SPECIAL REPORT:
Why Are You Treating Her Like a Princess ...?
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Hey, it's Carlos here...
I got an email from someone this morning that I wanted
to share with you. I think there's a very important message here about women
that you'll want to know...
QUESTION:
I've always wondered why my mom told me that line about women wanting to
be treated like a princess. She basically raised me (my dad was always away
for work, and eventually they got divorced.)
And whenever we talked about girls when I was in
high school, she told me to always treat a woman "nice." I assumed
this meant that I should treat her like royalty, and that the more I adored
her, the more she'd love me back.
Now I'm finding that what you say is true: Women really don't want a man
that gives them what they want. They seem to want the guy they CAN'T get.
Why do women tell guys this message when it's so clearly wrong?
-Jim, Memphis, TN
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
It's not just wrong, Jim, it's downright DAMAGING.
You're right that women do give off mixed and confusing
messages, and more often than not, it's not a deliberate attempt to misinform.
It's simply a form of the "Telephone Game."
Do you remember playing it?
Sitting in a circle, one kid would whisper a
sentence they read off a card to the person next to them, and then each person
would whisper it all around the ring. The last person to hear the sentence
would stand up and say what they heard aloud, and then the first person would
read the original sentence again.
They were usually completely different, and in a funny way.
The same thing happens inside a woman's min: Her emotions
communicate to her thoughts. Her thoughts then get translated to her lips
as words.
And when the final message is picked up by your ears and
interpreted by the Male Mind, the meaning is almost totally different than
her original intent.
You have to remember that women speak "Emotion-ese." And
it's not a language that guys are particularly savvy to.
Here's the message YOU hear:
"Women want me to be a Nice Guy - to treat
her like a princess."
Here's what you DO (all of them wrong, by the way):
- Buy her gifts
- Giving in to all her requests and
demands
- Fear her anger
- Avoid her emotions
Now, here's what women REALLY mean when they say, "I
want a Nice Guy..."
TRANSLATION: "I want a man who won't MIS-treat
me, AND he makes me FEEL like a woman - more than I can for myself."
The ultimate proof of an Alpha Man - the factor that decides whether she
loves or she leaves - is the feeling of completion in HERSELF that she feels
when she's with him.
You see, it's not like that hokey Jerry Maguire "You complete me" nonsense.
No one really completes another person. That's neurotic,
dysfunctional, and doomed.
What completes a woman is the way you bring
out the best in HER.
How do you do this?
By providing a masculine power and
presence around her at all times.
- Instead of buying her something (which feels like
prostitution more than affection), give her an experience like
she's never had before.
- Instead of giving in, CHALLENGE her. Show
her a man that can handle the temporary disapproval of a woman. (More and more rare these days, but
ask any sane woman and she'll tell you it's a requirement.)
- Instead of fearing
her anger, remember that respect is always more important. No woman respects
a man that fears her. Stop using television sitcom husbands as role models.
- Instead
of avoiding her emotions, let them flow past you like
the wind. They are
made of as much substance. After her storm has passed, your ability stand
and ignore her "acting up" is what separates you from the
boys who run scared from unfamiliar experience.
The Alpha Man always acts with his best interests in mind - knowing that
if she is the right woman for him, those best interests are also HERS.
She doesn't want a Nice Guy; she wants an Alpha
Man that knows how to hear
what she's FEELING, not what she's saying.
I can show you the way to become a new MAN.
The kind of man that makes those losers on television and movies seem like
clerks at the convenience store.
If you're even a little bit curious, you need to look at this right now:
THE
ALPHA IMMERSION
"Carlos -
"In the short time that I've been tuned in to your advice in
its many forms (newsletters, podcast, blogs, etc.) I've seen real
(or is that R.E.A.L.?!) tangible results in my life that go above
and beyond success with women.
"When I saw that you were offering the Alpha
Immersion DVD set, you had me at "Hey, check out my new program...".
"Wow. I have to say it's by far the most comprehensive set of
tools - hell, attitudes - I've ever come across in my foray
into the "data advice/guru" quagmire. And it is a
quagmire - there's so much out there, and so much of it lacking. I liken
a majority of it to the quick fixes peddled by snake oil salesmen in
the old west.
"Building a lifestyle and a mindset based in the Alpha principle
has turned out to be life-altering. Attracting women is but a mere -
albeit welcome - side effect.
"While into the program, I can't tell you how many times I found
myself going, "Ahhhhh...." as in "Eureka" even when
you would relate the smallest detail (everything from, "so THAT's
what I've been doing wrong," to "oh, THAT's what women think.") I've
made it through the
4-DVDs once so far, and I'm already looking, feeling, and acting
better... being a better MAN...
"The biggest thing I've gotten out of the
Alpha Immersion program - thus far - is the philosophy of "Just
act...now". There is no substitution for ACTION. And it's incredibly
effective when coupled with the skills and knowledge - both the basic
and the advanced - that you relate. One can watch and read all he wants,
but it's useless without action. Your inspiration and tips on HOW to
just act have made it worthwhile.
"In closing - thanks. I have to say, also, that my purchase process
was quick and easy, and my materials were delivered promptly. A pleasant
suprise. I've done my best to keep this brief, and just can't seem to!
I could go on and on...
"All the best,
J.D.
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