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CARLOS XUMA -
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The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Thursday, 12:12 PM: Carlos Xuma's Desk...
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NOT REALLY A QUESTION:
Hey Carlos, listen, you know I'm a great fan and I'm your number #1 student. I read your newsletters religiously and your e-books have helped me tremendously. It's almost 3am as I'm typing this and I just got back from a night of sarging. I did 33 approaches, got 3 e-mail addresses and 2 phone numbers and almost one make-out. My goal is to do 100 aproaches per week and this week I've earned a gold star because I did 123 approaches.
Yes, I get blown off, laughed at, women walk away with a face on them, some are very rude (funny how the rude ones are not even attractive), not interested, I have a boyfriend, I'm married, I'm engaged...
And you know what? I LOVE it! I love the game! When I approach a girl and she's receptive and friendly, beautiful and attractive with high self-steem and a great personality. I run my game as usual, I get her number, we meet up, I seduce her. Excellent!
But I don't learn as much about myself and how to manage my emotions and how to interact with people and how to bounce from failure like when I crash and burn and fail miserably.
My wings call me "The Kamikaze Wingman" because of my willingness to jump on the grenade for them. When my wing closes his target, I feel terrific. When my wing is happy, I'm happy....
CARLOS SEES WHAT THIS GUY IS MADE OF:
This guy wrote me to let me know how things were going after getting my material under his belt. I just had to share it with you.
The most important step you can take in your development as a single guy, and as an Alpha, is to Check Your Attitude.
There's a saying: "Your attitude determines your ALtitude."
It's so true, my brothers.
I was driving down a highway near where I live yesterday when I saw two cars speeding excessively by me. I thought to myself, that's reckless, and it endangers other people.
As I turned the bend, I watched in horror as one of the two cars (doing about 90) lost control and went into a roll. I watched as this small white Chevy went side over side over side, about 10 times. The whole time I'm thinking that he'll be lucky to live. I swear it was more incredible than watching it in a movie. This was REAL.
I was one of the first people to pull over and make sure he was okay. This young guy actually crawled out of the wreckage with just a small cut on the head. He was lucky.
His attitude was that he can pretend he's invincible. The rules of the world (and inertia and gravity) don't apply to him. What a sobering wake-up call.
Some guys will never get that harsh slap of reality, or if they do, they deny it. They pretend everything is all right. They're just fine. They don't need to grow. They don't need to improve.
They're scared to change for the better.
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This guy in the letter above GETS it. He understands the right attitude.
And because he does, he's getting results.
And he understands that it's actually EASY.
This whole talk to women and pick up women and date women thing is really just a game, and it's so easy to play it right and WIN.
But the essence of his success I fear will be lost, so I'm going to replay the most important part of his email for you to review:
"But I don't learn as much about myself and how to manage my emotions and how to interact with people and how to bounce from failure like when I crash and burn and fail miserably."
THAT is what it's all about.
The seeds of his successes are all in his mistakes. And like I've told you, when you understand this principle and make more of them, you make less of them.
Because you learn, and you stop making them, and you then learn that there IS NO SUCH THING AS A MISTAKE OR FAILURE!
It's all part of the same thing.
Did you know that a commercial jet is off course 95%+ of the time? It's true. The pilot and autopilot are re-adjusting the flight hundreds of times during the average flight, because of crosswinds and new locational readings.
But they STILL GET TO THE GOAL.
Because they keep making adjustments.
Imagine if the pilot got on the speaker and said, "Well, folks, we really were hoping to get you to our destination - Los Angeles today, but due to unforeseen problems, we're going to have to settle for Deadwood Arizona. I hope you don't mind."
You'd have a rebellion on that flight, wouldn't you?
But the one thing the pilot KNOWS is that if he keeps correcting his course enough, the plane will - MUST - get to its destination.
You must be just like that pilot.
Your flight number 101 from single and without a woman is leaving now.
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How are you going to fly it?
Are you going to give up at the first headwind?
Are you going to hide in your closet when she tells you that she's busy this weekend?
Or are you going to adjust your flight plan again?
Your destination is THERE, my brothers.
You just have to stay on course.
A few more things this guy gets:
- It's a numbers game. The more numbers you run, the more success you have. PERIOD. End of story.
123 approaches! In a flipping WEEK!
Incredible, dude. My hat is off to you.
You don't even have to do this many to have success, but the fun fact is that if you do even a portion of this number, and you keep it FUN, 123 is nothing after a while. You won't be able to find ENOUGH women to keep up with you.
Then the tables turn!
Some other great points:
- He's got goals. That is SO critical to growth. Have a destination in mind, guys. That same pilot would never get on the loudspeaker and say, "Well, folks, we're taking off in just a few minutes. We don't know where we're going, but we're sure we're going somewhere. I just hope we have enough fuel to make it."
That would be bad.
- He takes care of his wingmen and genuinely invests himself in THEIR success. Not just his own!
Fantastic! This kind of loyalty is what I wish *I* had.
- And, finally, this guy isn't deterred by women that turn him down. He understands that there are so many women out there that he can't get to them all.
I hate to say it, but the simplicity of this formula is already looking weird to some of you. I can hear a bunch of guys going, "Yeah, sure, he's just good looking..." or "Yeah, he's just lucky..."
Or a hundred thousand other excuses guys make for themselves.
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Instead of following a plan that has worked since the starting of time.
Just DO IT.
Go out and start talking to women. Start interacting with them everywhere you can.
I GUARANTEE you success if you do that, and follow the simple strategies I've got for you.
Ultimately, you're just going to have to learn enough about what's going on in her head to get that upper hand.
I have an offer for you that you simply can't refuse. Hey, pretend I'm your Godfather.
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I'm in this for the help I can give you, educating men to do better in their
lives in the one thing that has eluded us for thousands of years - SUCCESS
WITH WOMEN.
Is there ANYTHING more important?
Time is running short for all of us, no matter how young or old you are. Don't waste precious years of your life learning by trial and error (and perhaps not learning at all).
Remember life is too short, and death is too long.
Get the information on how to improve your dating life TODAY. Make the changes you need to make to get the love, sex, and relationships that you want and DESERVE to have.
If you've ever found yourself saying, "I don't understand women!" then our e-books will finally give you the knowledge you need to finally understand. I'm telling you, it's like getting a book that describes how a certain magic trick is done that has fascinated you for years.
I remember when this realization hit me, and how excited I was. I stayed up that night writing out how I'd use the knowledge to improve my dating life. It wasn't until years later that I got around to writing the book on it, but I finally did it.
All my experience ... my heart and soul is in these e-books and audio programs. I just know you'll enjoy them.
I'll be back with more advice soon...
This is the year for you to get busy and get successful
with women!
- Carlos
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"Dear Carlos, Your program is a "killer..."
It helped me to get rid of many traits of the so called "nice guy" - shyness, indecisiveness, "ass-kissing", etc.
... It boosted significantly my love and sex life. Not only [this] ... It helped me to be more successful in doing business, I can now easily spot when somebody wants to "walk over me" and try to make me submissive as usually women do. Thanks a lot!
My best wishes to you!"
- S.D.
Sofia, Bulgaria
"I LOVE your Secrets of the Alpha Man program. It is by far the best overall e-book and audio program online that I have read....and I have done my research and read all the popular e-books and what not.
"I already was having a lot of success prior to the program but my success has doubled since reading the e-book and listening to the audio." - D.
"Hey Carlos, I have been reading your book "Secrets of the Alpha Man and it is absolutely life changing ... I mean seriously I don't even read it as a mere book anymore - I will use it as my personal reference guide for true manhood for good ...
"[I've been] studying your book and already seeing results..."
"Thanks, your work is really having a wonderful impact ... I have to admit that your work is the only material that I trust as far as internet products ...
"A loyal Reader - T.G.
P.S. Keep up the good work and keep those great e-books coming !"
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Listen to what the other gurus are saying about Carlos' work...
"I've read every book and studied every system on dating. The problem with most 'gurus' in this field is that they're not teaching men how to build a solid foundation. Until you change your internal belief system and adopt an Alpha mindset, all the
tactics and techniques in the world aren't going to do you any good. (Actually, it's like learning just enough karate to get your ass kicked!) Carlos Xuma is the best there is at teaching men how to develop their 'inner game.' From
there, he'll give you the complete set of tools for approaching women, and life, with absolute confidence and skill. If you're in this game to win it, these are the rules you need to learn."
- "Supreme", M.A.C.K. Tactics co-creator
"Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!"
- Scot McKay, X & Y Communications, DeserveWhatYouWant.com
"Carlos Xuma is the REAL DEAL! If you are serious about creating an extraordinary relationship. You will learn more about the needs and desires of women than they do themselves! I highly recommend
Carlos to any man who is ready to get the woman of his dreams. I love his game, its 100% real."
- The Dean, Dating4Men.com
"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond the pick-up lines and approach techniques that so many guys use and fail with. Rather, Carlos gives guys everywhere practical,
valuable advice that will make men attractive not just for one night, but for many, many years. He lays down the foundation for becoming a NATURALLY attractive man, full of confidence and the ability to fully ENJOY being around hot babes.
Unlike other pickup artists, Carlos shares information that helps you not only in one area of life, but in many: in social relationships, at work, sports, with personal goals. He'll help make you a well-rounded, self-believing alpha MAN who's capable of just
about anything. And seducing gorgeous, high-quality women, is just the beginning."
- James Brito, How to Be Irresistible to Women
"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction' community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction, and Explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character.
He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women truly crave in a man."
- Grant Adams, CEO - net2bed.com
"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."
- Joe Quirk, Author of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"
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