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CARLOS XUMA'S DATING ADVICE FOR MEN:
How to Find the Best Dating Advice For Men...
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How Do You Find the Dating Advice for Men That WORKS?
SUMMARY: Finding the best Dating Advice
for Men is a tough task these days. There's a lot of bad information out
there masquerading as "advice." In
this Article, Carlos Xuma will expose all the details of what you should
look for to find the nuggets of gold when you're looking for dating advice
for men that really works.
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One question I'm asked quite a bit is how to find dating advice for men that
is both practical and useful. There's a lot of stuff out there, and if you're
not careful, you could get pulled into a bad philosophy.
In fact, let's talk about that for a moment...
What
is your philosophy toward dating and dating advice?
For men that are out
there in the singles world today, I find that very few are looking to be
a "pickup artist," and
most are looking for a single, high-quality partner.
That's right. Most guys are not out to just "get laid fast." They
want to meet an attractive woman with the qualities that they feel they can
stick with.
Dating advice for men tends to fall into one of these two camps: Either how
to get laid tonight - with very little integrity or honor - or how to improve
your dating skills realistically to become attractive to women.
Watch out for the following outrageous claims made on any of these men's
dating advice sites:
Lazy Man's Method: Yeah, everybody
want's the EASIEST way to do something, but it's like the old "snake oil" remedies.
How successful have you ever been doing something the "lazy man's" way?
Not very, I'll bet. And that's what you'll get with these. Lazy has never
been a compliment, and it never should be, because it's the something-for-nothing
mentality.
Overnight Results: Yet again, this
is a ridiculous claim intended to get your buying temperature jacked up.
Fast results are for the "fast food" mentality
of guys out there. REAL results take more than a few days, but not longer
than a few weeks if you apply yourself.
Women Will Be Begging YOU for Sex:
The hard, cold truth, my brother, is that there is no dating advice for men
that will get a woman to defy her basic NATURE. A woman is a passive creature,
and she wants YOU to initiate. That's how she figures out if you're a man
or a wuss. (Be careful when you hear something you WISH were true, but know
probably isn't. They're preying on your fantasies.)
Works "Hypnotically": Since
the beginning of time - or at least as far back as I can remember - men
have always wanted a "magic bullet" for
attracting women. Of all the dating advice for men I've seen out there,
NONE of it works like a magic spell or hypnosis. Be honest with yourself:
Do you really want to resort to sleazy mind control to get a woman? This
is the fantasy stuff that bad porn movies use to appeal to your dreams.
A man's integrity is foremost, and you never have to sacrifice it to get
laid.
You'll Never Have to Approach Women: Again,
the hard truth is that a woman will NOT just approach you, as much as you
might wish it. The only women who approach men will also want you to open
up your wallet for the benefit of the experience. Don't go there...
Here's
a quick bite of dating advice I give all men: It's not hard to approach women
- you just have to learn HOW.
The Author is a Centerfold or Model-Quality
Woman: I've
seen a bunch of sites that plaster their page with airbrushed models in bikinis
or skimpy underwear in the hopes to get you salivating (or more) for the thought
of doing the nasty to her. I've been in this field for over 15 years, and
I can personally count the number of gorgeous women out there giving this
advice on one hand. It's ZERO! This is another visual manipulation to get
you interested.
So what should you look for in men's dating advice that will cue you that
it is legit - the REAL deal?
The sites that tell you:
1) You can learn it, but it may require you to CHANGE some of your behaviors.
All success in life is due to getting rid of bad mental habits and adopting
new ones, and then acting on them. Obviously if you had the skills now, you'd
be using them, so first you must learn.
2) You need to start with fixing your THINKING.
Again, if you think that learning a few clever opening pickup lines or sneaky
techniques is going to make the difference in your love life, remember that
women have EXCEPTIONAL B.S. detectors. They can see through false confidence
faster than a speeding train. They're able to leap tall piles of crap in a
single bound for the door.
You can't fool a woman's instincts. Nor should you have to.
3) You not only need confidence to attract women,
but you need a concrete plan for BUILDING IT.
In all my years, the one bit of truth I found was that women absolutely NEED
confidence from men. But the one thing that almost NONE of the other dating
advisors out there can show you is HOW to get it, build it, and show it. This
is one of the reasons I focused so long and hard on creating programs that
make a man confident and successful - not just with women, but with LIFE.
At some point you have probably figured out that women don't want men that
just chase women; they want men who have an ambition and a PASSION in their
world. This has been, and probably always will be, the most universal ingredient
for attraction from women.
To summarize, just remember that the dating advice for men that works is
the stuff that explains how to build the right attitude and knowledge from
the INSIDE out, not the other way around. The coolest new threads won't do
you ANY good if she can smell your insecurities or your hesitancy.
Learn the dating advice for men that will make you a confident man: Conquer
the Inner Game of attraction and desire with women.
Become an Alpha Man.
- Carlos Xuma
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Listen
to what the gurus are saying about Carlos' work...
"I've read every book and studied every system on dating and seduction.
The problem with most 'gurus' in this field is that they're not teaching
men how to build a solid foundation. Until you change your internal
belief system and adopt an Alpha mindset, all the tactics and techniques
in the world aren't going to do you any good. (Actually, it's like
learning just enough karate to get your ass kicked!) Carlos
Xuma is the best there is at teaching men how to develop their 'inner
game.' From there, he'll give you the complete set of tools for approaching
women, and life, with absolute confidence and skill. If you're in
this game to win it, these are the rules you
need to learn."
- "Supreme", M.A.C.K. Tactics co-creator
"Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success
with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his
craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!"
- Scot McKay, X & Y
Communications, DeserveWhatYouWant.com
"Carlos Xuma is the REAL DEAL! If you are serious about
creating an extraordinary relationship. You will learn more about the
needs and desires of women than they do themselves! I highly recommend
Carlos to any man who is ready to get the woman of his dreams.
I love his game, its 100% real."
- the dean, Dating4Men.com
"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS
what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond
the pick-up lines and approach techniques that so many guys use
and fail with. Rather, Carlos gives guys everywhere practical, valuable
advice that will make men attractive not just for one night, but for many,
many years. He lays down the foundation for becoming a NATURALLY attractive
man, full of confidence and the ability to fully ENJOY being around hot
babes.
Unlike other pickup artists, Carlos shares information that helps you
not only in one area of life, but in many: in social relationships, at
work, sports, with personal goals. He'll help make you a well-rounded,
self-believing alpha MAN who's capable of just about anything.
And seducing gorgeous, high-quality women, is just the beginning."
- James Brito, How
to Be Irresistible to Women
"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction'
community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction,
and Explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his
character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character.
He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to
the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women
truly crave in a man."
- Grant Adams, CEO
- net2bed.com
"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior.
You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How
do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics -
it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find
sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."
- Joe Quirk, Author
of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"
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