Where Do You Start When You've Read It All?

QUESTION:

I hope this question hasn't worn you out too many times.

I've read a lot of stuff, and I admit, I've become a bit of a junkie always seeking one last bit and I will then understand it, but i've had it now.

I sit on a lot of knowledge, I read and listen to 10 times more than I can remember.

I'm so confused right now because it's all this talk of cocky comedy, fix your inner game, do this opener, do that, say that, talk like this with your voice, move like this. It's to much!

For you to understand where I come from, I'm the guy who has 0% success with women :/
I observe, I'm not the one observed, and it just makes me furious, i've reached the point where I almost start to cry just writing this. Before I continue I just got to swallow that big chunk of pride.

I got your material, Dating Black Book, Secrets of the Alpha Man, the cds, David Deangelo [interview], everything!

But where do I start? I've done reading and listening, I've done your exercises. I'm talking about the first action I can make when it comes to talking to women. I'm still very anxious when I walk up and I don't know what to say.

What should be my first step?

I realize this is maybe a question that you answered in a book somewhere or in a newsletter.

Best regards, Victor
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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:

First off, congratulations on working on this, and double-congratulations for swallowing that pride...!

Pride is what will stop you from humbling yourself and just getting better. As they say, Pride goeth before a fall.

Your first step should be the one that you can do comfortably, but it still stretches you a little out of your comfort zone.

Can you talk to store clerks? Then go do that until it's so easy and boring that you feel the need to take the next step.

Don't try to run before you can walk or you'll fall and ruin your confidence even more. Do what you can do.

Only you can define that starting off point. Find it and start there. Maybe it's just getting a part time job and trying out some game on the customers.

Whatever that step is, do it.

NOW.

Take some action. If you wait around too much trying to find that "perfect" starting off point, you'll become totally paralyzed and confused.

Just jump and the net will appear!

Right now you're overwhelmed with information, and all you need to do is review my Approach Women Program and then get busy right away getting in the game.

No more analysis. Just do what you need to do, at the lowest level you can actually DO.

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