SPECIAL REPORT:
Do You Ever
Feel Like a Geek Who Can't Attract Women...?
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Hey, it's Carlos here...
I had some thoughts this morning that I wanted to share with you...
You know, a lot of guys are ashamed (secretly) of their own lives. It's not
overt, but it's there. And it causes incredible problems with their ability
to build attraction and confidence socially.
Ask yourself these questions:
- Have you ever felt like you couldn't share a part of your life with
a woman because she would think you were weird?
- Have you ever thought of
yourself as "geeky" or "nerdy"?
- Have you ever felt like there was 'nothing special' about your life
that a woman would be interested in?
Well, let me tell you a couple things about what you might
be ashamed of.
1) Feel a little weird?
Everyone has a part of their lives that they think
of as kind of "strange" or "weird."
EVERYONE. Which means this is an excellent place to create
rapport and deep bonding.
Just find a way to talk about the weird things in your life (showing her
that you recognize that it's a little weird), and then get her to confess
to her weirdness.
This works like you wouldn't believe.
YOU: "So I have to admit, I was once on the
honor roll at school. But I wore a leather jacket, so my friends never gave
me a hard time. What's something that no one knows about your high school
days?"
HER: "Well, I'll make a confession. I used
to skip my last class every few days so I could get a ride home where my
girlfriends and I would watch our soap operas."
A little cross-disclosure like this will create a feeling of strong rapport.
2) You're a little geeky?
Let me tell you, everyone has a geeky interest of some kind.
You want to know mine?
How about: Star Trek, fantasy role playing games (only on my Sony PSP), and
astrophysics. I also get a little wood when I see pictures taken from the
surface of other planets.
Dorky?
You bet.
But let me tell you this: Every girl has a geeky interest
that she would be embarrassed to talk about, but once you get it out of her,
she's clay in your hands. She won't be able to resist you because you'll have
gotten past her icy persona that was created to keep the weak men away.
I've been able to convert several girlfriends over to Star
Trek - The Next Generation simply by explaining that it's a soap opera
in space. There's conflict, romance, and the occasional tentacled Alpha
Centaurian.
The second I reframe it
like this, it spikes their curiosity.
3) Nothing special about you?
Everyone has an interesting life. You just find your own life a little dull
because you've been living with it your WHOLE LIFE. Spend 20 or 30 years in
the same mind and body and it all seems so dull after a while.
But I guarantee you that if you spent a few moments thinking back on your
life, you'd come up with some great stuff. All you need is a short anecdote
about your childhood (how you got in trouble usually makes a very cool story)
and you're on your way.
(I also cover other ways of developing cool life stories in the Alpha
Man program.)
All of your fears are COMPLETELY
NORMAL. But we're afraid to expose them
because it would make us VULNERABLE.
Let me tell you something else:
Vulnerability is VERY cool.
You see, a lot of the "hardcore" pickup
guys might tell you that you need to be super dominant, show her high social
proof and strength. They're right ... to a degree.
But the one thing a woman recognizes up front is that only the strong man
can be vulnerable.
It's a little dilemma of logic that you don't need to worry about. All you
have to do is WORK it.
How do you use this knowledge to your advantage?
Next time you're out and talking to women - and while you're in the process
of building attraction through my strategies - take a second to tell her something
about your past that is a little (and I mean just a LITTLE) funny and embarrassing.
This will show that you don't take yourself too seriously, and it will show
her that your ego (the big killer of relationships for guys) isn't going to
run amok.
For example, I like to work with the obvious: I'm thin.
Athletic and strong, but thin.
So I will tell a woman: "You know when I was
a kid, I was really skinny. My mom used to say that I had to run around
in the shower to get wet."
Or: "My mom used to tell me I was so skinny,
if I turned sideways, I'd disappear."
It's cute and it's a little self-deprecating (which is
different than self-insulting. Please - never put
yourself down to get pity.)
You see how this works?
Your limitations are almost ALWAYS a key to stronger game with women.
I can guarantee you that there's nothing about you (including disabilities
and physical limitations) that someone else hasn't turned into something positive
for their game with women.
NOTHING.
Nada.
In fact, thinking that you have limitations is really a cop-out. Because
while you're curled up on the couch with a box of tissue and crying about
the fact that you can't attract women because you're ...
... too fat
... too thin
... too poor
... too old
WHATEVER...
While you're focused on that crap, you're really just giving yourself an
excuse to NOT TAKE ACTION.
It's always easier to give up than put your energy into winning.
But the secret I want you to know about is that it takes a lot LESS energy
to win than it does to go on losing.
If you're ready to take control of your life, start attracting beautiful
women into your world, and you're ready to drop the ego, the excuses, and
the X-box 360 controller for a few hours...
I can show you the way to become a new MAN.
The kind of man that makes those losers on television and movies seem like
clerks at the convenience store.
If you're even a little bit curious, you need to look at this right now:
The Secrets
of Being The Alpha Male.
When you understand the way the Alpha
Male works, this becomes more and more clear...
If you'd like to create your plan for making your life what you want, develop
confidence, attract women, accumulate wealth, find happiness...
It's all in my Alpha
Man Immersion program.
I know there are some guys who won't understand how these concepts go together,
but all success in life is linked together by some common principles.
If you're not getting what you want from life, you need to make some changes.
Stop putting your destiny off until some other 'convenient'
time...
Discover your inner Alpha
Male now...
Do you want to start learning how to dramatically
improve your self-confidence with real, time-proven
methods?
Are you ready to drop that lame "Nice Guy" routine
and start showing her a real Alpha
Male? And it doesn't require you to be some fake "pickup artist" to
attract women. It's actually about bringing out more of YOU than
you have before.
And if you'd like to learn more about my R.E.A.L.
Game ™ and the successful attitudes of an Alpha Man, you should
take a look at the program that will put you on the path - Alpha
Immersion.
This is the ORIGINAL Alpha
Man program that gives you REAL Game with
women.
If you want to hear what everyone has to say about
these books, go to the site and read the reviews.
And then download them now to see why more men get success with my
advice and strategies ...
"Carlos -
"In the short time that I've been tuned in to your advice in
its many forms (newsletters, podcast, blogs, etc.) I've seen real
(or is that R.E.A.L.?!) tangible results in my life that go above
and beyond success with women.
"When I saw that you were offering the Alpha
Immersion DVD set, you had me at "Hey, check out my new program...".
"Wow. I have to say it's by far the most comprehensive set of
tools - hell, attitudes - I've ever come across in my foray
into the "data advice/guru" quagmire. And it is a
quagmire - there's so much out there, and so much of it lacking. I liken
a majority of it to the quick fixes peddled by snake oil salesmen in
the old west.
"Building a lifestyle and a mindset based in the Alpha principle
has turned out to be life-altering. Attracting women is but a mere -
albeit welcome - side effect.
"While into the program, I can't tell you how many times I found
myself going, "Ahhhhh...." as in "Eureka" even when
you would relate the smallest detail (everything from, "so THAT's
what I've been doing wrong," to "oh, THAT's what women think.") I've
made it through the
4-DVDs once so far, and I'm already looking, feeling, and acting
better... being a better MAN...
"The biggest thing I've gotten out of the
Alpha Immersion program - thus far - is the philosophy of "Just
act...now". There is no substitution for ACTION. And it's incredibly
effective when coupled with the skills and knowledge - both the basic
and the advanced - that you relate. One can watch and read all he wants,
but it's useless without action. Your inspiration and tips on HOW to
just act have made it worthwhile.
"In closing - thanks. I have to say, also, that my purchase process
was quick and easy, and my materials were delivered promptly. A pleasant
suprise. I've done my best to keep this brief, and just can't seem to!
I could go on and on...
"All the best,
J.D.
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"The difference between
great people and everyone else is that great people create their lives
actively, while everyone else is created by their lives, passively
waiting to see where life takes them next."
- Michael E. Gerber
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