Macking with Your Family

The other night I was out with my nephew. I am 40, but I pass for being in my late 20's or early 30's. He hooked up with this girl, and introduced her as his new wife. I passed by and said thats nice, and paid very little attention to her, but built up my nephews image by saying some great things about him.

A few minutes later, I feel a tap on my shoulder and it is her. She tells me my nephew is kinda creepy, and proceeds to hit on me. At that point my mind went blank. I didnt know how to respond. At that point do I continue to wing for my nephew and attempt to salvage, talk to the girl for myself or walk away and move onto a new group?
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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:

Uhh, can you say "awkward"?

That's a rough one.

Here's how I see it: Your nephew is obviously young and has no real game. But it sounds like he's got a good wingman with you.

Here's what you do:

1) Get him one of my programs.

This sounds like a shameless plug, but I would have given my left nut to have all the information I put into the Dating Black Book. That book has over 20 years of dating experience in it. Give him something that will save him from burning out like a wuss-moth on a porch light.

Seriously, man. What kind of uncle are you? :)

2) You don't have to shut down his self-confidence to show him how it's done. You quietly take him aside and explain what happened. The best lesson is often the one that stings a little, but if it's too weird, ditch her, correct him, and move on. There's more fish in the sea. For both of you.

The best thing a wingman can do is to stop a creep-vibe DEAD in its tracks. Stop it before it starts.

And the honorable thing to do is stand by your family.

Women are a dime a dozen.

Being Alpha also means doing the right thing, even if you DON'T get the girl.

Let's be clear - Women aren't the goal here.

Becoming a better MAN is.

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