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The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Saturday, 4:15 AM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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SUCCESS:
"I just finished the Secrets of the Alpha Man. What can I say besides that its great. I tried this stuff just yesterday (happy 4th of July for all you Americans out there!). It was my birthday, and I said what the hell, I will invite every single girl I could think of that I had a reason for inviting. I can't stop being surprised every time a see girls competing each other for my attention. But what happened yesterday was way more intense.
You see, there were about seven or eight girls I hook up in the last couple of months, none of them knew each other, and it was very fun seeing them trying to find out who is who and what part they play ... regarding me!
And here is where the whole thing of the ebook "Secrets of the Alpha Man" comes in. I was very hesitant a week ago to organize a thing like this. Then I read your ebook and I said to my self, "what the hell, is this is not a real crash test of the program, then I cant think of something else to test it on".
So I organized the party (along with another chick I hang out with who had birthday also the exact day - now that is what I call real Alpha Thinking "Get em all together and split up the bill"). Needless to say that the party was GREAT, and I even managed to hook up some of my buddies with some girls there... Thus showing more Alpha traits to virtually everybody (male & female). Hey, after all it was my party (and that other gal's of course).
And you know what?
It took no effort at all. It just... came up to be perfect. Now I know that I run a risk of being labeled as "player", but you cover this in the ebooks too, so...
Carlos, thanks.
D.H.
Greece
CARLOS:
It's always a breath of fresh air to hear from all you guys having such great success with the Alpha Man program. It's such a critical part of a man's game to have his confidence together, and it's obvious that it's working for so many of you.
Sometimes I get these emails from guys who bought an e-book of mine, and I kid you not - only a HALF HOUR LATER they're writing me telling me that it's not working.
WTF????
Come ON! I give you a 90 day guarantee. The least you could do is actually READ THE BOOK. Oh, and I don't know... maybe ... uh... USE THE INFORMATION!
But you can't even read these e-books in a half-hour, much less apply the strategies in that time. I feel embarrassed for these guys that are either trying to gyp me out of my income, or just don't GET IT.
You have to take at least a couple days to absorb all the information I give you (and, yes, it's a lot, but I want to give you a HUGE value for your dollar. Not like some other guys out there.)
And then just take a couple days to practice.
And if you do that, you WILL see a difference.
The only guys who fail with this stuff are the ones that don't even TRY to use it. Or they're hoping for a magical pill they can swallow and make all their insecurities go away.
NOTHING in life is that simple.
But the cool thing is that for the guys who get this stuff and USE it, you're going to be in a minority of the men out there who know how to REALLY pull in women.
Ah, I love my job!
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QUESTION : HOW TO TEASE
Hey, Carlos A little problem I hope you can solve.
Yesturday I was talking with this girl online, And I tried to not to be NORMAL about it... Anyway, I said some challanging things that my parents (women) found out about, and now their giving me beef on it. Let me show you a, reenactment. Something along these lines
Girl - Actually, I sprained my ankle
Me - hey, no amount of fast running will get you a spot on bay watch
Girl - I'm too hot for bay watch
Girl - J/K
Me - so you mean your not hot?
Girl - I don't know, what do you think?
- This, I thought about for a few seconds
1. could supplicate and say she is the hottest thing sense french fries
2. could not have an opinion
3. say something a little cocky, to challenge
So I went with option 3
Me - Honestly, I think you have hot legs.. But I'd give you a 5 out 10
Girl - thxs Zack...
(not sure if this was sarcastically)
Anyway, at the same time I was talking to my other friend... Finally she responed.. Unfortunately, it showed her self - esteem, and the validation she needed. She talked to this other kid, and he told her to say this.
Girl - this boy told me 2 tell u 2
Girl - go f yourself
Girl - because I told him you gave me a 5 out of 10
I thought for a second, she's trying to get me to change what I said... Well HE said this, so you should think I'm hot too... From his response I could tell he liked her... As far as a response, I thought.
1. I Could say I'm kidding, supplicate up to her and say she's really a 10 out of 10 (not challanging)
2. Or Could go all extream and start telling the kid off (show's defensiveness)
3. Or stick with answer, And show I'm not backing down.. (chose this one)
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Me - This boy huh, Well I don't really give an f about what he thinks... He obviously has no standards...
Waited for her to write back
Was this the right way to do this, or did I really mess it up?... My parents think I should of given her a higher number, and that a five is telling here off.. It's funny because most men don't know anything about attraction, and most women don't even know what they want.. So who do you turn to... I'd admire that you were able to pull through all these lies of women, without much help...
Thank you for reading this somewhat long article, hope you can help.
Sincerely,
Z
CARLOS:
I included this email this week to illustrate some important points about how to read women and how to feed them some crap to get them attentive.
Now, the younger the girl you work this on, the more likely they are to respond.
But, unfortunately, as it is with everything at that age, the more likely she'll just change her mind in another 2 minutes and you'll have to do it all over again.
Such is life.
But your letter exemplifies how to tease a woman and act cocky with her to challenge her. That's the feeling she likes. and it's what she wants from men. Not some guy who will just do everything she says.
You also illustrate what the thinking is that goes behind the responses, so I included that as well.
Guys, pay attention!
This is exactly how you tease a woman!
You drive up the $e)xual tension to uncontrollable heights with your ribbing and teasing and cocky behavior. Even when she says, "Seriously, come on..."
This girl was obviously loving it, and she even came back for more with her test.
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You see the other guy she's referring to probably never said what she said. I hate to sound mean here, but women lie about this stuff ALL the time when it suits them. (Mostly the younger girls who like to just stir $#!+ up.)
So even if he did, you can easily follow this up with:
Girl - this boy told me 2 tell u 2
Girl - go f yourself
Girl - because I told him you gave me a 5 out of 10
with this:
"Well, since you're obviously insecure about yourself enough to go check in with another punk (who is obviously kissing your butt), I'll have to lower you from a 5 to a 4 now."
And then maybe follow up with, "I'll tell you what - you meet me on Thursday at BLAH BLAH and I'll see if you can impress me with your personality instead of relying on your appearance. Maybe I'll put you back up to 4.5."
She's trying to start something with you and this other mythical "boy."
I can't help chuckling to myself because this is SO typical of younger women. They like to play the games to see what you'll do, and if they can get a little more attention out of it.
SO typical.
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Dude, you're doing all the right things with this kind of interaction. NEVER let a woman best you in it because you'll be admitting that you're not the kind of guy she can feel safe around. She doesn't really want to dominate her man, but she's going to try until she does - and then she's going to know it's time to move on.
In short, you didn't mess anything up. You played it right. Just inject a little more humor into it so she doesn't take offense or think you're getting angry. (Which shows a lack of self-control.)
By the way, if you want more Q&A, I suggest you go check out my Blog right now. I've got a ton of new information there for you, and it's updated pretty much every day.
But before you go, let me ask you something...
Are you looking to develop a few of the skills that you need to get dates with women? Not a ton of tricks, or magic hypnosis phrases, just a few core skills. I've got 'em.
They're not complicated, either.
I cover this and many other topics in my e-books and audio. If you'd like to learn more about how the REAL players get the women, you can download the information right away.
If you want to get that kind of understanding and control over your love life, you need to read my e-book. And you can get the benefits of my best e-books, with an iron-clad guarantee for the next 90 days.
Get my books, the audio, read them and hear me explain the strategies, and then put it to work for you right away.
I wrote them in a simple, easy-to-use format that ANYONE can learn. Nothing is complicated, and there's no dumb hypnosis routines to learn. Just the stuff that will help YOU get more success with women.
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I'm in this to help you, educating men to do better in their lives in the one thing that has eluded us for thousands of years - SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.
Is there ANYTHING more important?
Remember life is too short, and death is too long.
Don't wait until your heart is broken before you take steps to learn how this game is played.
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- Carlos
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