Watch your State...

There's an Ikea over near where I live, and it's always a fertile ground for finding women. This time of year, they're all decked out in their summer "show it off" attire, too...

I was walking around there with "C," my escort. She had to return some things there, and I thought I'd indulge my eyes a bit.

I used the mental frame of a guy who has TOO many women to keep track of, and that all these women were hot for me, but I couldn't fit them into my schedule. I let my physiology reflect this new belief, too.

I noticed a definite swing in my confidence when I took this approach as opposed to just "wondering" if women would want me.

I even mentally made a conscious shift to thinking that the women who didn't meet my stare were lucky ... because they couldn't have found a place in my schedule anyway.

Which leads me to this realization: To really be effective in approaching women, you simply MUST have a frame of belief in yourself that you refuse to be shaken by any woman's opinion.