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CARLOS XUMA -
DATING ADVICE FOR MEN NEWSLETTER: |
The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Saturday, 12:35 PM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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QUESTION:
Carlos!
Thanks so much for your advice [The Dating Black Book]! I feel myself changing and molding into a better self. I bring confidence to the table not only at dates, bars, parties, but also at work. People see that I mean business and that I�m on my own path to personal greatness. I�m coming into a promotion very soon and also getting random job offers! People see the passion!
Do you have any hints on what I should put up as an away message on my AIM? I go out quite a bit and I do know women that I know personally that check my away message. Usually I put �Out�� or �A night out on the town ;)� (with one of those winks @ the end)
Also, I live in an apartment complex and was wondering if it�s a good idea to start dating a neighbor?
Thanks so much!
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CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:
That�s what I�m talking about!
PASSION!
That�s the fuel for an Alpha Man�s life. If you just embrace these concepts, you�ll create a lifestyle that other men will envy.
Now, first of all, don't date neighbors. Women don't go for it. Too weird. Think this situation through for a minute and you'll realize why. Can you imagine wondering if she's watching you go out with friends? Watching for your car to appear? Peeking in your windows?
It's like a shake-and-bake stalking situation, just add romance. I wouldn't bother because very few women will indulge this one; they know that it's scarcity thinking to think that you can date your neighbor. It's just creepy.
Your question about the AIM �away� message is interesting. You see, I�ve never thought of these things in terms of what will get a certain response, but only in the message I want to communicate to women. I want them to know that...
To learn what you want to communicate, and HOW, follow the link below or copy and paste it into your browser:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
* If you have problems with that link, cut and paste this into your browser window:
www.datingdynamics.com/dating-advice-newsletter-current.htm
- Carlos Xuma
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QUESTION: Lost that loving feeling ...
I have been reviewing your material and in a nutshell from what I get from it is as long as you are confident and comfortable talking to women, and making them feel comfortable and making them want to come back and see more of you, you shouldn't have a problem. pretty much common sense.
I am very confident in all my abilities, I am a 24 year old university student and aspiring architect, I get excellent grades. I am a part time entrepreneur and I am happy with the money I am making. I have close friends which I know I can trust. I can go out with people and be entertaining. I am emotionally independent. I am in control of most of the aspects of my life. I am grateful for what I have and can achieve.
So far I guess you are wondering why I say you can't help me. I am a very ugly man, and if you saw me you would probably say I am right...
How do I get a beautiful woman or even just an average girl my age to look past the exterior. because what I noticed is a woman has to be at least mildly physically attracted to you for it to ever develop into any balanced relationship...
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CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:
I get this question from time to time, and the tone is usually the same: "My situation is hopeless, I've identified my limiting factor and I'll never get past it. Now please tell me how to get past it."
Do you see the contradiction here?
If it really was true that you are too ugly to get a woman, you would have accepted it by now. But there's something deep inside you that knows that this isn't true.
Here's a complete play-by-play on what you need to do to get yourself more success with women.
To read the play-by-play for this situation, follow the link below or copy and paste it into your browser:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
* If you have problems with that link, cut and paste this into your browser window:
www.datingdynamics.com/dating-advice-newsletter-current.htm
- Carlos Xuma
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QUESTION:
Hey Carlos...
How do I get a woman to talk about personal things? There's this girl I've been talking to about a year. We've only hung out a couple of times though. Today she called me and we were talking for like 40 minutes. I then asked "Can I ask you something personal?" She said no. I told her what's the point in being friends if we can't share personal information. She said "So you don't wanna be my friend anymore?" I paused for a minute then told her to call me back.
And every time I ask her to come over she says why don't I come over there. She also said that she doesn't even share personal information with her mother. I think I messed up with this chick a long time ago. After all she stole something from me and denied it, plus she has a boyfriend who she really doesn't want to be with. Any advice?
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CARLOS XUMA'S ADVICE:
First of all, when you think that you messed it up, you probably did.
Don't even bother asking me how to "get her back again." I've already provided THE definitive answer on this topic. (It's in my archives, go and search 'em.) You're chasing your own failure's tail, and you're making your state worse and worse the longer you believe you can redeem yourself.
By the way, you failed her test.
Which test?
To learn about how she tested him, follow the link below or copy and paste it into your browser:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
* If you have problems with that link, cut and paste this into your browser window:
www.datingdynamics.com/dating-advice-newsletter-current.htm
- Carlos Xuma
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He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women truly crave in a man."
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"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."
- Joe Quirk, Author of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"
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