CARLOS XUMA'S NEWSLETTER:
"Saved from the brink of doom..."
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Carlos Xuma and the TRUTH About Dating and
Attraction...
Because every
man is self-made, but only the SUCCESSFUL admit it.
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Go to Youtube.com and lookup the following video:
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A little something from Carlos to his Alpha brothers out there...
With my message: Find something to be EXCELLENT at
and women will be drawn to you.
Rock on!
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So I got this email the other day. I'm not going to share
it here, but I will share the whole letter with you guys on the Advanced
Coaching.
Basically it was a guy who had really reached
his last straw and was about to call it quits for this world, if
you know what I mean. He was about to fill out his exit visa for Planet
Earth... and then he stumbled across my program.
Listen as he tells the story:
"Just over a year ago I was sitting in an empty house
after my ex cleaned me out, broke with a disciplinary action pending against
me at work that I was certain would end in losing my job. My relationship
with my parents, friends, and colleagues was at an all time low as was my
self-esteem and confidence. The only thing that was high is my blood alcohol
level as after yet another of night heavy drinking trying to dull the pain
I was staring at my loaded gun and contemplating that it may be better just
to pull that trigger and make an easy exit from this hell that my life has
become.
Why? How did it come to this?
Because for the most part of my 35 years on this earth
I have been the nicest of all nice guys! I had a freaking statue erected
on the main square in supplicationville where the worst of the approval
seeking toads live!"
Whoah... Intense.
What he did was start listening to my programs and changing his thinking.
He turned his life back around.
(Insert happy ending here...)
And he wrote to me to say that this is his new experience:
I could go on and on and on but it is time to finish now. I must to get to
the best birthday celebration I ever had. This Alpha
man is 1 year old and
ship of his life is no longer a drifting wreckage it is now a shining huge
frigate confidently navigating to his mapped out destination and his bristling
new cannons are loaded with huge bronze balls!
Thank You Carlos, My dearest friend!
No... thank YOU for doing the work. I'm
just a guide here. I take no credit other than offering you the information
that you grabbed and ran off with. You sculpted yourself with the tools I
provided.
Now, I'll tell YOU, dear reader, how
to discover this path later in this email...
Read on...
QUESTION: Ready
to get a Steady ...
Hi Carlos,
I've been reading your news letters for about a year now ... I've actualy
found [a particular entry] the most useful, because of what you say about
it being an entire mind set. Not, a bunch sneaky ways to get a women into
bed. From what you say, it is a lifestyle, which you emphasise far more than
the other entries. The whole idea that you have to have this strong sense
of self-respect for yourself so true in ALL areas of your life, not just women.
That definitely has had the biggest influence on me. The confidence it has
given me is enormous, and yes I have been having problems with this girl,
but overal, since I started reading, i've never looked back.
I've got a small issue i'd like to share with you. I've been dating a girl
for 5 months now, however I'm beginning to be concerned with her interest
levels. Initially everything was good.
However recently we've been to a few parties together and most of the people
are her school friends, who I get on with, but don't really know very well.
Then she just leaves me to go off and have a laugh with them.
This I don't have a huge problem, but little things in her body language
suggest a disinterest in me, and an interest in other guys. Now I know this
sounds like I'm becoming insecure, but come on! if you're going to a party
with your boyfriend you don't just leave them as soon as you walk in! So I
kept myself calm, and went of to have fun with some of her other friends and
danced with some other girls. Not that I don't mind too much, but I get the
feeling I'm being treated as a commodity, and I don't like it.
Recently, she showing all the signs of strong attraction towards this other
guy, and I really had to just take a walk, I didn't know quite what to do.
Every time I think of this it makes me feel so angry at myself for letting
this happen, that fact that I now would appear to be second best (and I hate
coming second in anything!).
Honestly, I feel like dumping her right now, but I can't as I'm going on
holiday with her to finland in two weeks.What do you think I should do?
Thanks
AC
CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:
There's a lot of emotional dynamics to understand
in this game, too. It's not something that a lot of other guys cover, because
admitting the emotionality of it somehow makes you feel a little "girly
man."
But it won't.
I'm immersed right now in some research regarding emotional motivations,
and I'll be adding this understanding to the content of the Advanced
Coaching program. But suffice to say, right now, you are using anger to avoid the feelings
of sadness that are harder to deal with.
It's a universal defense mechanism that men and women both use.
Yes, you are starting to sound like you're losing
your frame and self-confidence based on her reaction.
Look, it's normal to want a woman to reciprocate her feelings. But the honest
truth of the matter is that you can't MAKE her feel anything. All you can
do is act based on PRINCIPLE, and then invest a little energy in giving her
a fun experience with you.
After that, you simply use the strategies for demonstrating
your Alpha Man character, and hope this girl is smart enough (and SANE enough)
to make the right decision. If she doesn't, NEXT!
Jealousy will come up from time to time, as it has with this new guy that's
spiking her interest.
But I guarantee you this: If you have other prospects
you are working on at the same time, you won't feel so jealous! You'll be
in an "abundance" mindset,
instead of scarcity.
Hey, you've got a competitive streak. You don't like to lose.
That's good!
But beating yourself up over the one that got away will only set your attitude
back even further, and cause unnecessary emotional turmoil.
Spank yourself, and then move on!
It's time to learn from your mistakes, correct them, and then find the next
girl that you can get on with.
And let this be a lesson to never pre-commit to
travel with a woman unless she's YOURS. (i.e., you're sleeping with her
and you're a "couple.")
I say you dump her anyway, go to Finland ALONE, and pickup
women there. There's
no reason you should throw more good money after bad on someone like this.
Don't ruin your Holiday.
Make it what you WANT it to be...
And if you want to learn the Advanced
Communication Strategies that I use to get women interested and KEEP them interested,
you should look at this: Alpha
Man Conversation & Persuasion
Chances are, you're placing too much importance on finding
a woman rather than finding your purpose here on this planet.
Paul Coelho describes it as your Personal Legend.
I call it your Alpha Man destiny.
You must find it - and it's not
a woman.
But a woman makes a great companion on the journey! Which
is why I show you how to find this destiny, AND attract women that you want
into your sphere of Alpha influence.
CLICK
HERE TO FIND OUT MORE ...
If you need to learn more about how to find your
Alpha Man Destiny,
then you need to get a look at this:
CLICK
HERE: The Secrets of the Alpha Man.
Women are attracted to the leader.
The Alpha Man.
Look, the reality is that True success with
women requires a firm
sense of direction in life, and self-confidence.
But you hear that all the time, don't you?
"Just be confident."
You'll hear that nugget of advice from a lot of
guys out there, but the difference is that they'll say "be confident," and
not give you ONE single method of actually improving
your confidence.
That's where I will help you.
I spent years trying out various self-help programs, studying my own inner
psychology (and inner wuss, too.) I figured out which things make a difference
and will genuinely help you improve your inner game
with women.
When a woman detects that you've got passions and direction in your life
- even if that passion is to improve to be more attractive
to women - then
they'll want to come along for the ride.
I saw it over and over again as I went down this road.
Now, I also mapped this development, and I want you to benefit from my
experience.
There's no reason you should have to take as long as I did to make these changes
to your own life.
For those of you out there reading this right now
that aren't sure how to calibrate to the "Alpha
Man" ideal, I have
something for you that you will find LIFE-CHANGING.
Click here
right now to find out what I'm talking about, or just read on...
A lot of the situations
guys write in about are a bit unclear because many guys delude themselves
as to their real level of success with
women. The reality is that most guys DO
NOT get what they
want from their interactions and relationships with women.
Shitty as that is, there is a cure for the common Lonely
Single Guy.
It's called EDUCATION.
It's the only way to stop being a whipped,
scared, beta guy and get your love life under your control again.
If you could learn secrets to attract
women, would you?
Can you see past
your ego defense mechanisms and embrace the power of the Alpha Man?
When you have enough women and action in your life, you
won't feel like you need to analyze or chase every chick that comes into your
sphere of influence. And that's a good thing. You'll act on it because
you've got a sense
of abundance in your life.
If you'd like to create your plan for making your life what you want, develop
confidence, attract women, accumulate wealth, find happiness...
I know there are some guys who won't understand how these concepts go together,
but all success in life is linked together by some common
principles.
If you're not getting what you want from life, you need to make some changes.
Stop putting your destiny off until some other 'convenient'
time...
Discover your inner Alpha
Man now... Click HERE
to learn more...
Listen
to what the other gurus are saying about Carlos' work...
"Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success
with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his
craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!"
- Scot McKay, X & Y
Communications, DeserveWhatYouWant.com
"Carlos Xuma is the REAL DEAL! If you are serious about
creating an extraordinary relationship. You will learn more about the
needs and desires of women than they do themselves! I highly recommend
Carlos to any man who is ready to get the woman of his dreams.
I love his game, its 100% real."
- the dean, Dating4Men.com
"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS
what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond
the pick-up lines and approach techniques that so many guys use
and fail with. Rather, Carlos gives guys everywhere practical, valuable
advice that will make men attractive not just for one night, but for many,
many years. He lays down the foundation for becoming a NATURALLY attractive
man, full of confidence and the ability to fully ENJOY being around hot
babes.
Unlike other pickup artists, Carlos shares information that helps you
not only in one area of life, but in many: in social relationships, at
work, sports, with personal goals. He'll help make you a well-rounded,
self-believing alpha MAN who's capable of just about anything.
And seducing gorgeous, high-quality women, is just the beginning."
- James Brito, How
to Be Irresistible to Women
"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction'
community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction,
and Explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his
character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character.
He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to
the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women
truly crave in a man."
- Grant Adams, CEO
- net2bed.com
"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior.
You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How
do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics -
it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find
sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."
- Joe Quirk, Author
of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"
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Remember what Carlos says:
"NO WOMAN has the self-control to STOP pursuing that
which she TRULY desires..."
Learn more about R.E.A.L.
Game (TM) and the successful attitudes of an Alpha Man: Take a look
at the original program that will put you on the path - Alpha
Immersion. This is the ORIGINAL Alpha
Man program that gives you the REAL Game with women.
Prove it to yourself - If you want to hear all the great
things everyone has to say about these books, go to the site and read the
reviews. And then download them now to see why more men get success with
my advice and strategies ...
CLICK
HERE TO LEARN MORE...
Listen to what this guy says about his experience
learning the Truth:
"I have purchased your Dating
Black Book and Approach
Women Now CD series. I have to tell you that after
reading the book and listening to the CDs I could help but feel
like the dorkiest man alive. I have let woman control my emotions
and have responded to them instead of them responding to me.
I always came off as a needy unconfident pervert!
"... I have learned to set standards and
not let a woman test me without busting their balls. I hope that if
I keep this up I will eventually find a woman that qualifies to be
in my life.
"One big thing too, if a woman sees that
I have things going on in my life, they tend to be more interested
instead of the bore I used to be. I have the motivation now to follow
my dreams and if a woman wants to be part of that then so be it, but
I have learned not to let a woman pull me off course of where I want
to go and do in my life..."
"Hey carlos, thank you for the Secrets
of the Alpha Man course. I think I must've listened to the
CDs four or five times now !
"The confidence I've gained in meeting
da ladeez at work and socially has been tremendous. I was never
skeptical at your
program, but was interested/concerned as how I would notice
the changes in myself. The clincher was when several of my closest
friends ... pointed out to me that I had confidence in so many ways!
"Thank you so much for your hard work for
making it easier for the rest of us!"
- Richie from UK
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EMAIL FORM.
"The difference between
great people and everyone else is that great people create their lives
actively, while everyone else is created by their lives, passively
waiting to see where life takes them next."
- Michael E. Gerber
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