THE INTERROGATOR:

I've been re-reading the Dating Black Book and I notice how you say if she
brings up past relationships to get off the topic.

Well, the date I was on last night, the one that ended kinda sour, she was
GRILLING me with these questions about love and kids and shit. I did
EVERYTHING I could think of to redirect the conversation since she was so
insistant about past girls I have had, ever been in love, telling me I'd be
good with kids, but it was no use! I didn't ask about her past relationships
once...

She was relentless, man! What can I do the next time this issue arises?

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CARLOS:


Either not give in, or end the date. I don't want to hook up with an interrogator. If you make that decision before you get into this kind of situation, you'll have no problem leaving it when you encounter it.

Be relentless right back.

(There's a deeper message here I hope you pick up on, too...)

Why didn't you bust on her for being so damn nosey and rude?

The problem was that you fell into her frame. I'd just sit back and stare at her for a minute while she acted like this, get up, and leave.

Problem solved.

Just because she asks you something doesn't mean you have to answer.

And it sounds to me like the date didn't end sour at all. You avoided an annoying woman.

REFRAME IT.

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