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The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Friday, 9:30 AM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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"You helped me a lot to be more confident, masculine and magnetic. You're making a positive difference to all the guys out there. Thanks a lot Carlos! Best regards, - F"
QUESTION:
Well Carlos,
Something that I haven't really planed on is happening. Now I have a live in girlfriend, and it's going well. However, there's this girl at my work that is just all over me.
It hasn't gotten way out of control yet, but if this keeps up the way it's been going, I'm going to have a very difficult decision to make. This new girl and I are flirting constantly at work. All the way to her sitting on my knee wiggling around, and telling me how good her clit piercing feels.
She also pretty much forced her number on me, and started telling me about this party that she wants me to go to at her house.
WOW! I've never been this successful with women. Before I learned all of these techniques, I was a nice guy, who thought I only wanted one girl. Now I'm not so nice, and have other girls demanding my supply. I am just like every other guy now, who wants them all.
However, I'm stuck in the middle of what I really want. I haven't told her that I have a girlfriend, and I've been keeping a very playful attitude with her. Can you help give my some options, and what might happen, for both of my choices?
Also, Is there a way to drop girls into MY "just friends" bucket, for now, with the possibility get to get continue when the time is right? And What would be the best way to mention my girlfriend, not just with this one, but for the future as well?
Thanks so much,
-G
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CARLOS:
Wow, I guess I need to write a new e-book: How to Deal With Your New Success With Women...
That's just gotta suck...
Sorry, fresh out of pity. But at least now you know that my stuff works, huh?
Let's be clear about one thing, I don't promote deceit. So I can't sit here and in good conscience tell you how to cheat on your live-in girlfriend without any consequences, either to your love life or your own conscience.
In fact, the men who are best with women know that their honor is worth more than any piece of tail, and THAT is why they stay successful with women.
Pick up artists are a flash in the dark, but honorable gentlemen are forever. (Notice I did not say "Nice Guys.")
Frankly, you needed to figure out what you want to do BEFORE letting a girl come to live with you. Now you're in a situation where your girlfriend is your primary consideration. You made an arrangement that you can't keep.
Before you risk the wrath of the girl you've got, or try to figure out how to start juggling all the women that are coming on to you, you need to decide what it is YOU want.
One woman?
Many?
Many girls at once?
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If it's just one woman you want, than decide if the one you've got is good enough to stay with. If not, move on.
If it's many women you desire, you need to move her (or you) out. (I suspect this is the case, or you'd have already told that girl at the office what's going on, wouldn't you? Yeah.)
So let's run through the possibilities:
Possibility 1) You keep your current girlfriend and play the field with all the other women that are hot for you.
And what happens if and when your current girl finds out about your activity?
Let's put it this way, there's a wicked blue car driven by a guy that lives nearby me. Powder blue, airfoil on the back, custom cooling and sound. Hot damn car.
And not once but TWICE it has been totally trashed with a baseball bat. We know it was more than likely a resentful woman behind it.
Not a pretty possibility to contemplate.
Possibility 2) You try to keep the other women on the line until the inevitable - you break up with your live-in lady.
Chances are they will not wait for you.
The just-friends bucket is not going to work, I'm afraid. These women aren't library books you're holding on reserve. They're going to go find another guy ... one who's been studying my stuff. :-)
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Possibility 3) You level with your woman at home and come to grips with the fact that you're not ready to become monogamous yet.
You sound a lot like me. We get bored with the woman we're with when we still see that there are so many other women to experience.
Eventually there will come a day when you realize that all women are pretty much the same.
And they'll all grow old and get wrinkled.
But for now, there's a lot of love to share, so we Alpha Men have to be the ambassadors.
Yeah, this option is short-term pain, but long-term gain. You can then chase all the skirt that comes your way.
Oh, I suppose the last suggestion I have is... well, why not see if your girlfriend is into threesomes...?
The reality is that you need a lot more than cocky and funny to get women... There are a bunch of skills that you need to develop to win over the hot women you see every day.
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I'm in this to help you, educating men to do better in their lives in the one thing that has eluded us for thousands of years - SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.
Is there ANYTHING more important?
Remember life is too short, and death is too long.
Don't wait until your heart is broken before you take steps to learn how this game is played.
Get the information on how to improve your dating life TODAY. Make the changes you need to make to get the love, sex, and relationships that you want and DESERVE to have.
I'll be back with more advice soon ...
This is the year for you to get successful with women!
- Carlos
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Listen to what the other gurus are saying about Carlos' work...
"I've read every book and studied every system on dating. The problem with most 'gurus' in this field is that they're not teaching men how to build a solid foundation. Until you change your internal belief system and adopt an Alpha mindset, all the
tactics and techniques in the world aren't going to do you any good. (Actually, it's like learning just enough karate to get your ass kicked!) Carlos Xuma is the best there is at teaching men how to develop their 'inner game.' From
there, he'll give you the complete set of tools for approaching women, and life, with absolute confidence and skill. If you're in this game to win it, these are the rules you need to learn."
- "Supreme", M.A.C.K. Tactics co-creator
"Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!"
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"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond the pick-up lines and approach techniques that so many guys use and fail with. Rather, Carlos gives guys everywhere practical,
valuable advice that will make men attractive not just for one night, but for many, many years. He lays down the foundation for becoming a NATURALLY attractive man, full of confidence and the ability to fully ENJOY being around hot babes.
Unlike other pickup artists, Carlos shares information that helps you not only in one area of life, but in many: in social relationships, at work, sports, with personal goals. He'll help make you a well-rounded, self-believing alpha MAN who's capable of just
about anything. And seducing gorgeous, high-quality women, is just the beginning."
- James Brito, How to Be Irresistible to Women
"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction' community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction, and Explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character.
He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women truly crave in a man."
- Grant Adams, CEO - net2bed.com
"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."
- Joe Quirk, Author of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"
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