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Discovering How to Attract Women -
With Confidence and Alpha Male Power...
These are the secrets of how to meet women
and what women want that you won't learn from a "pickup artist..."
Wednesday:
12:43 AM
I want you to ask yourself this:
- Do you ever feel like women have the "upper hand" when it comes to dating?
- Do you feel confused trying to figure out if a woman is into you or not?
- Do you ever feel like women are completely alien to you, and you have no
idea where or how to relate to them?
- Do you ever feel nervous and paralyzed with fear when
you see a woman you want to talk to, but by the time you work up your courage,
she's gone...?
- Do you feel like you can't "escalate" things with a
woman because you're afraid of making a mistake and blowing the whole thing?
- Do you ever feel pissed at yourself for not knowing
how it works with women? And then you get more and more frustrated and angry
when you get more of the results you expect?
- Do you find yourself having trouble talking to women and making the conversation
go somewhere?
- Do you ever feel like you want to be totally prepared to meet women, so
that you don't run into unexpected challenges and surprises?
- Do you ever feel like giving up on women and their crazy
games, just because it's so tiring and futile?
- Do you ever feel insecure that you're not as tall, good-looking, or rich
as other guys out there?
- Do you ever feel embarrassed or ashamed of your sexual
desires of women? And you fear what a woman would say if she knew about what
you wanted from her?
- Do you ever feel like you get way up "in your head" when you're around
a woman you find attractive and desirable? And then your mouth turns to mush?
- Do you ever feel like there's some special training
on understanding women that you missed out on as a kid that you should have
had? And now you're playing 'catch-up,' but you feel completely lost?
- Do you ever find yourself panicking when a woman becomes "emotional," and
you don't know what to do or how to handle it?
- Do you ever feel like there's a special "higher level" woman that you don't
have access to? The more beautiful and elite women?
- Would you like to meet one special woman to sleep with, create a relationship
with, or just connect on an intense level, but you're afraid she either doesn't
exist, or she just wouldn't be interested in you?
Well, I can tell you from years of experience
that you're
not alone, and you're not as lost as you might feel.
When you feel like you're not as good as other
guys are with women, it hits you right in the middle of who you are as a man.
A few years back, I had what you might call
a crisis.
I'm not going to bore you with all the details,
but let's just say that my dating life was really empty. I went for about a
year without a girlfriend of any kind. I was meeting the occasional girl, but
I wasn't able to get anything off the ground. (I think they call this "failure
to launch.")
I went out all the time and hung out with
my other guy friends who had really attractive girlfriends, but I
was the pitiful "lonely guy" of the group that would hardly
ever get a phone number or date.
And if I did get a date, it always ended up
as "friends" at the end, because I was such a "Nice Guy."
But I'd also look at my guy friends who had
cool girlfriends and think, "He's not all that great looking, or all that smart."
So How In The World Were These Other
Guys Doing It?
I asked myself that over and over again.
I started to get really frustrated, and then
I even got angry with women over it. I felt myself blaming
them for my situation,
even though I knew they weren't the problem. It was very tempting to give up
and just write women off completely.
But then I had a realization...
If there were things other guys were doing
that could get women interested in them, I could figure out what that was,
and then learn it and use it myself. I had been learning songs on guitar for
years, just by getting the sheet music and copying the notes, so why would
this be any different?
Well, I learned a few things...
Lesson 1: Attraction is Not Something
You're Taught.
First, it's not the same as just learning
the "notes" on sheet music. I'd ask guys what they were doing to get women
interested, and most of them couldn't explain it. "Just be confident," one
guy said. "Act like you don't care," another one told me.
Wow. That's a big help.
The truth is that once you do figure out the
method they're using (and I eventually did), it's simple. You just need to
learn from someone that knows how to explain it right.
You need someone who's been through all the
same things you have.
Lesson 2: Attraction Can't Be FORCED.
Next, I learned that as much as I'd wanted
to MAKE women interested in me, it doesn't work that way. I never talked a
woman into liking me.
On the other hand, when I learned the right
steps to build attraction naturally, I didn't have to do all
that needy and insecure stuff I used to - which never worked, anyway.
Attraction isn't LOGICAL. It's emotional.
But the funny thing about attraction is that
it does work by predictable laws.
Learn the laws, and you understand the "hidden
code..."
And then you'll get more and more success.
And the other cool thing is that when you
know how this "emotional code" works, you'll be able to repeat your successes.
Over and over and over, as much as you want.
Here are a couple tips I learned along the
way that will help you...
FAST SUCCESS
TIP #1: "Tease to Please"
I call this technique "Tease to Please",
and it works because it short-circuits a woman's usual defense mechanisms against
meeting 'strange' men. You see, every woman comes with her factory-installed
defensive shields against meeting new men or letting them into her life.
When a guy approaches her, for any reason, the
woman assumes you're picking up on her. It's what she's gotten
used to. All women are by now, and they all have a standard routine they
use of being a little stand-offish to you until you can bust past
this barrier.
Instead of complimenting a woman when you first
meet her, take the opportunity to gently tease her.
Don't make it cruel, but tease like you would
on the playground as a kid: "You're not bad looking ... you don't have
cooties, do you? I don't want to catch anything from you."
By using the Dating Dynamics methods, you will flip
her Trust switch in her head. You see, she starts out needing to
find a reason to be interested and trust YOU - or she quickly categorizes
you as a friend.
Translation: “Friend” =
non-lover, a man she won’t sleep with.
Don't
go there.
If you just start talking to her neutrally, she's wondering, "Is
he safe? Is he normal?" For all she knows, you're just another dweeb
looking to bore her with old Playboy party jokes.
Now, by teasing her first, all of a sudden she feels (from your words
and actions) that you might be more challenging. You're different -
i.e., interesting to her. Maybe you’re not just
another guy out there looking to get laid tonight.
Just find one thing about her that you can tease her about as an introduction.
Don't make it cruel, but make it clear that you're not intimidated by her
beauty. Make it playful and fun. If you're reading her
body language well enough, you'll be able to take this as far as you want.
IMPORTANT NOTE: Most guys will be afraid of making a
woman mad, and will fear using this tactic, even though it makes
complete sense to women and it will work like crazy on them.
If you play it her way, you're going to have to spend weeks and weeks,
dates and more dates, money and more money, on a woman just to
get her to open up and believe you're a good guy.
MAYBE.
The best way is to learn how to shortcut
past this and get women attracted right away. No more wasting time or energy
on women that aren't what you want.
Do you ever feel like attraction between
you and a woman is like some kind of magic 'trick'...?
And that it's
something cool that you can see other guys do, but you'll never really "get
it"?
Some guys out there will tell you that you
need to get your "inner game" of confidence and self-esteem all taken care
of before you can meet women and get more dates.
This is popular advice from people who don't
understand how to train guys properly.
The most important thing for you to do is
to get what I call "Fast Success." I'm not talking about the kind that you
were warned about by your Jedi grandfather, who told you to "beware of the
easy path."
Fast Success is getting you results as quickly
as possible so you don't quit too soon!
So your first step is to learn the basic skills
so you can get those quick victories and teach your "unconscious mind" that
you can do this.
Let me give you an example of something quick
and easy that you can use the next time you're out talking to a woman...
FAST SUCCESS
TIP #2: "Conversation Jump-Start"
Have you
ever been talking to a woman for a few minutes, and as the energy of the conversation
starts to dip a little (right about where you are running out of things to
say) she
just looks back to her friends and turns her back to you?
I call this the "back turn," and
it's one of those experiences guys hate more than anything. You get that
sick feeling of not just being ignored, but de-valued as
well. It feels like a punch in the stomach.
Even though she didn't actually do it or say
it out loud, you feel like she just laughed and called you a loser.
Let me give you the best strategy you can
use when you sense that this situation is coming up and you might lose her...
Just look at the girl and ask her to tell
you how everyone in her group knows each other. You can say this:
"Hey, before you run out of cool things to
talk about, tell me... How do you all know each other?"
If you listen
closely, what she says will give you at least ten new subjects that you can
then talk with her and her friends about - their jobs, their history, all the
juicy stuff you can use for a good conversation.
BOOM.
Problem solved.
Plus, by getting her
friends back in on the conversation, you avoid that "creepy guy hitting
on their friend" situation.
You may know this one, too, where you're talking with a woman,
and suddenly one of her friends drags her away to go talk
with some other "friend."
What really happened
there was that the girl you were talking to used her "chick code" (those looks women share that seem
telepathic) to say, "I need to find a new conversation..."
These are just some of the techniques and
strategies you will learn in my dating manual, The Dating Black
Book.
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You
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How to Avoid the top
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How to use your "Power Points" -
How to seduce a woman with your innate qualities and strengths
Learn the Secret Attitudes behind
the Myths of the Nice Guy, the Jerk, the Natural... Find out which one
you are, and how to get to be the type of guy that women want...
Why
you must avoid the "Poison Women" -
Who they are and why you never want to get caught in their traps...
The Program Woman - Who she is, and how
you can spot her and handle her before you're forced to "settle"...
Understand what true "compatibility" is,
and how to really attract women that are like you - not the women that
annoy you or make you wish you were home watching "The Godfather" for
the 40th time...
The Principle of
Truth, and how it will increase your success with women instantly
when you recognize where you've been hiding in denial...
The Dating Continuum explained
- the architecture of relationships, from start to finish...
- Where
to meet women - the kind YOU are interested in...
- How
to pickup women the right way - without the memorized
routines and games...
- Do you ever run out
of things to say in conversations? I'll
show you the right
things to say to women (with examples of
what I say at every point during your
dating) - No more stupid pickup lines
that don't work...
- How to maintain your
posture - and command respect from
every woman (and man) that you meet...
- Leverage the Attitude
Adjusters -
How to keep your confidence with women
on track, and avoid the inner game traps
that destroy a man's confidence and self-esteeem...
- How to handle conflict
and win
arguments with women so that you
appear strong and cool...
- What's really happening
beneath the surface when a woman tests
you or plays her games...
- How to talk to
women, without having to memorize scripts or hokey seduction
patterns... and leave her feeling as if you're the
only man around
that can give her what she really wants...
- The Psychology of
Dating:
- What women want from
men - in words, action, and attitude...
- What women really mean
when
they
say "Are you a player?" or "Are you seeing
anyone else?" -
and how
to answer
her questions
so that
you not
only
increase
her attraction
to you,
she will
sense
your
confidence
and Alpha
Power...
- Female
tests and
traps,
and specifically
how to
handle
them...
- The
Secrets of Dating Persuasion - Find out what a woman
is looking for in your body language, your tone of voice, and
words to decide whether you will be her next boyfriend - or just
another friend...
- Kinesthetics -
exactly where, when, and how you should touch a woman
to get her aching with desire, and understand at a primitive level that
you are a dominant and masculine presence...
- Sure-fire
ways to approach women that you can use to walk up and start
a conversation with a woman in just minutes
- and walk away with her phone number every
time. AND you'll know that she will answer
your call when you get around to it...
- Three essential things
you must NEVER do when you walk up and talk
to a woman...
- My simple 2-step training
method to get you from being afraid to approach
women, to talking with any attractive woman
that you see...
- 6
Methods to have a
woman feeling a powerful magnetic attraction
for you on your first date that will establish
you as unique in her mind...
- How to handle all the
basics of outer game with your appearance,
grooming, your car, your home - everything
a woman will see - and how she will interpret
it...
- 6
Ways you can confuse a woman into feeling
inescapable attraction for you, and how this one psychological principle
is the most powerful ingredient of attraction
in your arsenal...
- Ever wonder what the
really "Alpha" guys out there have? Starting
on page 83, I analyze and break down the
key elements of what women look for in "masculine"
men...
- The
5 Reasons you must do exactly the opposite
of what most men do when they find a woman they really want
- and how this can kill your game with women
completely if you don't know the rules...
- The most important emotion
a woman can experience with you, and the
3 parts of it...
- How
the "Cycle of Self-Confidence" works, and how you can stop letting women
rattle your cage by learning the "suit of
armor" principle...
- The
3 Myths that you
must understand about what women think of "Jerks,"
"Nice Guys," and "Destiny..."
- 15
Attraction Killing behaviors - chances are you're doing one
or more of these without even knowing it...
- The
3 Primary Desire Factors - what they are,
how they work, and the one that can destroy
a relationship quicker than anything else...
- The
Big Trap and the Big Myth of Game Playing
- Two more deadly
pitfalls to avoid when dating women - and
how guys "learn" their anger toward women
accidentally...
- Why women put up defensive
shields to you, and how you can easily talk
past them and create REAL connections...
- 13
simple words that
will get you a phone number every time...
- On page 131, I explain
how to get rid of your fear of rejection,
and the one word that impacts your self-image
more than anything else...
- 7
Ways to create anticipation and desire
in a woman - and these are simply
things you should NOT do, and take no effort
or energy on your part...
- Why
do women tell you, "Let's just be friends"? The two big mistakes
men make that lead to this - and how to avoid
it for good...
- The
ABB rule of how
to keep a woman's interest level in you as
high as possible for as long as possible...
- Beware
the "Date Questionnaire" mode, where a woman steers you with questions
- and before you know it, you've lost control.
I'll point out the questions you should never
ask, or answer...
- Male Panic Syndrome
- How to recognize the deadly downward spiral
that turns nice guys into total wimps for
women - with a word for word example...
- Learn the 5
Steps in my Relationship Maintenance program -
Not every guy wants to date around forever,
so when you're done having fun, you'll
know how to keep the good women that you
date...
- Why you never need to
be jealous of other guys hitting on your
girl ever again - in fact, you will WANT them to do this when you know why...
- The signals to know
when to call it quits with a woman, and how
to handle it...
- The
2 Ultimate Tools of control in relationships - and how to
use them to create better and more authentic
connections with women...
- The two primary types
of women to watch for, and which kind you
must avoid at all costs...
- My
super calming tactic I discovered that defuses emotional situations
with women and keeps you from losing your
cool...
- How YOU can turn the
tables and test women - instead of the other
way around...
- How
to handle the questions you can't handle
from women - What to say,
and the basic principle of how to manage
your natural (and dangerous) reflexes with
women...
- How to handle it when
you feel under emotional "attack" from a
woman so that you don't give up your power,
and you make her feel even MORE attraction...
- My most important rule
for all men: The Contention
Principle - what
it is, and why you must use it to avoid getting
stuck in dead-end relationships with women
that drain you dry...
- The top
9 ways you can
spot your own attitude problems and resolve
them before you find yourself wussing out
with a woman - or worse...
- The
Comfort Factor & Novelty Syndrome - two more dangerous mental
traps you must avoid - and how to recognize
them when they happen - AND how they make
you settle for a woman that is less than
what you could have...
- The Truth About
Giving A Woman Mind-Blowing Sex - what you're doing wrong, and
how to please her on a whole new level, so that she'll not only come
back for more, her friends will even smile knowingly at you...
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Less than 5% of all men will ever get really good
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I bet that 19 out of 20 guys will say
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not my type..."or"I'm
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Thanks
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