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CARLOS XUMA -
DATING ADVICE FOR MEN NEWSLETTER: |
The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Saturday, 2:25 PM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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QUESTION: Is this how to program your mind?
Carlos-
Enjoying your Alpha Man cds...
The phrase that sends a shiver up my spine is "I'm gonna f@$k THREE HOT WOMEN EVERY WEEK FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!" I know this is a little different from your "Super Confidence Now!" but since mine is a little more direct, does it make it bad?
Even though it has not materialized yet, I know I will achieve my goal, not because I am entitled to it, but because I am expecting it and know it will happen.
Any suggestions, appreciated.
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CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:
Well, here's a little suggestion, and keep in mind that it's coming from a place of "been there, done that, bought the t-shirt...."
When I talk about this topic of dating and attraction, it always comes from a place of respect for women and a place of honesty within each guy. The bare-knuckle truth is that even though you think that sleeping with a bunch of women is your desire and gets you excited, it's really just a channel for your sexual energy.
Deep inside, this isn't all you're looking for. A lot of guys think it's sexual conquest they desire, but it's much more than that.
Look, ask any woman that has an ounce of self-honesty and awareness and she'll tell you that women want sex, too. In fact, women want sex MORE than men.
HUH? DID CARLOS JUST SAY WHAT I THINK HE DID?
... follow this link below or copy and paste it into your browser to find out why this is true:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
* If you have problems with that link, cut and paste this into your browser window:
www.datingdynamics.com/dating-advice-newsletter-current.htm
- Carlos Xuma
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QUESTION: Getting Fixated...
Thanks for all of your advice in the past & future! I subscribe to your Advanced Coaching online!
Awhile back I dated a girl for about 2 months. We got along well & seemed to have good chemistry. For whatever reason it kind of ended, first her not wanting a boyfriend, me talking her into keeping it going, then me deciding that I should move on and do something else instead.
Anyways about a year has passed and during this time I have seen this girl a lot she goes to the same gym, bars, etc. She usualy gives me strong signals that she would like to talk to me, but I usually ignore her & do my thing.
Recently though I felt like talking to her so I sent her a text message appologizing for the way I handled our situation ...
It never really got very serious, I would have called it more casual dating. Is this worth pursuing her at all at this point?
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CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:
Look, there's always a chance of getting it going again, but it just isn't always worth your time to pursue. Mostly because guys place too much emphasis on fixing what they broke rather than fixing their own bad habits.
Which is always misleading them from the True Path.
To paraphrase Shakespeare, The fault lies not in the stars, but in ourselves.
Your fantasies about what might have been are pretty much the same as the stars...
So you're doing the right thing by keeping your options open and keeping an abundance mindset. You're just wondering if you can go back there.
Well, here's what I think ...
... follow this link below or copy and paste it into your browser to find out how to handle going back to a woman:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
* If you have problems with that link, cut and paste this into your browser window:
www.datingdynamics.com/dating-advice-newsletter-current.htm
- Carlos Xuma
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QUESTION:
...I know in your black book you covered the early 'I love you', but I need a bit more detail if you can spare the time. Well I've been with a my girlfriend for about a month now, while I like her she does seem to be a bit needy/clingy. For the moment I can put up with this without much problem. However she has already said she loves me a few times.
Now this freaks me out a little and confuses me, I find it hard to believe that she is in love with me already, I know I'm certainly not in love with her. When she says it, it makes me feel a bit guilty because I know I cant say it back.
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CARLOS:
I just got this question the other day, and it's killing me to tell you why this is the biggest freakin' mistake on the planet. I also got a question about girls who kiss other guys when they're out at bars, and you'll LOVE my answer to that one.
Go read the rest of the questions and my answers on the newsletter page right now:
/daitng-advice-newsletter-current.htm
- Carlos Xuma
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- "Supreme", M.A.C.K. Tactics co-creator
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"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond the pick-up lines and approach techniques that so many guys use and fail with. Rather, Carlos gives guys everywhere practical,
valuable advice that will make men attractive not just for one night, but for many, many years. He lays down the foundation for becoming a NATURALLY attractive man, full of confidence and the ability to fully ENJOY being around hot babes.
Unlike other pickup artists, Carlos shares information that helps you not only in one area of life, but in many: in social relationships, at work, sports, with personal goals. He'll help make you a well-rounded, self-believing alpha MAN who's capable of just
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- James Brito, How to Be Irresistible to Women
"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction' community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction, and Explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character.
He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women truly crave in a man."
- Grant Adams, CEO - net2bed.com
"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."
- Joe Quirk, Author of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"
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