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CARLOS XUMA -
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The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Thursday, 2:05 PM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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HOW (AND WHY) HOLLYWOOD ATE YOUR BRAIN
I just read a newsletter from a fairly popular dating advice site that left me stunned with the utter ignorance in their response to a guy who wrote in for help. It was as if they were TRYING to sabotage this poor guy's chances.
His letter went something like this:
"Hi, I have this great woman friend that I want to have as more than a friend. How do I get her romantically interested?"
And their STUNNINGLY incompetent response was:
"Try confessing to her how you feel. Sometimes that's all you need to do."
And his response was:
"Hey! It worked! I told her how I felt about her, and now she's totally hot for me! Thanks!"
WTF?
(As in, What the FOCK?)
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Now, I know you guys have been with me for a while, and understand the COMPLETE fallacy of this solution.
Not only do I think this particular situation sounds totally prefabricated and RIDICULOUS, it stretches the limits of credibility BEYOND BELIEF.
How many of you guys have ever "confessed" your love and feelings for a woman and had her respond positively to you?
How many women have you told of your devoted love and discovered that all she was waiting for was for you to confess to her before she just jumped into your arms like Meg Ryan in some lame RomCom (Romantic Comedy)?
Anyone? Anyone?
Bueller? Bueller?
C'mon, raise your hand.
NO ONE?
If ANYONE has EVER had this work for them, I want you to write me an email right now and tell me about it, because it's NEVER worked for me, or for ANY man I've EVER MET.
PERIOD.
(Insert shaking head here...)
This "advice" came from people who should know MUCH BETTER than to give this kind of dangerous information to guys.
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You know what it tells me?
It tells me that they're NOT really out there getting laid, and they're part of a conspiracy to rob all other guys of their chances of getting laid.
Honesty is NOT the best policy when it comes to attracting women. (It comes into play later, when and IF you decide to have a relationship with her, but not now.) Show some integrity and honor, but don't reveal that you once stuck your pecker in the vacuum cleaner until MUCH LATER. (If ever, Hoover-boy.)
I've explained to you guys the only way a friendship can turn romantic, and that was in Session 5 of the Audio. There are still a LOT of guys out there, though, who think that telling a woman how you feel is the way into her heart.
Let me give you another example of the crappy programming they are trying to fill you up with out there...
I just watched "Punch Drunk Love" with Adam Sandler the other night. Now, I have to say, it was a pretty weird twist on the whole RomCom thing, and actually funny in many parts. Unique and interesting. I like a movie that dares to be different. Pretty good cinematography, too.
HOWEVER, the plot was COMPLETE and UTTER HORSESH!T.
The really stinky kind, mixed with hay and peanuts and corn.
(Sorry, that was gross, but you get my point ...)
Let me illustrate the dangerous beliefs perpetuated by this movie...
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And if you're reading this and wondering what the real deal is...
Well, Isn't it time you learned what REALLY works with women?
Have you tried buying her dinners and flowers?
Have you tried confessing your feelings?
Wouldn't you like to know why all those myths don't work for you?
Wouldn't you like to know:
... when a woman is playing you or REALLY interested?
... how to interpret her body language? And how do you best present your own?
... how to meet MORE hot women?
... how do you get them attracted to you?
... how to stop paying for dates that go NOWHERE?
These were questions I wanted answers to for YEARS, and I finally decided that I was going to get them. I started reading all the books in the bookstore on the topic. When I realized they didn't have the information I needed, I started looking for books that talked about pickups and techniques and the "taboo" information that you couldn't find anywhere else. (I started this before there was an Internet, but not TOO long before. :)
When I got as much as I could find (and that wasn't a lot) I started trying things and experimenting. I got rejected and blasted, and occasionally I also got LAID. I watched why people did things and noticed how they influenced how other people perceived them.
I have spent YEARS and YEARS out there getting battered, deep-fried, and served up as a meal ticket in the world of dating, and there's no reason why you should have to.
Really, do you want to go through 2004 without this powerful knowledge? Do you want ANOTHER year of confusion and poor results to stop you from getting what you deserve?
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I've talked to guys the world over who have made a REAL difference in their lives by taking the first step on the right path - learning. Once you understand, your world opens up.
"Thank you, Carlos, for putting the Dating Black Book together.... Instead of promising supersonic seduction with canned speeches, you tell it like it is so you can get results by being yourself � thank you... I have spent hundreds of dollars on other 'information' and yours covers the most topics ... no theory-only B.S. here.
"It would take you hundreds of hours, thousands of dollars and lots of heartache to figure out what Carlos has done for you. If you have ever wondered why the jerks get all the girls - you need this book."
C - Milwaukee, WI
The top-down strategies are EXACTLY what the Dating Dynamics e-book (and audio series) will teach you. Not only do you learn what the subtle psychological aspects are, but how you can AMPLIFY these "ALPHA MAN" traits so that you are able to draw in the women that you want. The only magic you have to add to this equation is the attitude to take action.
Are you tired of finding women that seem to be interested, and then they seem to get distant and all you get is a peck on the cheek and a "let's just be friends"?
Do you want to take the woman that you've lost and get her interested again?
Do you want to make sure you handle it RIGHT, from the start?
Get understanding so that you can make 2004 the year you took care of yourself and started being REALLY successful with women.
Life is a LOT shorter than you think.
Ask yourself: Do you want to wind up in your rocking chair whining about all the things you SHOULD have done?
Seize this opportunity. It's time to start WINNING.
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Don't forget - The Advanced Audio Coaching Session 5 is ready NOW to take your current skills and take them to the limit... with a special guest interview with Cathy, who tells you from the women's point of view exactly what they want from you. Go to the web page to hear a 3 minute excerpt from the program.
It is INCREDIBLE... guys, you have to get this interview. Cathy is my special guest, and she gives you her years of dating experience and gives up some fantastic secrets on men and what women want.
"Your stuff is gold!" - D. M.
"I've found the advanced audio coaching series 4 extremely useful... I now see why I've had the successes that I've had in the past and why the failures have happened. The audio series has reinforced that and has given me more ideas about how to increase self-confidence even further ... It's onwards and upwards from here and I'm confident of many more successes in the future." - A.C., New Zealand
Imagine having a coach giving you tips, strategies, and a complete breakdown on how to improve your technique and success with women - first hand. You can listen to this audio RIGHT NOW on your PC or Mac, and you can even use your MP3 player to take the learning and go mobile.
The monthly audio series is over 100 minutes of advice and explosive tips, and it's available for download at:
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And for the special Valentine's Day offer, you can get the first two sessions here:
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-Carlos
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Listen to what the other gurus are saying about Carlos' work...
"I've read every book and studied every system on dating. The problem with most 'gurus' in this field is that they're not teaching men how to build a solid foundation. Until you change your internal belief system and adopt an Alpha mindset, all the
tactics and techniques in the world aren't going to do you any good. (Actually, it's like learning just enough karate to get your ass kicked!) Carlos Xuma is the best there is at teaching men how to develop their 'inner game.' From
there, he'll give you the complete set of tools for approaching women, and life, with absolute confidence and skill. If you're in this game to win it, these are the rules you need to learn."
- "Supreme", M.A.C.K. Tactics co-creator
"Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!"
- Scot McKay, X & Y Communications, DeserveWhatYouWant.com
"Carlos Xuma is the REAL DEAL! If you are serious about creating an extraordinary relationship. You will learn more about the needs and desires of women than they do themselves! I highly recommend
Carlos to any man who is ready to get the woman of his dreams. I love his game, its 100% real."
- The Dean, Dating4Men.com
"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond the pick-up lines and approach techniques that so many guys use and fail with. Rather, Carlos gives guys everywhere practical,
valuable advice that will make men attractive not just for one night, but for many, many years. He lays down the foundation for becoming a NATURALLY attractive man, full of confidence and the ability to fully ENJOY being around hot babes.
Unlike other pickup artists, Carlos shares information that helps you not only in one area of life, but in many: in social relationships, at work, sports, with personal goals. He'll help make you a well-rounded, self-believing alpha MAN who's capable of just
about anything. And seducing gorgeous, high-quality women, is just the beginning."
- James Brito, How to Be Irresistible to Women
"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction' community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction, and Explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character.
He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women truly crave in a man."
- Grant Adams, CEO - net2bed.com
"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."
- Joe Quirk, Author of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"
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