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It's time for you to be more than "just friends" with women.
DATING SECRET: "TEASE TO PLEASE"
When a guy approaches her, for any reason, the woman assumes you're picking up on her. It's what she's gotten used to. All women are by now, and they all have a standard routine they use of being a little stand-offish to you until you can bust past this barrier.
Instead of complimenting a woman when you first meet her, take the opportunity to gently tease her.
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If you just start talking to her neutrally, she's wondering, "Is he safe? Is he normal?" For all she knows, you're just another dweeb looking to bore her with old Playboy party jokes.
Now, by teasing her first, all of a sudden she feels (from your words and actions) that you might be more challenging. You're different - i.e., interesting to her. Maybe you’re not just another guy out there looking to get laid tonight.
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IMPORTANT NOTE: Most guys will be afraid of making a woman mad, and will fear using this tactic, even though it makes complete sense to women and it will work like crazy on them.
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