Mirroring and Matching

Interesting that you endorse this after saying pointedly in your "Alpha Man Conversation" program that matching and mirroring doesn't work...

It was the one point in which I strongly disagreed with you. I find that mirroring magically puts me in tune with a woman's energy and helps me to intuitively say the ideal thing to her upon approaching.

-Seer
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CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:

Good point, but it's actually not different. The paradox is relatively simple to resolve.

What you're talking about is "attunement" which does work. "Mirroring" and "matching" for the sake of mimicking, does not.

Ultimately, what we're talking about here is the difference in intent. If used to make you more "confident," mirroring is a weak method. As a method of pacing another person's reality, it can be very effective.

Make sense?

Very often, mirroring is used as an NLP technique with a superficial understanding of how deep you have to immerse yourself in the process. Men get caught up in the mechanics rather than the reality that you need to focus more on your STATE than imitating someone else's.

Hopefully this clears up any misunderstandings out there regarding this.

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