DATING ADVICE:

My first question is, have you ever had one girl you were interested in, but
the chances seemed less likely because her friend liked you? What do you do
in this situation?

My second question is how do you redeem yourself in front of girls if you
kinda get carried away and make yourself look foolish in front of everyone?
Have you ever done this before?

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CARLOS:

This is a classic "cock-blocking" scenario, where a girl's friend can decide your fate.

First of all, you have to determine how close the girl you want is to the girl who wants you. If their friendship is really important, you are likely to be the casualty.

On the other hand, if you handle the situation correctly and make sure that you are not leading on this girl's friend, and it's obvious to everyone that you're only into her as a friend, then the intent is clear. You have to use some tact in dealing with the one that likes you, because if she turns on you because you're not interested, she can break your chances with the other girl.

Be assertive and go after the one you want. Get her attracted to you. And after you've driven up her buying temperature so high that it melts asphalt, she'll want you more than she worries about her friend. After all, she knows the score, and SOMEONE has to get you.

Keep your value up.

As for the acting foolish thing, just play it off. You're already caring too much about what they think of you, and this will come across in your body language and attitude. Don't live life looking in your rearview mirror. Move onward and forward after what you want.

Redemption is for sissies. No man needs to "redeem" himself for his own behavior, as long as it didn't cause anyone else harm but himself. Get back into your confidence skin as fast as possible before you start getting sensitive and crying over soap operas.

My advice? Get back in the game and fuggedaboutit.

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