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CARLOS XUMA -
DATING ADVICE FOR MEN NEWSLETTER: |
The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Friday, 10:35 PM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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QUESTION:
Carlos,
Hey, I have been reading your newsletters and have found myself in a bit of a bad situation lately. I am one of those attractive dudes that always has good luck with the ladies (at first) but problems start showing up with time and relationships.
I have been dating a girl for 6 months now but the last week with her has been a living hell. Before I get to something more specific let me say that when I met her I was extremely cocky bordering arrogant with humor thrown in. She has complained about me being cocky since about the first week.
Now, I hear time and time again how she wants to know where she stands and that she loves me regardless of my being cocky. She tells me that she would like a "nice" Stan instead of a cocky one. I quess I need a biiiaaatch slap from you because today for the first time in 6 months I sent a long e-mail (not mushy - but just a bit too revealing). I hope that I can be forgiven for this Alpha Man sin...
Any suggestions on recovery?
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
First of all, you guys are thinking WAY too black & white.
I never told you that you couldn't tell a woman how you felt ... just not in the first 10-12 dates at least!
And right now, I'm not too convinced that your moment of "wimping" was really to blame.
Here is the most common mistake guys make with women - and how to avoid making it ...
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
- Carlos Xuma
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QUESTION:
Every 'guru' has it's own opinion, and it all makes sense, but different tips contradict with each other. I already have my preferences, but it stops me from listening to other authors.
Should I use all of the advice? How do I choose wisely?
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
Great question!
Sometimes you'll see certain tips that seem in contradiction to other things we may have said. In fact, you might even see times when it seems like we're contradicting OURSELVES.
Rest easy, my friend. It doesn't mean that we're all full of crap.
It just means that this area is not all "Black & White" as some people would like you to believe.
So how do you figure out which advice to follow when it seems to conflict ...?
Find out in this week's Newsletter: http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
- Carlos Xuma
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I'm doing something different this week and highlighting two questions with the same theme. See if you can pick
QUESTION: How do you interpret a woman's illogical behavior...?
Hey Carlos... How are you my friend?
I've got a question for you.
Why would a 22 year old chick make a Myspace page and put up a bunch of hot half naked pics of herself and put in her profile she is single and only looking for friends...?
I just don't get it. What's the point?
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
Yes, it is a little strange that a woman would present this kind of mixed message.
But haven't you ever been with a woman who was wearing a blouse that shows off her cleavage, and then she gets disgusted when a guy stares at her boobs?
Hmmm....
There are a couple reasons for this mixed message for you guys that might not be familiar with this:
REASON 1) This is a covert link to some kind of porn scam.
Porn is in every corner of the Internet. It's hiding in every little crack and crevice. Watch out for it and avoid it. This chick is probably luring guys into some kind of webcam porn thing.
REASON 2) ...
To learn the other reason and discover another important lesson in attraction, follow the link below or copy and paste it into your browser:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
* If you have any problems with my link, just cut and paste this into your browser window:
www.datingdynamics.com/dating-advice-newsletter-current.htm
- Carlos Xuma
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