Did you just pinch my ass?

Hey carlos,

Here's a question that may not crop up very often. Generally my opening game with women is pretty decent, and initial conversation is one of the strongest points of my game.

However occasionally the following situation comes up, which leaves me in a bit of confusion; If i'm in a club or a bar and i walk past a girl (usually fairly attractive) and she does something like strokes me or squeezes my ass then pretends to look the other way...

Keeping in mind these girls are usually only about 18 as i'm only 19 myself, so not overly mature, unfortunatly.. i prefer older women ;).So how do i respond (not react ;) to that situation? i have a few ideas such as a bit of role reversal, pretending to be really offended or perhaps a sharp "congratualtions" followed by a smirk. Its got me in a bit of a pickle, what do you think?

Thanks a lot,

Elliot, in the uk!
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CARLOS HELPS:

Well, if this is a problem, dude, I think you may have to re-define your expectations.

This is what we (in the attraction biz) call a "high quality problem."

I think the evolution of a novice to an expert at the game of attracting women would look like this:

Woman pinches your ass...

1) Beginner: Jumps and looks at her. He smiles and says, "That was nice! Do it again! Please?"

2) Novice: Jumps and turns right away to look at her. He smiles and nods, as if to say, "Yeah, baby!"

3) Experienced: Turns, winks at her with a smile and then goes back to what he was doing.

4) Expert: Looks over his shoulder, doesn't smile. He just identifies the girl and stores it away for future reference. He turns right back to what he was doing and continues. Later, he approaches her and says, "If you wanted to meet me, you should just say hello. How are you doing tonight?"

I'm at a point now where I tend to ignore this behavior in women (they usually don't do this as they get older, unless there is a LOT of alcohol involved.)

And all the other guys out there hate you for this. Really.

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