually LOOK to
exclude themselves based on their INTERPRETATION of what you said.
And
we know how well they do that.
And
remember that you can't TELL her you're this or that (such as a "bad
boy...")
A
real bad boy would never SAY it.
Instead
you must SHOW it. With your words and your cocky attitude.
Try
this:
"So
if you're the kind of girl that likes eating fruit off the tree, or off the
stomach of a really close buddy, or you just like to lick your fingers and
pretend, I won't tell... Or maybe you're the kind of girl who's daring enough
to jump in a cool lake on a hot day with her clothes on ... So why are you
still reading this? Send me an email! The worst thing that could happen is
that you fall madly in love with my dimples and start stalking me. Wait,
on second thought..."
See
how that works? I just totally riffed that off the top of my head, and I'm
sure it shows, but it's unique and it doesn't scream out NEEDY WUSS. It stands
out.
Now
all you have to do is come up with some of these on your own. It's not hard.
Just sit down and start typing some experimental stuff into your computer.
Remember,
if it doesn't work, you can always revise and change it. Nothing is permanent
in cyberspace.
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- Carlos
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