Dating Advice for Men - How to Approach Women, Attract Women, and Dating Advice to Meet Girls

CARLOS XUMA -
DATING ADVICE FOR MEN NEWSLETTER:

The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...

Listen to what they're saying...

"Carlos, I want to thank you for all you've done for us all. When I was in high school (now 25) I had many one night stands which didn't allow me to learn ANYTHING about women. I met this one girl when I was 20 and eventually got married. It was one year ago to this day that I learned my EX-wife had many affairs behind my back. I felt left in ruins with low self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-worth.

"I stumbled on your programs about 6 months ago and became a full time member to your audio coaching. From regularly listening to your words I have boosted everything I thought I lost because of my divorce. I also learned exactly the art of seduction and building at traction with women. "To put it bluntly, your programs rock. I have and will continue to recommend these programs to anyone who not only wants to succeed with women but also succeed with their own life."
- J.O.

"Dear Carlos, Your program is a "killer..." It helped me to get rid of many traits of the so called "nice guy" - shyness, indecisiveness, "ass-kissing", etc.

... It boosted significantly my love and s*x life. Not only [this]
... It helped me to be more successful in doing business, I can now easily spot when somebody wants to "walk over me" and try to make me submissive as usually women do. Thanks a lot!
My best wishes to you!"
- S.D.
Sofia, Bulgaria

"I LOVE your Secrets of the Alpha Man program. It is by far the best overall e-book and audio program online that I have read....and I have done my research and read all the popular e-books and what not.

"I already was having a lot of success prior to the program but my success has doubled since reading the e-book and listening to the audio." - D.

"... About your Alpha Man program... It's bad ass. I'm only halfway through the book (200pgs) and halfway through the CD's. It's really phenomenal..." - T. T.

"Carlos, I purchased the Alpha Male program recently and I must say it's the best investment I have ever made in my own personal development. I have had seeds of thought and insight on some of things you talk about in the books and tapes, but now I'm getting a fuller picture of what it takes to be a real man. It's incredible..." - B., Colorado

"Hey Carlos ... Listen, I want to thank you for all of your work in these CDs and e-books. I've only had them for about a week and I've already made some major breakthroughs. You opened my eyes in being an Alpha Male.

"I was recently getting to know this girl... and I was being the "nice guy." Boy! the way you described the steps a man goes through to get to "she's the one for me" is right on target! I was able to step back... put her in her place on the phone and in person--it felt GREAT (so empowering!). I ended up not liking who she is and have moved on since.

"Also, I went to a club the other day... and I usually don't because I don't know how to dance that great--but I did anyway. I applied your exercise where you don't look at the final outcome... you just take the first step... and be an alpha man there.

"Well, I felt powerful and by the end of the night I was leading this girl around the club by her hand (taking charge), ordering two beers and sitting down with her with my arm around her like an alpha man should. She was so into our conversation and I felt like I was totally in charge.

"Oh, and yes... I danced with 5 gorgeous girls that we had dinner with. Damn! it was good.

Carlos... seriously... thanks!"

- 'D' Los Angeles, CA

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QUESTION:

I met a girl a while ago, when I had very little experience with girls. We were both initially attracted to each other but at the time I had absolutely no idea what to do about it. I was a whimp, made no advances, waited for it to fall into my lap.

After a while, she started to say that she saw me more like a brother, a friend. We did spend some nights together here and there. She would sleep in my bed. Sometimes the next morning there would be heavy petting but no s*ex. Always straight ater she would leave promptly and then send me a message saying how she didnt want me to get the wrong idea, and that we were just friends.

I was confused for a long time, because I did feel that she liked me, but I couldnt work out why she did not want me. I know realise that it was because i was smothering her too much, being a whimp, and being totally affected by her (My moods were dependant on her approval).

After a year apart, she has recently moved into my neighbourhood. I have changed a lot since we first met (not such a whimp anymore, I had alot of issues a couple of years ago which have cleared up now). We meet up sometimes and there is cuddling etc., generally sitting around and being cosy together. She told me that "boyfriends are a hassle, but its nice to have someone to cuddle now and then." Am i just someone she is using for comfort, when she actually doesnt want me? Should I stop being so nice and maybe act a little meaner to her?

We are still 'friends' but I dont see it like that.
Whenever I am around her I feel damn attracted. She is still saying that she wants to be friends, but should I believe her? Do you think she actually does just want to be just friends or is she trying to test me to make an advance?

CARLOS: "Little Brother"? Dude, that smells like doom to me.

Short answer?

Yes, she's using you as a nice little convenient Teddy Bear. And you're her accomplice.

But read on...

After all, think about it: If you could get your needs met with no obligation, no investment, at NO cost to you at all, wouldn't you snap up that opportunity?

She knows you're attracted and is using that subconsciously to get her needs met. She's probably not a bad person, per se, but she's definitely using you, simply because you want her and she's got all the power.

Yes, there is always that disparity between what a woman says and what she really is feeling, but in this case, you need to make a move or take a walk.

"Boyfriends are a hassle..."

Remember my advice: You're better off alone than with the wrong woman.

And a woman you want but who doesn't want you is the WRONG woman, no matter how much you dream of the opposite.

Wouldn't it be great to learn the right strategies form the start on how her attraction works, so you can radically improve the odds in your favor? So that you don't screw it up and behave like a wimp from the start? Imagine what it would be like if you could have an iron-clad strategy to never be caught unprepared for the woman you want again...?

That's exactly what my e-book (and audio series) will teach you. Not only do you learn what the subtle psychological aspects are, but how you can amplify these "Alpha Man" traits so that you are able to draw in the women that you want. The only magic you have to add to this equation is the attitude to take action.

Every guy that behaves according to the information I teach is more successful than they were before, and most of them become MASSIVELY successful.

Which leads me to this: You know that women are getting more and more picky about men, and they can sniff out inferior guys with just a whiff of your confidence. And to stand out you MUST have the edge on the other guys out there. You need to be a REAL MAN, not this sissie-fied cartoon man that the media and evening television sells you.

My e-book gives you the information and skills to get the women YOU want. Not SETTLE FOR.

"Just thought I'd write you an email and say that the stuff in your book is great and its changing alot of things for me. Already working, getting phone numbers and meeting girls I never would have approached before. Initially I thought your ebook would be a corny thing ... but I bought it out of curiosity, and its really great. Basically what im saying is, Thanks..." -Josh E.

You've GOT to be an Alpha Man.

Look, there are so many things you have to have down pat in the singles world.
Like, how do you NOT screw it up in those vital first couple minutes of meeting a woman?

You've heard me say this before: Getting laid is not about getting "lucky."
Luck is not a factor.

It's about having the right knowledge and understanding up front. Women are actually WAITING for men to date and sleep with, if you'll just give them the right reasons WHY they should be with YOU. It's deliberate and on-purpose, not subject to the whims of chance and fate.

BE the kind of man they are waiting for. That's all they ask of you.

I've worked for years to break down what it is that women are trying to tell you with their behavior, and finding out the hard way why being a "nice guy" is dooming you to failure.

You have to get this knowledge and understanding, or you may risk never being able to turn your game around.

When you have that knowledge, you can make better choices and demonstrate better behaviors.

When you demonstrate better behavior, you will get better RESULTS.

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Listen to what the other gurus are saying about Carlos' work..."I've read every book and studied every system on dating. The problem with most 'gurus' in this field is that they're not teaching men how to build a solid foundation. Until you change your internal belief system and adopt an Alpha mindset, all the
		tactics and techniques in the world aren't going to do you any good. (Actually, it's like learning just enough karate to get your ass kicked!) Carlos Xuma is the best there is at teaching men how to develop their 'inner game.' From
		there, he'll give you the complete set of tools for approaching women, and life, with absolute confidence and skill. If you're in this game to win it, these are the rules you need to learn."
- "Supreme", M.A.C.K. Tactics co-creator 

		"Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!"

- Scot McKay, X & Y Communications, DeserveWhatYouWant.com
		"Carlos Xuma is the REAL DEAL! If you are serious about creating an extraordinary relationship. You will learn more about the needs and desires of women than they do themselves! I highly recommend
		Carlos to any man who is ready to get the woman of his dreams. I love his game, its 100% real."

- The Dean, Dating4Men.com
		"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond the pick-up lines and approach techniques that so many guys use and fail with. Rather, Carlos gives guys everywhere practical,
		valuable advice that will make men attractive not just for one night, but for many, many years. He lays down the foundation for becoming a NATURALLY attractive man, full of confidence and the ability to fully ENJOY being around hot babes.

		Unlike other pickup artists, Carlos shares information that helps you not only in one area of life, but in many: in social relationships, at work, sports, with personal goals. He'll help make you a well-rounded, self-believing alpha MAN who's capable of just
		about anything. And seducing gorgeous, high-quality women, is just the beginning."

- James Brito, How to Be Irresistible to Women
        "Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction' community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction, and Explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character.

		He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women truly crave in a man."

- Grant Adams, CEO - net2bed.com"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."

		- Joe Quirk, Author of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"