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CARLOS XUMA -
DATING ADVICE FOR MEN NEWSLETTER: |
The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Friday, 10:20 PM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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QUESTION:
Carlos,
A real quick question for you. A couple of weeks ago I told my girlfriend that sometimes I need space and I have worked very hard on being �unavailable�.
I sometimes take a couple of days before calling and she called me on it once saying that she doesn�t play that game. She said that she wants a man to want her and if he stops calling she does too. I am still playing �unavailable� thinking that her impartation was a ruse...
Do the unavailable laws change from girl to girl?I know that it is a mistake for me to ask her why she hasn�t called me or initiated some get-togethers and I haven�t established contact in a couple of days but this tactic doesn�t seem to be working. I am torn between wanting to led her out of this game or wanting to stop contact to wait and see if she will initiate the next move.
This is frustrating - any advice would be great Carlos.
- S
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
My first question for you is HOW you are �working very hard on being unavailable.�
If you are TRYING to show an unavailable �Front� to her, you�re coming at this from the wrong direction.
You must BE unavailable.
Why is there a difference here?
Find out in the latest newsletter right here:
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
And also find out how to avoid flaking in ADVANCE ...
- Carlos Xuma
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QUESTION:
About a month ago the girl I've been exclusive with for about 4 months said that she loves me on two seaperate occasions. Since then she has not even brought it up, but I'm sure she still feels it.
Now, I feel that I'm ready to say it back. Should I initiate this, or should I drag it out little more and let her work up the courage to say it again?
Also, She is spending a lot more time at my house how should I handle it when she finds my porn and other things such as the e-books, and real books on handling women.
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
The best way to handle this is -
YOU initiate it....
For the rest of this week's newsletter, go to this link:
datingdynamics.com/datingadvice/1-10-2005.htm
(You may have to add "www" on the front of the link...)
Cut and paste that into your browser to see the rest...
- Carlos
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QUESTION:
Last year I met a 40 year old woman (but she looks to be in her late 20's) at work. Acting cocky and humorous, I got her to notice me.
We went out for drinks the first time around and I told her that I had a girlfriend. Being the kind of person she is, she didn't act on her attraction towards me.
The second time we went out for drinks I kind of blew it by being somewhat crude in my approach, and not being as cocky towards her as how I initially started out.
Today she knows I am single but now she's sleeping with a guy she refers to as just her friend but cannot see herself being with him in the long run.
Question: How do I rekindle her initial attraction to me that I know that she felt for me initially?
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
So now she's sleeping with a guy who offers no relationship potential, huh?
Gee. That's a new one.
(Sarcasm intended.)
She's attracted to him and staying with him because he's showing her challenge. He's not smothering her or rushing her into a relationship.
Well, we don't need to go into all the reasons why she's WITH him, just look at the ways you can trade places and get her instead...
Go here to find out the 4 ways you can revive things when you're losing her to another guy...
http://tinyurl.com/pgw2o
- Carlos Xuma
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