NEWSLETTER:
LIVE FROM BELGRADE, SERBIA - IT'S CARLOS!
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Carlos Xuma and the TRUTH About Dating and
Attraction...
Because every
man is self-made, but only the SUCCESSFUL admit it.
Well, sports fans, I'm here in Belgrade, Serbia, doing
a bootcamp and creating Alpha Men here in Eastern Europe, and I'm about to
tell you something fascinating...
Guys here have almost no game.
They just don't approach
women here. Can you believe it?
I went out with my newest instructor ( I'm keeping him
a secret for a bit, but you're about to meet him very soon) to do some approaches
on the street. He's a master of approach, and his day game is excellent. I
coached him today, and I'm scared of what he's going to accomplish in the
next few weeks.
Yes, we walked up to women ON THE
STREET and started talking to them and
getting their phone numbers.
And it is EASY.
Is it because Belgrade is easy? The women are different?
Well, yes and no.
They are only different in our minds. They are just women, like everywhere
else.
And I'm going to put some of the video of these approaches
in an upcoming video portion of the AAC program. (You can get it if you subscribe HERE)
You'll also be able to get my field reports on this soon, too.
Right now, I'm sitting next to a couple where the guy
is trying VERY hard
to make a girl like him.
He's sitting right next to her, not across from her. (BIG MISTAKE #1)
He's leaning in close every five seconds ( I'm not exaggerating) and doing
goofy shit for laughs. (Normally, funny is good, but this is dorky. BIG MISTAKE
#2)
He's not reading her body language and facial expressions correctly. (BIG
MISTAKE #3)
He's forcing interaction and eye contact is almost constant - like a needy
puppy. (BIG MISTAKE #4.)
Do I really need to go on?
Everything this guy does says TRYHARD
- TRYHARD - TRYHARD...
Unfortunately he wasn't in our bootcamp this weekend. That's too bad. As
a result, there is a ton of stuff he's going to cook into his game that will
make it HARDER and HARDER to fix later on.
I could fix his body language in a minute that would INSTANTLY make him more
attractive to her. I could almost guaran-freakin-tee that she gives him the
kiss of a lifetime. TONIGHT!
This opportunity is only six feet from him, and he doesn't even realize it. I'll just sit here and keep eating my Bibioteka chips and beef. (Oh, they
are SO good...)
In fact, the opportunity is right in front of YOU right now, too.
I cover all the critical lifeskills of an Alpha
Man, and I can pass them
on to you, if you're interested.
Doesn't that sound cRaZy? "Hey, are you interested in the information
that will make you a more confident and successful man?" Sounds like
some hyped up sales pitch, but it's not.
They are secrets that ANY man can learn.
But not every man WILL.
He'll probably let his ego get in the way, trying to be cool, trying to avoid
the discomfort that comes when you realize you have some changes you need
to make.
But I sure would hate it if you didn't get this chance.
Keep reading and I'll tell you more about how to get it after the questions.
(Or, if you're in a hurry, just go here...)
On with the questions!
QUESTION: Relax,
it's not gay, dude ...
I read your book and I really enjoy it. I think it's one of the greatest
books I ever read it. After I read it I sayd to myself that I had to do something,
to take action.
I started to make some lists with things I like/don't like,
what I should change about me, what I think that is good and wrong, my principles
about life, etc but I got stuck at the beginig.Man, I think this list writing
it's sort of not manly. I think it's something that a women does not a man.
It's like some sort of fucking Oprah therapy in my opinion.
But I also heard
that this things worked for many guys. I guess it's just hard for me to write
down these things.I want to tell me your opinion. If I do this thing it will
work? or I will fall on some "express your feelings and be a girly man" sort
of thing...
I hope you give me advice on this. I am not saying I wouldn't
do it I just say I think it's sort of not manly.
CARLOS ANSWERS:
It sounds as if you're
a little hung up on this "manly" thing. I think I detect a little gender insecurity - and maybe insecurity in your own
sexuality. List writing is one of the most important traits of almost every
successful man in history.
Why would you say
that this is "Oprah therapy?" Being
able to realize your inner workings and motivations allows you to control
your destiny instead of being another ship afloat in the ocean of life.
Just don't get caught up in the process of self-exploration. THAT is where
a lot of guys get too touchy-feely, in my opinion. Unless you've got some
agonizing trauma in your past, leave your inner child
alone.
Remember the inscription above the doorway to the
Oracle in "The Matrix"?
Tenet Noscere.
KNOW YOURSELF.
Trust me, my friend ... I do not put men on trips to feminine
destinations. Have you read the title of my program?
Secrets of the ALPHA MAN.
Not "Secrets
of the Wussy I -Wanna-Be-A-Chick."
In my program, I detail the
traits that make an Alpha Man the next likely step in the evolution of men
everywhere.
You see, women don't need men for the things they once did. We
need to incorporate the best of our past attractive skills (which most men
have sadly lost due to being raised in single-parent (mom) families) and the
best of our new requirements:
- Cunning
- Social Savvy
- Emotional intelligence
Among many others.
You know what IS important about being "manly"?
Continued ...
CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO...
Growing.
An Alpha Man who is secure in his masculinity is willing to do whatever
he needs to in order to improve himself.
As you grow and develop your awareness of yourself,
you won't fall into "girly
man" behaviors, unless that's what you want.
Your behavior isn't some kind of slippery slope that you'll fall into, and
POOF, you'll wake up a year from now a gay guy or something.
YOU control your behavior. Through intent and belief.
So get that paper out and start making lists. Start with a list of your goals
for yourself, of the kind of man you want to be.
And then go after it.
The best way (and one that countless men have found to work for them) is
to get the Secrets of the Alpha Man.
Learn how to be all you can be...
QUESTION: Did
you just pinch my ass...?
Hey carlos,
Here's a question that may not crop up very often. Generally my opening game
with women is pretty decent, and initial conversation is one of the strongest
points of my game.
However occasionally the following situation comes up, which leaves me in
a bit of confusion; If I'm in a club or a bar and I walk past a girl (usually
fairly attractive) and she does something like strokes me or squeezes my ass
then pretends to look the other way...
Keeping in mind these girls are usually only about
18 as I'm only 19 myself, so not overly mature, unfortunately.. I prefer
older women ;).So how do I respond (not react ;) to that situation? I have
a few ideas such as a bit of role reversal, pretending to be really offended
or perhaps a sharp "congratualtions" followed
by a smirk. Its got me in a bit of a pickle, what do you think?
Thanks a lot,
Elliot, in the uk!
CARLOS ANSWERS:
Well, if this is a problem, dude, I think you may have to re-define your
expectations.
This is what we (in the attraction biz) call a "high
quality problem."
I think the evolution of a novice to an expert at the game of attracting
women would look like this:
Woman pinches your ass...
1) Beginner: Jumps and looks at her. He smiles and
says, "That was nice!
Do it again! Please?"
2) Novice: Jumps and turns right away to look at
her. He smiles and nods, as if to say, "Yeah, baby!"
Continued
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HERE TO FIND OUT MORE ...
3) Experienced: Turns,
winks at her with a smile and then goes back to what he was doing.
4) Expert: Looks over his shoulder, doesn't smile.
He just identifies the girl and stores it away for future reference. He
turns right back to what he was doing and continues. Later, he approaches
her and says, "If you
wanted to meet me, you should just say hello. How are you doing tonight?"
I'm at a point now where I tend to ignore this behavior in women (they usually
don't do this as they get older, unless there is a LOT of alcohol involved.)
And all the other guys out there hate you for this. Really.
You want to get this kind of attention and game?
It's your first step on the path to truth and understanding the art of attraction.
And it's the stuff you're not getting in these newsletters.
It's the foundation of what I teach, and you need to learn it.
Look, the reality is that True success with women requires a firm
sense of self-confidence.
Now, you'll hear that bit of advice from a lot of
guys out there, but the difference is that they'll say "be confident," and
not give you ONE single method of improving that confidence.
That's where Carlos Xuma enters the game for you. (That's
me, by the way...)
I spent years trying out various self-help programs, studying my own inner
psychology (and inner wuss, too.) I figured out which things make a difference
and will genuinely help you improve your inner game
with women.
When a woman detects that you've got passions and direction in your life
- even if that passion is to improve to be more attractive
to women - then
they'll want to come along for the ride.
I saw it over and over again as I went down this road.
Now, I also mapped this development, and I want you to benefit from my
experience.
There's no reason you should have to take as long as I did to make these changes
to your own life.
For those of you out there reading this right now
that aren't sure how to calibrate to the "Alpha
Man" ideal, I have
something for you that you will find LIFE-CHANGING.
A lot of the situations
guys write in about are a bit unclear because many guys delude themselves
as to their real level of success with
women. The reality is that most guys DO
NOT get what they
want from their interactions and relationships with women.
Shitty as that is, there is a cure for the common Lonely
Single Guy.
It's called EDUCATION.
It's the only way to stop being a whipped,
scared, beta guy and get your love life under your control again.
If you could learn secrets to attract
women, would you?
Can you see past
your ego defense mechanisms and embrace the power of the Alpha Man?
When you have enough women and action in your life, you
won't feel like you need to analyze or chase every chick that comes into your
sphere of influence. And that's a good thing. You'll act on it because
you've got a sense
of abundance in your life.
If you'd like to create your plan for making your life what you want, develop
confidence, attract women, accumulate wealth, find happiness...
Click here to read about the Alpha
Man program.
I know there are some guys who won't understand how these concepts go together,
but all success in life is linked together by some common
principles.
If you're not getting what you want from life, you need to make some changes.
Stop putting your destiny off until some other 'convenient'
time...
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to learn more...
"Carlos, my man! I can't thank you enough for the valuable information you have shared
with me and how open my eyes have become to the tests and challenges
that women have put on me all my life.
"I would have to
say that your Alpha
Man Program is one of the
best solutions to getting this part of your life in order, as well
as, getting you where you want to be mentally to attract more of the
caliber women we all want in our lives. I hope we have a lasting relationship
in the form of mental growth for many years to come and thanks again
buddy..."
- Javier
"Hey carlos, thank
you for the Secrets
of the Alpha Man course. I think I must've listened to the cd's four or five times now !
"The
confidence I've gained in meeting da ladeez at work and socially has
been tremendous. I was never skeptical at your
program, but was interested/concerned
as how I would notice the changes in myself. The clincher was when
several of my closest friends ... pointed out to me that I had confidence
in so many ways!
"Thank you so much
for your hard work for making it easier for the rest of us!"
- Richie from UK
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Teddy
Shabba of Dating Advice Coach Reviews The
Dating Black Book:
"Too many books dealing with
meeting and dating women focus on techniques instead of the basic fundamentals
of what actually attracts women to men.
In fact this is the main reason why so many nice
guys have problems actually getting any further than the first few dates
with women and that's if they find the courage to actually use the techniques
on women.
However, Carlos Xuma in his book The
Dating Black Book shows men the basic fundamentals of attracting
and being successful with women.
The
Dating Black Book starts off explaining the importance of actually
improving yourself and building self confidence to attract women.
If you are looking for a sugar coated version of
what it is going to take then this is Not the book for you.
After covering the different aspects of your inner
game as well as how to build your self confidence, Carlos moves on to
actually show you how to find a girlfriend or women for a long-term
relationship.
Many times men have a tendency to get comfortable
with a woman quite early and end up in a relationship they do not want
and do not know how to get out of.
The
Dating Black Book helps you understand what to look for in a good
woman and what to watch out for in a Not so good woman.
To finish off the book, Carlos quickly covers the
basics on sex as well as some additional resources for men to read that
will help improve a man's life in general.
Overall, if you have ever read anything that Carlos
Xuma has written on dating and women then you already know that he has
a lot of very useful information and knowledge to give men, and The
Dating Black Book will help you get even more of that information
and knowledge.
I would highly recommend this book to the majority
if not all Nice Guys or Recovering Nice Guys out there who are struggling
with some of the concepts and techniques that other guys teach.
If you want to just be yourself and attract women
then The
Dating Black Book by Carlos Xuma is for you..."
- Teddy Shabba - Dating Advice
Coach.com
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"The difference between
great people and everyone else is that great people create their lives
actively, while everyone else is created by their lives, passively
waiting to see where life takes them next."
- Michael E. Gerber
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