Are Women Becoming More Like Men?

You know me. I like to stir a little controversy.

But I'm not sure I see this as being all that debatable.

Are women becoming more "manly"?

Read on:
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Hey Carlos!

Your materials has been great help in my success with women. Thanks!!

You did a podcast recently on “how to deal with masculine women” and I found it really helpful for my situation with my current girlfriend.

Are there any articles or books where you expand on that or offer even more advice. I don’t think too many people talk about that enough.

Too many women now a days like to take that role of masculine.

Any gold nuggets on that area will be appreciated or any links that points to that.

Thanks Again,
Jose
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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:

Well, in my humble opinion...

Yes, I think women are taking on a more masculine role. And it's not just because of feminism and changes in the social order relating to them directly.

I believe that when men started relaxing the line between femininity and masculinity, we left a vacuum.

And if you've watched any good science shows over the last few years, you know that the one thing nature hates is a vacuum... or a gap to be filled.

So when men stepped back in response to the fear of the feminist movement - women slid over and took it over.

And let's be honest here... I think a lot of guys abandoned their masculine role out of boredom, and having no challenges to keep them in it. As Tyler Durden says in "Fight Club:"

"We're the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War's a spiritual war... our Great Depression is our lives. We've all been raised on television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won't. And we're slowly learning that fact."

We need a new challenge that will put men back in the masculine - dare I say it? MACHO - arena once again.

I watched "Gladiator" last night, for the umpteenth time, and I'll tell you that I still hold those two ideals near and dear to my heart: Strength and Honor. Those two virtues will NEVER go out of style.

So when we complain that women are becoming more masculine, I think it's high time we decided that this is a cry for help, that men are not staking their right and proper claim to what is manly and strong in the world today.

I won't bore you with a "masculine-ist" rant here, but I think you know what I'm talking about.

All you guys in college wondering what place you're going to fill in the world...

All you guys getting married and wondering what place you'll fill in your kids life...

Or what place your kid will fill in the years ahead...

And all you guys in your 40s and 50s getting divorced wondering how to survive in this age of uncertain gender roles...

Congratulations. You've come to the right place to get it all figured out.

Guys, if you want to know more about how to be the MAN women want, and inspire her to reclaim her awesome power of femininity, go HERE right now.

- CARLOS

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