Do You Want To Attract Women and Get More Dates?

- Carlos Xuma

I had a chance to watch a movie on DVD that I think you guys should take a look at to understand a little about how seduction works, and how being an Alpha Man is necessary to attract women. It's called "Unfaithful," and it stars Richard Gere and Diane Lane.

Now, I'd say the scenes with Diane are steamy enough to warrant the rental, but you'll want to watch the interaction of the French guy who seduces her. Watch the various elements of his approach and style. He goes for a kind of rogue-ish look with his clothes and attitude. And watch how he builds the tension of the seduction from the very start with his humor and steps forwards. There are a few things to be learned here.

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The advice I've been given from these e-mails is incredible! It really does work! Three months ago I had a rather viscious parting with an older girl (which I shall label "A") who believed I was, and I quote "sick", just for liking her, then I found out she had a guy who she hardly ever saw, ever spoke to, and is still with him.

Problem is I work on the same team with her every weekend, she just completely ignored at me and snapped whenever I even spoke to her! Her words were, "I'm really flattered but, it's got to stop", she refused even to see a friend in me...

I put the tips and methods to work on another girl ("B") who had rejected me about two years ago. I turned up with "B" at the official Christmas dinner for the workplace.

Nice little girlie "A" 's jaw soon dropped and avoided me for the evening. I decided that I was now in control and started to play on "A" 's mind! I got very, very close to "B" during that evening and we were passing sexy looks at each other all the time! I even got an invite to bed that evening!

I noticed that "A" had been asking around to find out who "B" exactly was. Whenever she questioned me about it I just gave her the blind eye. I've not started a conversation with "A" since she's done all that, I answer her questions shortly and move away, with the strong appearance that i'm not interested.

I've been playing mind games with her ever since, and she's trying to put on the "happy, friendly" face to me, asking little things like, "oh, how was your flight by the way?", which she doesn't ask anyone else.

" A" now constantly starts little conversations with me, to try and get me to talk to her, but I keep her struggling! "A" even wonders why she's the only one I don't buy drinks for.

It now seems that the tables have turned, instead of me trying to chase her, I've stopped and got my own life and "A" 's wonders why i'm not chasing her anymore! Since then i've acquired a lot more respect from other people at the workplace! Using [your] advice I've turned the whole situation around.

I am in no way nasty to her, I just keep her tugging at the rope to try and
re-gain my friendliness in her. I'm now in control and I will decide when she can have me back. Just a few more weeks, when she really starts talking to me with a bit more confidence and friendliness, then i'll let it go and she can have me.

Thanks for all the great advice!!

DH (U.K)
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CARLOS:

Wow! Great work!

That's the way to turn things around for you. You got a girl you used to have back, and managed to get the one who dissed you interested in you again.

There really wasn't a question in this email, but I wanted to point out more about why this approach is working.

Keep in mind: Good looking women get attention from men ALL THE TIME.

Women get hit on constantly.

How would you behave if you got approached by women ALL THE TIME? Really, think about it. You might THINK you would be in heaven, because a guy's experience is that he is NEVER approached, and has to do all the work. Your mind has been conditioned differently than a woman's.

In reality, after enough time, it would get TIRING to have women approaching you all the time. It would be annoying to have ugly chicks as well as the occasional pretty ones coming up and hitting on you everywhere you went, to the store or to the pub or even on a bus.

You'd actually get pretty sick of it. I know you might not think so right now, especially if you've been going through a bit of a dry spell, but it's true. It's human nature to take for granted what comes to us easily.

Women are in that situation. Even the average looking gals get picked up on, and they all have to find a way to deal with it. Her attitude starts from when she is first approached by a guy.

Let's step back and look at this from the beginning...

What happens is a program is setup in her mind that goes like this:

"Okay, enough is enough. If this is going to happen all the time, I need to find some way to weed out the good guys from the losers. Here's what I'll do:

" If a guy approaches me, I'm going to just act indifferent. I have no way of knowing which one is a confident, Alpha Man, so I'll just treat them all the same. I'll be nice, but that's IT. If he wants to get any further with me, he's going to have to work a little for it and get past my defenses.

" If he shows me that he's different in some way, by humor or by some other interesting quality, this program shuts down and I'll deal with the situation. If he doesn't demonstrate that he's unique from the last 37 guys who tried, I'll just shut his program down and move on.

" This program ends with a cool smile and walking away."

It's a time-saver and necessary for her to weed you out from the rest. Good looking women know they already possess what you want.

Think about that for a second.

How do you behave when you know you have something somebody else wants?

So when you were starting to ignore the woman who thought you were pretty much her plaything, a new program kicked over in her head:

"All guys are into hot women. And since I think I am attractive, he should want me. Why doesn't he want me?

"I need to find out why he wants her instead. What does SHE have?"

Jealousy, competitiveness, curiosity - all of these are working in your favor. However, there are some women that are only interested when you're not. Beware that she might be one of these.

This translates into her attitude down the road, where she will want to know why her usual pattern hasn't started the same way - with you falling over yourself to give her attention.

When a woman loses your attention, it's worse than not having had it to start with.

Great job on using the dating strategies and making your own reality what YOU want it to be. So many guys out there never take the steps of learning and applying them, and they never understand the kind of success they can get.

There's nothing in the world like the feeling that YOU can control your dating and $ex life. Knowing that you've got the understanding so that NOTHING catches you off-guard is a feeling like nothing else.

I will caution the other guys out there to use the information you learn here wisely. I never condone "messing with" people's heads. It's tempting, because we interpret women's behavior to be that - messing with us. But it's not on-purpose. They are only acting in accordance with their emotional programming, the same way guys are behaving "rationally" with their logical programming.

If you resort to purposeful game playing with women, you will end up causing more anger and resentment in the long run. Instead, remember that she's looking for the same results you are, just in a different way.

Women will behave in ways that may seem illogical, but they are actually quite PREDICTABLE when you understand her motivations.

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-Carlos