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CARLOS XUMA -
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The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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QUESTION:
Hey C,
I have a kind of one-itis i've never had before, this time because its over a guy (no not in the gay sense!). he's my best friend and kind of a mentor, he's been the one to help improve my confidence and put your techniques in to practice. We also work together and can make a great time out of anything.
Anyway we are from England but he's moving to Canada for 8 months and i'll probably be only able to see him once if at all. He leaves tomorrow and its only just hit me and i feel awful. This is definitely worse than one-itis overy any kind of girl. Your definitely right about good male friends being much more important than women. Only problem with this one-itis i have no idea how to cure it, feels like a part of me is being taken away and i have the fear that without his encouragement i'll return to my former less confident self.
What can i do C? please help me out.
E
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
Yeah, it sucks when someone you've grown close to leaves. I've recently lost a person I thought of as my close friend. His marriage apparently did not include space for old friends, so I no longer see him. C'est la vie. It hurt, but I got over it.
Can a guy really have One-itis over another GUY?
Read my answer here:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
- Carlos Xuma
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QUESTION:
... I have a question about how to deal with an awkward situation. I went to get my hair cut at the usual place last night. There was a totally hot women in the chair next to me getting her hair done. We made eye contact, and I was getting all of the "go" signals (little glimpses at me, laughing at my jokes, flashing a little knee, etc.) I was playing it cool, but clearly showing my interest in return.
So, here's the awkward part. My hair stylist, B, is a friend of mine (no romantic interests). She knows my ex-wife and a woman I'm dating now. I didn't feel comfortable trying to seduce the hottie next to me, because, frankly, I felt awkward in front of B I decided to pass on the opportunity. Got any thoughts on this matter?
Thanks
J
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
... As far as your getting blocked by the woman cutting your hair, I say, stop letting what other people think bother you. Unless this woman would actually report on you and adversely impact your reputation, then only good can come of your demonstrating your newfound ability to attract women.
Find out why it's good to have his ex find out about this here:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
- Carlos Xuma
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QUESTION:
Carlos, I need your HELP bad right now.
I am seeing several women right now, and I feel like I can't date just one exclusively. I have stated this to one of them and she has caught feelings and does not want to continue this if I am not going to be exclusive and stop sleeping with other women.
HOW does one get around this without being dishonest and becoming a cheater? I really like this girl, but I honestly don't feel like I can give up these other women.
I think you know what I am going through here and I'm sure you have mastered the game for how to handle this type of situation.
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CARLOS:
First of all, everyone shed a tear for this guy that has too many women.
(*Note: it really is true that 10% of the guys get about 90% of the quality women out there.)
Now, I hate to tell you this, but more often than not, a woman will want your EXCLUSIVE attention. Otherwise she feels like a "girl on the side" - or a slut - and will not want to participate.
Find out how to handle multiple women in your life in my latest newsletter here:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
- Carlos Xuma
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