Why are you so Nervous?

Hi,,I went to a speed dating event, I don't know was it a couple of drinks and obviously some of your tactics, I was really confident and bantered with 2 girls and had fun...

Now I've got response from two girls....the problem is I am nervous how I would pull off on the day when I meet her...I am anxious will I be able to keep her interested and keep the conversation goin coz normally I'm not able to talk for long with girls. help me
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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS WITH A HARSH TONE:

Hmmm....

A couple of drinks OR my tactics...

Golly, I'd probably say that in choice between a mind-numbing beverage or my tactics, it's probably my tactics that got you success.

You see, when you feel confident, that really means that you're NOT thinking nervous and needy thoughts, so you perform better.

And you're not thinking those thoughts when you're using a PLAN instead of just winging it and hoping for the best, like most guys do.

The reality here is that you're nervous now because:

1) You're thinking too much. Stop it. Go in the bathroom, look in the mirror and wuss-slap yourself a couple times until your balls drop back down.

2) You're also nervous because you're thinking of "getting" and not "giving" when you meet up with these girls. If you turn your focus away from trying to score, or GET from them, you'll find it's a lot easier to set the dominoes up to fall your way.

If I were to ask you if you could talk with a GUY for long, you'd probably say it wasn't a big deal.

So why is it for you to talk to women?

Because you're making a distinction in your head that you need to make completely different conversation with women then men, which is ridiculous.

Talk to her like a friend at first, and then move forward more directly into conversation that connects and moves into a sexual realm.

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