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CARLOS XUMA -
How to Pickup Women... |
The TRUTH About Dating and Attraction...
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Sunday, 6:10 PM: Carlos
Xuma's Desk...
I've asked a lot of guys over the years what their BIGGEST question
about women is.
Can you guess what they ask?
Almost every time, it's how to pickup women.
But that's a bit general. It really boils down to:
"How to communicate with women in a way that builds attraction and connection."
Yeah, most every guy wants a phone number from her,
sure, but it's more about what happens after that. Will
she flake? Will she answer the phone? How do you get the date...?
Guys are most concerned
with the stage of dating that they are expected to manage: The approach
and first few dates.
What if you could learn the communication
skills that would allow you
to pickup women anywhere and anytime?
What if you could learn the principles of persuasive
and confident conversation with anyone, and learn how to read them and
their hidden intentions?
Not just with women, either.
With everyone in your world....
Hang on and I'll explain more about this after this question on how
to pickup women...
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QUESTION- How to pickup women:
Dear Mr Miagi,
I have just started a university course as a mature age student (I'm 24)
and am wondering how I can use this as an advantage to meet women... how to
pickup women, too.
There are lots of younger girls there and I feel I have an advantage as I have been living in the "real world", having left school a while ago. In other words, I have plenty of experience!
My question is: How can I make dates with these women at lectures and classes
to get the most success? How can I make it equally casual and exciting? (I
dont want a girlfriend, just some fun!)
Cheers,
D. M.
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CARLOS XUMA'S ANSWER:
Nice "Karate Kid" reference there. Yeah, I'm a Martial Artist. But I'm not
old and Japanese. :)
When you ask "How to Pickup Women," you're also asking
a bigger question about how to communicate your confidence. When we say
"pickup," we really mean "flirt and attract." And hopefully get her number
and more later on.
The answer
is really about what you've acquired in terms of real world experience
and maturity that you can bring to the table. With any luck, you'll have
a better display of confidence and Alpha Power than most
of the leg-humping monkeys at your university.
You're going to have a lot easier time of it on campus if you use your confidence
like a badge of power.
The first step in learning to pickup women is to project your confidence
to women.
If you can sit anywhere,
sit next to the women you're interested in. Express a confident but casual interest
in them.
You can do this by asking to borrow a highlighter or
an eraser occasionally, or even asking her what time it is. This lets her
know that you're not just hitting on her, and she'll begin to wonder. Over
time, you'll cultivate an air of mystery.
Use your body language to let them know that you're not
intimidated by
her - or on the prowl.
The easiest way to show this casual
interest is to not
face a woman directly. When you approach straight on, it sends
a far different message than if you look over your shoulder at her. Try
it and you'll start to see what I mean. Play with your posture so that
you convey a certain aloof distance.
Your goal when you learn how to pickup women is to communicate (without
words)
that you're a self-confident
and secure man, because this will be translated into her subconscious
mind as:
"He's
good with women, and he'll be good with me sexually. He knows what he's doing."
Another
advantage of your environment is that you know you'll see these women around
campus, so there's no need to rush.
Take your time.
Build up a little sexual
tension, and use time to your advantage. Most guys are rushing along, where
you know you can let a few meetings sink in and work for you.
Something to consider is that campus life is very high-visibility. Use
this to your advantage.
First of all, make sure you're seen
with many women.
I can hear you now... "What? Won't this turn her off from
me? She'll think I'm a player!"
Uh, no.
This is the fact about women that most guys never
learn. Being seen around many women will actually raise the curiosity
factor for
the other women who see you.
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You'll want to escalate and get phone numbers. Be careful of looking too
eager by calling women too quickly. Your best strategy is to let
them see you a few times in a class before calling her. That way you can
play up the hard-to-get factor so that she'll be wondering when you'll
call her.
Women in college are the best candidates for what you're looking for: FUN.
They're not looking to get tied down (most, anyway), and they are also more
liberated from social expectations if they're living away from home.
These women are also
still building their sexual experience and self-esteem,
which means they are most responsive to the techniques I teach you in my
programs. Remember, women want sex as much as men do. They just have better
self control at showing it.
Use the library, the gym, and any parties to your advantage. There's so
much social activity going on there, you're going to have trouble deciding
which woman gets your attention. Think: ABUNDANCE.
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And make no excuses to any woman there who tries to play you with her test
questions about "Are you a player" or "Who else are you seeing?" etc. You're
going to need to prepare answers to many of their test questions in advance
so that you can be ready.
Remember that women are just as competitive as men are
in certain areas. One of them is competing for the most socially desirable
men. Half the work when you learn how to pickup women is HER responsibility
to be receptive so she can find out more about you.
Good luck... I envy you! To be able to go back to school with experience
and having this information working for you and your game ...
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The secrets of how
to pickup women are
easy to learn.
Most guys don't approach and pickup women because they
haven't got the SKILLS to APPROACH WOMEN.
Once you learn these skills, you'll feel less anxious and you'll actually DO
IT.
How often have you found yourself in a similar situation?
Wondering how to pickup women is one of the questions
I get all the time. Guys everywhere understand on some level that they must
communicate differently to get the results they want, but they don't
know HOW TO DO IT.
Well, they didn't know until NOW.
If you've already read my ebook The
Dating Black Book, then you should get
your hands on a copy of my latest program. In it, I cover the most asked about
topic of all time: Communication
and Persuasion.
Inside this program, I teach you the most essential
elements of pickup: conversation - with ANYONE.
After all, if you're going to learn the skills for how
to pickup women,
you also might as well learn the secret rules of how
to communicate with everyone
in your world.
Women.
Men.
Family.
Your Boss.
Your Friends...
The principle of attraction works in every area of your life, and you'll
be able to persuade anyone and everyone you talk to. You'll be able to influence
them to help you accomplish your goals...
Get the raise you want...
Get dates with the women you want...
It all starts with POWERFUL communication
strategies that I can show you. (It's always much more than just
pickup, right?)
You can get the details here:
I also recommend my Alpha
Immersion DVD program. This program will teach
you all about winning the INNER GAME of confidence, and showing
you the COMPLETE strategy to attract and pickup
women and driving up their powerful feelings
of attraction - and then directing it towards YOU.
I can't say enough good things about this program and what it can teach you
about winning the game of attraction with women.
You can also see a full 12 minute video clip of the program here:
How
to Pickup Women:
Alpha Man Immersion Program
Talk to you again soon,
Your friend,
Carlos
P.S. Make sure you take a few minutes and look at all
of the programs I've created to help you learn to meet and pickup women.
You can see them here:
Carlos Xuma's Dating Advice Programs for Men
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