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The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Friday, 11:10 PM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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QUESTION: How Do You Tease a Woman ...?
Hey Carlos,
... just got the Dating Black Book..good stuff..I have been trying lots of your stuff out and it really is working...
"Tease to please"..This has been hard for me..
I was at a party over the weekend and I really needed to bust this girls chops. I kept looking for an opening but could not find one. The girls has to screw up so you can bust her balls...Well...she never did in front of me..between my cruising around the party and coming back talking a little then off I go..cruising around..and coming back..I was just locked in frustration...
The date before this one I was busting her balls and it was working great... but I nailed her everytime she messed something up...I am looking for ways to start this.. I have this mental block..like I cannot do it..but I know I can..I just need some practice or something to get me started or some examples. I have not found too many examples... I just need to find the rhythm...
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
You don't need to wait for a woman to make a mistake to tease her. You have every right to tease her for just being a woman. Playfully, of course.
It's really not very hard to engineer a tease. All you need to do is think about how you used to behave on the playground as a kid.
You don't need to wait for a "screw up" - you just have to make your opportunity.
If she's standing there waiting for her drink, you can look at her and say this ...
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
- Carlos Xuma
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QUESTION: Is she really THAT special...?
Carlos,
First off, Happy New Year!
I had a great party at my house last night that my parents let me throw and it was a blast. Since restarting the Alpha Man Program, I feel so much better. My good friend's cousin was here last night and she was really hot.
We hit it off well, but what really turned me on to her was her personality. This may be the first time I actually mean it when I say it too. She was so noble and modest, almost a different breed. Way more mature than any girl her age (20). I told her out of instinct I thought her passions were sexy and went in for the kiss. She told me I was cute and bold (thanks to the AMP).
Anyway, we scheduled a day two this week, but a couple things.
1. I admit to a slight jealousy when she was flirting with another friend, but did my best to do my own thing when it happened. How can I get back on a woman's radar when this happens?
2. I leave for school in two weeks and most likely won't see her again. But, where can I meet more women like her? The girls at bars I meet are so immature. This one doesn't like getting "Fucked up" or smoke weed or any of that stuff.
Thanks,
P
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
Yes, you'll meet a lot of women out there. But the biggest mistake you can make is to get fixated on any one woman as being too special or "different." And especially if she really IS special or different!
It's important to not get too carried away with the feeling that a woman is TOO special. The reason is that you'll start to lose focus and make some pretty dumb mistakes.
The mistake I think that's being made here is that you...
To learn the rest and discover another important lesson in attraction, follow the link below or copy and paste it into your browser:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
- Carlos Xuma
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QUESTION: How Do You Get Into the Relationship Zone ...?
Hey Carlos,
I'm encountering a little problem that isn't very complicated, and neither serious, but it is blocking me from entering the relationship zone.
You see,I have no problem at all at tracting women and keeping them interested; neither do I have a problem meeting women and such. But after this attraction has been built, and her interest has been taken to a higher level, I get completely stuck as to how am I to start a relationship.
What do you think I should do?
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
So the key to your strategy, if you want to start a relationship, is to first of all, continue to be an Alpha Man. That never changes. If you wuss out, you're flushed out.
So the real secret is this: Women want relationships when they're with a man they don't want to lose.
The mistake I think that's being made is that you...
To learn the rest and discover another important lesson in attraction, follow the link below or copy and paste it into your browser:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
- Carlos Xuma
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"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction' community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction, and Explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character.
He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women truly crave in a man."
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"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."
- Joe Quirk, Author of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"
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