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The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Saturday, 1:05 PM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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QUESTION:
hi
here's my situation. i hope u can help me.
there is this beautiful girl in my office.first when i came here she was very attracted to me. few days later we were kissing and stuff. when these things happened i didn't even talk to her that much. but called her on the phone and sms her. and i think she also had a thing with another guy in the office. but i didn't care.
after awhile she stopped these things and started to go out with this other office guy. so i stopped calling and sms her. she now goes to his house everynight. everyone knows they are together. they even talk to me about their relationship and that makes me sad. i do a lot of teasing now but it still isn't having any affect or maybe it does and i dont know about it.
she has dated a lot of guys.she flirts with every guy. you can say she's a bitch. deserves it i guess. sad thing is i still want her even though she's like that. she know's i go to other woman and i never call her anymore except for office stuff.
so can u help me win her back some how.
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CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:
Hmm...
You still want her, even though you think she's a bitch.
Hmmm....
Do you smell what I smell? That odor... it's so familiar... it's like...
WIMP.
This woman is in a relationship now. It doesn't sound like she's going to be interested in you anytime soon until she's lost her interest in HIM.
Honestly, you had your shot. If you had my book back then, you'd have had a chance, but it's a little too late right now. It sounds like you're hung up on her, but it's time to GET OVER IT.
We're programmed to want what we can't have. It's human nature.
But that doesn't mean it's good for you.
You'd spend months of effort on this woman only to lose your self-esteem in the process.
Don't get caught up in that Hollywood myth about "winning" a woman back from another relationship. Once a woman drops a guy, she pretty much cuts herself off from going back to that well again.
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QUESTION:
Everything is good. I have learned so much from your work. Thank you... I have really changed. I am light years from where I was a few months ago. Lots of confidence. Lots of numbers. As many dates as I can handle. It has been terrific...
I am 40 and I have been dating alot of girls that are younger than me. I almost think I am flying in a "No fly zone". These girls are all 33 to 38. I think they all want to get married. I am recently divorced so I am not getting remarried any time soon. I don't tell them that.
I do the teasing which I have mastered with your help. All the Alpha Man stuff. I think my problem is my looks. I have a babyface so I look alot younger than I am. I have dirty blond hair. I have 2 kids.I look like marrying material. I am tall 6'6". I look like a Dad, Husband. I just read "The Rules", and I know I am in battle with them. They are following these things to a T.
I need your help. Although, I look like a nice sweet man, I need to come across as BAD ASS. My looks do not support this. I need more meanness. Trust me I am pushing these girls around and not being a wimpy 'nice guy".
What do I do? Am I in the wrong age group? Maybe I should just be focused on Divorcees.
If I am not clear, please feel free to ask me some questions.
Master, What do I do?
Chris
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CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:
The first thing I'd do is to lose the attitude of being "in a battle with them." You're not. You're just falling victim to assuming that a particular author's take on men and women is the common or prevalent one. In fact, by viewing yourself as being "in battle" you lose a lot of the frame you need to at-tract women, because you feel like an adversary, not someone they can feel safe with.
Here are a few steps you can take to change your image and get the girl...
To learn about how to work your image - and an important announcement, follow the link below or copy and paste it into your browser:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
* If you have problems with that link, cut and paste this into your browser window:
www.datingdynamics.com/dating-advice-newsletter-current.htm
- Carlos Xuma
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QUESTION:
Hiya Carlos, this is Alek from the Belgrade seminar.
Personally I used to have little success, then got some success, then got misogynistic, then had a big period of pausing and depression.
Now having recovered from that depression period. I am back on the fast curve, and so is my friend. Now, the more women we're meeting, getting numbers from, the more misogynistic we're getting.
All those ideas of "WOMEN are such c*nts!", "Why can't they appreciate more of what we do" "It's so fucking EASY for them ... " "all they do is show up, and get whatever they want, and we have to do all this work".
We even get images of verbally and *EVEN* physically putting down women. All they do is complain about how men don't get it, and mock men for being "clods". All I want is some "RESPECT". It's ok to not want what we men are offering, but at least be respectful about the role we men are playing.
Got any tips? :)
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CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:
It's easy to slip into negative thought patterns with women.
You want to know how I'd handle this situation?
...follow the link below or copy and paste it into your browser to read my answer:
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- Carlos Xuma
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