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Something's been catching my eye lately. There is a hot girl who's joined in our class as a foreign student, and almost every guy has been drooling over her. Of course, with my exception! Well my college doesn't exactly have the hottest girls (tech school), and hence she's deemed hotter than she actually is.

Well, what's been making me wonder is that I know a guy who's been trying to make time with her, and he's basically using a social networking site to do so. He starts conversations with her on the site using the 'comments' section, and keeps it going for about 2-4 hours everyday, and for some reason it seems to be working for him. In short, he has made himself seem 'available all the time', a slave to the girl and a drug junky. He does have above average looks though, according to some girls.

But he cant strike up the same conversations with her in person, and his voice loses it's tone when he tries to talk to her. He doesn't seem as confident in person as he does on the net. Yet it's working for him.

What are your views on this? On my initial observation the girl seems like most other girls, dwelling on uncertainty and surprises, and enjoying most of the attention she's getting. Now I haven't been able to charm her with my suave personality as I'm tied up in a relationship, so that is as much information as I can give right now.

What do you think about this?
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CARLOS ANSWERS:

I'll tell you what I WON'T be telling you about this situation: It does not mean that all the bullshit information about pandering to a woman will work.

Okay, now that we've got that taken care of, let's talk about the Truth behind the curtain here...

First of all "it seems to be working" doesn't mean diddly.

Is this guy going out with this girl?

Is he sleeping with her?

Or, is she perhaps flattered by the attention of a guy who she might consider "the prize" based solely on his appearance?

Of course she is! All women respond to attention, but in varying ways.

And ... "make time"? What is that supposed to mean?

That means nothing to me. The only thing that matters is RESULTS. Tell me what kind of real male-female results this guy has beyond "seeming" like he's getting somewhere. Making time is mental masturbation.

What you're seeing is a guy who is appealing to her romantic fantasies. Techno-nerdy girls tend to be shy and a bit introverted. They also have a quirky insecurity about themselves as sexual beings. She's also obviously young, so she's a bit naive.

(I'm not sure what you mean by this "drug junky" thing. Does he actually take drugs? Well, that might appeal to her bad-boy craving.)

What will predictably happen is this:

- Boy endears himself to girl by flooding her with attention. He seems all mushy and romantic.

- Girl soaks up the attention because she's still not that secure. Her self-esteem and self-image have not caught up to her yet. She is what I would call an "undervalued asset," as she doesn't know her "hottie" factor in attracting men. Hopefully she stays humble and cool like this. (But learns to read wuss indicators much faster.)

- Girl develops fascination and infatuation based on her filling in ALL the gaps of her knowledge of this guy. She doesn't know what he's really like because she's been building up this fantasy.

- Girl MIGHT get with this boy to find out what he's like, and then she gets out quickly when she finds out he's a wuss, or she keeps him as a BTN ("Better Than Nothing.")

If he doesn't act soon, she'll get tired of it, and the first Alpha Man with a pair of full, swinging balls gets the prize.

BOOM.

Story over.

Don't worry... Women don not want wusses. I'm not wrong on this count, no matter how many seemingly "curious" this situation may be on the surface.

And obviously you believe what I teach ... otherwise, why are you reading my materials if you're already in a relationship, right? :-)

You might be one of those "toe-dippers," standing at the side of my Truth Pool and testing the waters to see if this MIGHT be true... if maybe women are somewhat different than you imagined.

I don't care why, as long as you're learning and putting it to good use.

If you want to learn how to be attractive to women - the gal you have yet to meet, or the woman you already have - then you need to learn what these secrets are from the source.

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