Whiney People

This is a post that going to whine - about whiney people.

You know them. You might even BE one of them from time to time. I can be... on occasion.

Examples of whining:

- My boss won't give me a raise...

As if you should ever be GIVEN a raise. You EARN it. If a company isn't paying you what you're worth, you go to one that will. Unless you're fooling yourself about that value, or you're scared.

- These girls are all ugly...

They're beautiful in ways you just aren't seeing. Even if you don't find anyone physically attractive (unlikely), you can still choose to make the best of your time and engage your social skills.

For most guys, this is a cop-out when they can't motivate themselves to approach women or talk to women.

As a matter of fact, most whining is just a way to say, "Mommy! Come take care of me!"

(Sounds kinda harsh, but it's true on a certain level...)

Listen to the people that you stand next to in line at the store, or at the post office. They're busy whining away their life and being the victim.

Make it a point right now to root out and eliminate this harmful behavior in your life.

If we can't stand whiney kids, why should we stand whiney adults - just because they make it sound more believable?

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