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CARLOS XUMA -
DATING ADVICE FOR MEN NEWSLETTER: |
The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Monday, 10:45 AM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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Did you hear about Simon Heong's book yet?
It came out last week, and I sent a letter out so everyone knew.
Here's the address again to read my personal review and to get your very own copy:
http://www.datingfire.com/InstantDatingSuccess.html
Hurry over and get yours...
QUESTION:
Carlos
Brilliant...If a guy does not come across as virile..then you say a guy's lost the game...dead on! Every other conventional theory is b.s. cz deep down women are wired for a man's virile antics....
Carlos this is brilliant!
You smashed the last residual mental blocks that have been bothering me! No more apologies are required! My own research indicates I have known this, but you stacked the facts from a more colourful perspective than I had realised myself and even more powerfully!
Think about it this way...if I don't approach then women must be thinking what the hell is wrong with me! lol!
So within 45 mins reading your email...I'm walking the City district (London's equivalent of Wall Street) and I'm getting IOI's from women ....hahaha...prior to that I'm on a train having just seen an old friend...we got on and we see this cute HB using the the seats as somekind go sofa bed reading a gossip mag. I just kicked the soles of her feet and busted her on it...she's loving it...my friend of course AFC is puzzled....I could go on...but you get the picture.
I'm ranting here...Carlos...thanks for your help you just freed up my neural network. Funny, I can see all my routines now so clearly...but I dont' need them! Thanks Carlos.
Kindest regards
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
YES!
YES, YES, YES!
Yes, I am brilliant.
But just as importantly -
YES!
You GET it!
You just had what some psychologists and therapists call a "cognitive breakthrough."
I call it the "OH SH*T!" experience.
That's when you're thinking about something one way your whole life, and out of the blue you realize something that you didn't before, and it changes your whole perspective.
You realize that this new understanding will change your life.
You slap your head and say - "OH, SH*T!!!"
This happened to me many years ago when I was desperately seeking some kind of answer to the riddle of what women really want in a man.
If you're not experienced with the vocabulary of the stud... here's an explanation of a few things this guy was saying:
IOI = indication of interest. This is what a woman gives you when you're doing the right things.
HB = Hot babe.. a woman with an attractiveness rating over 6 or 7
AFC = Average Frustrated Chump. This is the average guy who cannot get laid to save his life.
(By the way, my Seduction Method e-book program has a bonus - a complete dictionary of these terms for you...)
But what's most important in what this reader is saying to you is a very important insight.
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VIRILITY
What a powerful word.
Think about what it means for a minute:
Virility: (noun) - The quality or state of being virile; manly character. Masculine vigor; potency.
THIS is what women are looking for from men. It's the essence of everything I coach you on in the newsletters as well as the audio coaching.
As a matter of fact, this is what the Alpha Man is all about. He's virile. He's vigorous. He's got manly character.
But I really like that last one: POTENT.
A virile, Alpha Man is POTENT.
Here's a definition of potent for you:
- Possessing inner or physical strength; powerful.
- Exerting or capable of exerting strong physiological or chemical effects: potent liquor; a potent toxin.
- Exerting or capable of exerting strong influence; cogent: potent arguments.
- Having great control or authority
- Able to perform se*xual intercourse. Used of a male.
Wow!
Those really hit it on the head.
You've got to be powerful. Capable of inner strength. (Outer strength is cool, but it's not necessary if you've got the right combination of other traits.)
You have the power to exert a strong physiological effect and influence. It's been shown time and time again that men with the Alpha traits are able to turn women on physically with their touch and presence. And it's intoxicating.
You have great control and authority. SELF-control is the most important of all.
And the last one ... well, of course you are able to perform.
Aren't you?
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THAT is what a woman has to believe in about you in the end.
You have to be able to PERFORM.
Not just in BED. But in LIFE.
Does she believe that you're a man that can DO what he needs to DO?
Because you're absolutely right. If you DON'T APPROACH her, she's wondering WHAT'S WRONG with you.
This is probably the most important thing you realized, and it's something that so many guys will fight in their heads for years and years and never get through their skulls.
YOU HAVE TO APPROACH WOMEN.
There is no substitute for this action. It MUST be done.
Once you understand that, you'll just put aside all those crazy fears and just DO IT.
If you don't approach her, she doesn't go home crying that she didn't get to meet you. She knows another Alpha Man is right around the corner that WILL approach her.
She's got a built-in system of understanding which men are the ones she's INSTINCTIVELY attracted to.
Not the ones she "wants" to be attracted to.
You know that women are getting more and more picky about men, and they can sniff out inferior guys with just a whiff of your confidence.
And to stand out you MUST have the edge on the other guys out there. You need to be a REAL MAN, not this sissie-fied cartoon man that the media sells you.
Now, you know that you can get the inside tactics and tips on effective dating and pickup skills in my e-book, The Dating Black Book. If you don't have it, you need to GET IT NOW. Download it here:
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When you're ready to take the NEXT STEP and develop the inner and outer game necessary to WIN OVER any woman you want, you're probably a candidate for becoming an ALPHA MAN.
You see, most guys kiss up to a woman and work too hard to get a woman's attention (or "win her back"), not knowing that they need to get her ATTRACTION.
And you can't do it with a soft, nice guy attitude. You get "Nice" when you lose confidence in yourself.
Can you be firm and controlled?
Do you have what it takes to CHALLENGE women?
Or are you going to break down and treat her ... NICE.
How many times have you heard this:
"Nice Guys just don't get laid."
The Nice Guy SEEMS like what women want, but he's not. And now we are going to show you the reasons why, and help you get rid of the "Nice Guy" forever.
Are you ready to start learning how to dramatically improve your self-confidence?
Are you ready to drop that lame "Nice Guy" routine and start being a real Alpha Man?
Well, the Secrets are here.
I've just completed a brand-new e-book and 6-CD audio program that you have been waiting for.
We've even got a new site at: http://www.alphaseduction.com
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If you haven't heard of it yet, the Advanced Audio Coaching could be the best thing you get for yourself this year. This monthly audio program will coach you through even the most tricky situations with women, with audio examples and so much more. Take a look at what's in this month's session 14:
Over 100 minutes of audio coaching, including -
- Emailing Women - How to handle emails to women correctly. 7 rules of effective communication through email. How to bridge from email to "real life" contact. An email trick a woman might pull that you probably don't know about. How to get her to respond. What to say and what not to say. What you MUST include in your emails. With Examples.
- Chivalry and Helping Women: The philosophy and rules of Chivalry, and the primary benefits. Showing security and protection. How to brag effectively to women. Character building. How to "help" women (not through giving them money...) The role of comfort, security, and protection.
- Breaking the Horse - "Legends of the Fall" example. Alpha Traits example. How to handle especially difficult women - "Break" them. The mindset of the "breaker." The importance of intensity.
- Inner vs. Outer Game - The difference and importance of each. How they inter-relate. Finding a motivation to act when you need to. Upward/Downward spiral. Using pain to motivate yourself into gear - the "Kick Yourself" method. How beliefs translate into actions. The importance of relaxation and spontaneity.
- Female Testing - What to do when a woman challenges you. Handling the "I'm not going to sleep with you" Test. How to ignore and circumvent the problem to continue. Why you can never wrestle for control. The "Slut Complex." "Steer into the slide" method. How NOT to react.
- Fear of Success - The mental mindset of the seducer. The role of belief through the "Force" example.
- ALPHA EXERCISE - Emotional Intelligence - How to understand the emotions that hold you back. Handling anger and frustration. Disappointment and guilt. The role of rehearsal and review. Handling inadequacy and loneliness. Handling overload and overwhelm. Avoiding self-destructive behaviors.
AND MUCH MORE!
You can download it here:
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You can listen to this audio RIGHT NOW on your PC or Mac, and you can even use your MP3 player to take the learning and go mobile. Put it on your i-pod!
Is there ANYTHING else worth learning more than how to be successful with women?
Thanks...
- Carlos
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Listen to what the other gurus are saying about Carlos' work...
"I've read every book and studied every system on dating. The problem with most 'gurus' in this field is that they're not teaching men how to build a solid foundation. Until you change your internal belief system and adopt an Alpha mindset, all the
tactics and techniques in the world aren't going to do you any good. (Actually, it's like learning just enough karate to get your ass kicked!) Carlos Xuma is the best there is at teaching men how to develop their 'inner game.' From
there, he'll give you the complete set of tools for approaching women, and life, with absolute confidence and skill. If you're in this game to win it, these are the rules you need to learn."
- "Supreme", M.A.C.K. Tactics co-creator
"Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!"
- Scot McKay, X & Y Communications, DeserveWhatYouWant.com
"Carlos Xuma is the REAL DEAL! If you are serious about creating an extraordinary relationship. You will learn more about the needs and desires of women than they do themselves! I highly recommend
Carlos to any man who is ready to get the woman of his dreams. I love his game, its 100% real."
- The Dean, Dating4Men.com
"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond the pick-up lines and approach techniques that so many guys use and fail with. Rather, Carlos gives guys everywhere practical,
valuable advice that will make men attractive not just for one night, but for many, many years. He lays down the foundation for becoming a NATURALLY attractive man, full of confidence and the ability to fully ENJOY being around hot babes.
Unlike other pickup artists, Carlos shares information that helps you not only in one area of life, but in many: in social relationships, at work, sports, with personal goals. He'll help make you a well-rounded, self-believing alpha MAN who's capable of just
about anything. And seducing gorgeous, high-quality women, is just the beginning."
- James Brito, How to Be Irresistible to Women
"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction' community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction, and Explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character.
He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women truly crave in a man."
- Grant Adams, CEO - net2bed.com
"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."
- Joe Quirk, Author of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"
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