NEWSLETTER:
Handling a Woman's Illogical Behavior
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Carlos Xuma and the TRUTH About Dating and
Attraction...
Because every
man is self-made, but only the SUCCESSFUL admit it.
QUESTION: How
do you interpret a woman's illogical behavior...?
Hey Carlos... How are you my friend?
I've got a question for you.
Why would a 22 year old chick make a Myspace page and
put up a bunch of hot half naked pics of herself and put in her profile she
is single and only looking for friends...?
I just don't get it. What's the point?
CARLOS ANSWERS:
Yes, it is a little strange that a woman would present
this kind of mixed message - Or is it...?
Haven't you ever been around a woman who was wearing
a blouse that shows off her cleavage, and then she gets disgusted when a guy
stares at her boobs?
Hmmm... Did she ACCIDENTALLY put that shirt on?
There are a couple reasons for mixed messages for those
of you that might not be familiar with this:
1) This is a covert link to some kind of porn thing.
Porn is in every corner of the Internet. It's hiding in every little crack
and crevice. Watch out for it and avoid it.
This chick is probably luring guys into some kind of webcam porn thing.
2) She's a typical woman in that she says one thing with her mouth, and another
with her actions.
TRUST ONLY HER ACTIONS!
If you've read my Dating Black Book, you'll know the foundations
of attraction with women.
One of the important psychological rules is that women
are not LOGICAL!
Not even men are as logical as they'd like to think. We
all are run by our EMOTIONS.
So the first mistake is to do anything but watch her actions.
That will tell you all you need to know about her intent and what she's really
thinking.
3) She's a little neurotic.
Some women have been programmed by society (and in
conflict with the sexual image that they are not comfortable with due to poor
development) such that they will display themselves sexually on the outside with
the hope of just luring in attention that will make them feel better about
what's inside.
They tend toward very low self-esteem.
Now my feeling is that you're making the mistake that a lot of guys make
which is that of thinking that what you see on the surface is the whole story.
It isn't.
In fact, it's only a TINY fraction of the real deal.
The mixed message you're trying to interpret is
the one that most guys are confused by when a woman dresses all sexy and
says yes to a date, and then when he gets to the end of the evening she
just pecks him on the cheek, tells him she had a "wonderful" time,
and she thinks that you should just be friends.
AHHHHHGGGH!
That feeling sucks.
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A 22 year old girl is probably not completely aware of what she wants, and
is doing her best to juggle media programming, Hollywood and TV programming,
and the social programming of her friends.
You can see that she's inherited a lot of programming.
Don't buy into the image.
Instead, understand the reality.
You can start to learn about it here, in my e-book. You
can download the Dating
Black Book HERE...
QUESTION: Why
does a woman do one thing when she says another...?
Your newsletters have helped me a lot concerning the chicks. Quickly...to
sum up There is a that girl who is really good looking. I knew her friend
X and I had asked X to tell her I like her and would like to get her number.
She said no but we could be friends.
After some time I somehow befriended her and later she gave X to give me
her number. Fine I felt she was into me, i proposed after a week, she said
no (X told told me she said it was too abrupt) I made it as if it didnt matter
much and now. Later she told me she wants to be alone. She had someone in
her life before.
A couple of times she told me to not expect anything from
her. And the thing is I know she likes me. I know that!! She is into me. I
dont understand that attitude. I know i generate some attraction inm her.
She even told X she really likes me but she doesnt know why she bring it to
the next level. May be its because of her ex??. I really want to get her (and
others) . PLEASE tell me what should I do. (dont tell me to move on please!)
I am waiting for your reply ...
Thank you,
A.
CARLOS ANSWERS:
Well, let's start right out by setting something straight. You're telling
me what advice NOT to give you?
That's balls, bro. Try that with your doctor the next time and see how well
it goes over.
Here's the REALITY, and it is not going to bend over for you, no matter how
hard you may want it to - or tell me not to tell you:
She's just not that into you!
I'm not trying to be mean. You simply didn't use my information to get her
attracted correctly at the start.
Ask yourself this question:
If a woman doesn't ACT like she likes me, and she doesn't do the things that
SHOW me she likes me, does she really like me?
No, she doesn't.
The reason she won't move forward is that she's not feeling ATTRACTION for
you.
Think back to the last woman you liked that you found out liked you, too
(before this gal.) Do you remember what you did about it?
Let me ask you this: Would you have stopped yourself from going after her
if you really liked her?
No, you wouldn't. You would have said, "Cool!" and
proceeded to go along.
So why would a woman SAY one thing and DO another?
This has been the dilemma of the centuries, which I have solved. I reveal
the complete secret in The Dating Black Book. It's hard to cover it all here
in the short space of my blog, but I'll give you a hint:
Wanting something with your LOGICAL mind is COMPLETELY different than wanting
it with your EMOTIONAL heart.
Read that at least ten times. It's THAT important.
Her words are telling you what she THINKS, but that's worthless. A woman
has to desire you with her emotions before she will act on it.
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Otherwise, she's damaged goods. Any person that doesn't act on their healthy
desires is usually emotionally crippled in some way. And it's not a way that
you want to experience, dude.
Look the real problem here is wanting this woman as much
as you do. I can smell it in your words. Hey, that's fine - we've all been
there before. I once called a woman at her house over 30 times one night because
I thought she was out with another guy. I slept 38 minutes that night.
But your case of One-itis is going to be a real problem for your attitude
if you keep chasing women that you didn't do it right with.
You should also find my letter to the guy explaining
the reasons why you don't want to try to "fix" it when this mistake has been made and
she's already put you in the "friends" category. You're fighting
reality, bro, and guess who's going to win?
If you want to know more about the Principle
of Truth that I teach, you can download my e-book
on the Secrets of the Alpha Man.
It's your first step on the path to truth and understanding the art of attraction.
And it's the stuff you're not getting in these newsletters.
It's the foundation of what I teach, and you need to learn it.
Look, the reality is that True success with women requires a firm
sense of self-confidence.
Now, you'll hear that bit of advice from a lot of
guys out there, but the difference is that they'll say "be confident," and
not give you ONE single method of improving that confidence.
That's where Carlos Xuma enters the game for you. (That's
me, by the way...)
I spent years trying out various self-help programs, studying my own inner
psychology (and inner wuss, too.) I figured out which things make a difference
and will genuinely help you improve your inner game
with women.
When a woman detects that you've got passions and direction in your life
- even if that passion is to improve to be more attractive
to women - then
they'll want to come along for the ride.
I saw it over and over again as I went down this road.
Now, I also mapped this development, and I want you to benefit from my
experience.
There's no reason you should have to take as long as I did to make these changes
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"Carlos, my man!
I can't thank you enough for the valuable information you have shared
with me and how open my eyes have become to the tests and challenges
that women have put on me all my life.
"I would have to
say that your Alpha
Man Program is one of the
best solutions to getting this part of your life in order, as well
as, getting you where you want to be mentally to attract more of the
caliber women we all want in our lives. I hope we have a lasting relationship
in the form of mental growth for many years to come and thanks again
buddy..."
- Javier
"Hey carlos, thank
you for the Secrets
of the Alpha Man course.
I think I must've listened to the cd's four or five times now !
"The
confidence I've gained in meeting da ladeez at work and socially has
been tremendous. I was never skeptical at your
program, but was interested/concerned
as how I would notice the changes in myself. The clincher was when
several of my closest friends ... pointed out to me that I had confidence
in so many ways!
"Thank you so much
for your hard work for making it easier for the rest of us!"
- Richie from UK
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Teddy
Shabba of Dating Advice Coach Reviews The
Dating Black Book:
"Too many books dealing with
meeting and dating women focus on techniques instead of the basic fundamentals
of what actually attracts women to men.
In fact this is the main reason why so many nice
guys have problems actually getting any further than the first few dates
with women and that's if they find the courage to actually use the techniques
on women.
However, Carlos Xuma in his book The
Dating Black Book shows men the basic fundamentals of attracting
and being successful with women.
The
Dating Black Book starts off explaining the importance of actually
improving yourself and building self confidence to attract women.
If you are looking for a sugar coated version of
what it is going to take then this is Not the book for you.
After covering the different aspects of your inner
game as well as how to build your self confidence, Carlos moves on to
actually show you how to find a girlfriend or women for a long-term
relationship.
Many times men have a tendency to get comfortable
with a woman quite early and end up in a relationship they do not want
and do not know how to get out of.
The
Dating Black Book helps you understand what to look for in a good
woman and what to watch out for in a Not so good woman.
To finish off the book, Carlos quickly covers the
basics on sex as well as some additional resources for men to read that
will help improve a man's life in general.
Overall, if you have ever read anything that Carlos
Xuma has written on dating and women then you already know that he has
a lot of very useful information and knowledge to give men, and The
Dating Black Book will help you get even more of that information
and knowledge.
I would highly recommend this book to the majority
if not all Nice Guys or Recovering Nice Guys out there who are struggling
with some of the concepts and techniques that other guys teach.
If you want to just be yourself and attract women
then The
Dating Black Book by Carlos Xuma is for you..."
- Teddy Shabba - Dating Advice
Coach.com
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