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CARLOS XUMA -
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The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Saturday, 1:15 PM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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QUESTION:
Often I see in movies or on tv shows, men and women will flirt with each other by making an animal noise, like maybe when they are passing one another in an office or something.
The guy will make a "Grrrrrr" type noise as a way of flirting with the woman. It is quite common to see this in pop culture.
Know what I'm talking about? Is this a good way to flirt with women in the real world?
- D
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CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:
Cute concept. Yes, you can take many of these pop culture references and do something more with them to give your game a little 'juice.'
There's a cute little ad that "Axe" uses (the men's shower products) that uses the reference to 1970's porn with the whole "Bow-chicka-bow-bow..."
I used that routine once or twice last week, but not to *open* a conversation. It was merely used as a tool to joke and have a little fun as we talked. It demonstrated social awareness and a keen insight - and it came out as "hip" in the context of the conversation. Every few sentences I'd look at this gal and go, "Bow-chicka-bow-bow!" It became our cute in-joke.
The problem here is this ...
... follow this link below or copy and paste it into your browser to find out the problem and how to use this approach:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
* If you have problems with that link, cut and paste this into your browser window:
www.datingdynamics.com/dating-advice-newsletter-current.htm
- Carlos Xuma
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I used to be that poor tool, by the way. I used to be the Nice Guy who thought he could just be a really swell guy and all the women would just want him. And then I found out that I was constantly turned down.
I got sick of it. Totally flipping sick of it. And I knew I had to change things.
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QUESTION:
Three of us that attended your seminar in Belgrade have been sarging for some time and now we are finally getting phone numbers (and sometimes instant dates) regularly.
Now, our biggest problem is flaking, in the sense that, when we get a phone numbers, we call the next day, and they won't go for day2, and this happens a lot to us. We know that this is because of lack of TRUST and RAPPORT. By the way, ... we still get the player vibe. The girls ask us a lot "Do you approach girls a lot? Do you do this regularly? Do you say this to every girl?"
We even try to seem as if we were approaching for the first time, we try to seem humble and not over-confident, yet we still get the player vibe.
So, how do we achieve that trust and rapport in 2-10 minutes?
- Mark
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CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:
Ah, the old "How do I get her to like me in just a few moments together..."
Let's face one thing right away... Anyone that claims you can walk up to a woman and have her number in just a few minutes is right. It's not that hard once you get the hang of it. It's just like any acquired skill.
BUT to actually establish a level of trust that will get her to re-connect with you will simply have to take MORE time and show her MORE of the REAL you.
You can't be building trust when you're acting according to scripts and routines, but as I taught you in the seminar, you will get further with a sincere expression of feeling than you will with a clever tactic that smells "game-y."
In short, you can't always use a technique to save your situation. Eventually you must rely on the REAL you (your sincerity and authenticity) to get her to believe in you.
I usually do this through...
To learn about how to connect better during the approach, follow the link below or copy and paste it into your browser:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
* If you have problems with that link, cut and paste this into your browser window:
www.datingdynamics.com/dating-advice-newsletter-current.htm
- Carlos Xuma
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