CARLOS XUMA'S DATING ADVICE FOR MEN:
The Power Of Incremental Effort ...
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THIS ARTICLE IS AIMED AT THE INFO-PRENEURS OUT
THERE...
Incremental Effort - Promoting "Dating Advice for Men"
As an Internet "Info-preneur" one thing
I've noticed is the dearth of internet marketing information that is not
about marketing your internet marketing product. This seemed a tad incestuous
to me, so over the years I've had to develop a keen radar for the information
that would help me grow my business in my little product niche (Dating
Advice for Men) versus yet another ebook on the power of Adwords.
I've been very successful, and I want to share some of my lessons learned
with you so you can grow your own business with the right work ethic.
So I'm sure you did a little double take on the title.
Yes, I provide dating advice for men. (Yeah, I get
a lot of raised eyebrows on that one. "What's a MAN doing giving dating advice?")
Specifically, I coach men on how
to approach women,
how to talk to women, and how to
attract women with their authentic personalities.
I'm keenly aware that the dating advice I talk about may be misunderstood
as "game playing" and "seduction" tricks
by some, but I have always made the dating advice that I publish as real
and powerful as I could for men.
Let's face it: political correctness doesn't win me popularity. Solid men's
dating advice DOES. So I take chances.
But one thing that has been essential
to my success is that this subject
is a passion of mine for over 5 years (really more like my whole post-pubescent
life), and over the course of that time, I've developed some strong presence
on the Internet. Hence, the title of this article, and what I want to talk
to you about now.
The power of incremental effort is simply this: I have
not been particularly brilliant about my marketing efforts, nor very aggressive,
but small steps taken consistently over a period of time has allowed me to
establish a solid foothold of traffic in the niche of dating
advice for men, and built my business to very respectable revenue each year.
Please note: I say this without a bit of bragging. Sometimes I look at the
numbers and shake my head. Who would have thought that giving dating advice
for men could be so lucrative?
Well, honestly, *I* did. I always knew there was
a need for this kind of social training for guys (since that's really what
this field really amounts to for most guys - social skill development.)
And when men are looking for dating advice, they want to know lots of things.
Among them: "Will it
work for me?" And: "Is this someone who has credibility in this
field?"
Again, have been giving dating advice for men for
over 5 years now, and built up a following, posting links for my articles
in the "Dating Advice for
Men" categories, reciprocal linking, affiliate programs, and cultivating
mentors and peers in this subject has only enhanced my reputation and reach.
I've had my ups and downs, too. I was knocked off
Google once about 2 years ago for some infraction that I'll probably never
know. I still remember the white-knuckle fear I had as I searched for my
URL and felt the sinking sensation in my stomach as I got "Your
search - www.datingdynamics.com - did not
match any documents."
Blind panic gripped me as I searched on "Dating
Advice for Men" - a keyword phrase that had been my bread and butter
for years - only to see it vaporize faster than a reciprocal link with a gambling
site.
I sincerely hope you never have to feel the intense
scare I did. It wasn't pretty to see someone work 20 hour days to recapture
his lost ground, biting his nails and searching on "dating
advice for men" every
time he opened a browser. It got to be pretty neurotic.
I wouldn't have had cause to write this particular
article if I hadn't started working with a mentor, and cringed in pain when
he observed how poor some of my keyword optimization has been and said, "You've
been pretty lucky to get this far, haven't you?"
Hmm.
Was it luck? I didn't think so.
Then I realized something: Tenacity has its benefits.
It's been my relentless, never-ending efforts to get my particular flavor
of dating advice for men out there in the mainstream, that has gotten me to
this point. As well as a little bit of the zealot in me, too, I suppose. It
helps to have a passion (read: fanaticism) for your topic.
So whatever your success has been, remember that consistent
forward progress,
relentless action toward the right goals will eventually get you far, just
like the tortoise in the famous race against the hare.
When it comes right down to it, though, work smart as well as hard. Get
the advice you need to do the work up front that makes it easier to succeed over
the long haul. (This is the essence of my dating advice
philosophy as well.)
My path was perseverance with less planning than I probably should have done.
But you know what ... even that was enough. It worked.
Every day, another step toward the goal, in any way you can. Don't let a
day go by that you don't do SOMETHING to promote your site somehow.
And when you're looking for dating
advice for men - or a friend you know
that could use a little dating advice - oh, yes, we ALL do - send him over
to Carlos Xuma's site, won't you?
- Carlos Xuma
/ - Dating Advice for Men
ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Carlos Xuma is a recognized
authority on the subject of Dating
Advice for Men. His web site, /,
provides a wealth of informative articles and resources on everything you'll
ever need to know about Men's Dating
Advice.
CLICK
HERE TO FIND OUT MORE ...
Listen
to what the gurus are saying about Carlos' work...
"I've read every book and studied every system on dating and seduction.
The problem with most 'gurus' in this field is that they're not teaching
men how to build a solid foundation. Until you change your internal
belief system and adopt an Alpha mindset, all the tactics and techniques
in the world aren't going to do you any good. (Actually, it's like
learning just enough karate to get your ass kicked!) Carlos
Xuma is the best there is at teaching men how to develop their 'inner
game.' From there, he'll give you the complete set of tools for approaching
women, and life, with absolute confidence and skill. If you're in
this game to win it, these are the rules you
need to learn."
- "Supreme", M.A.C.K. Tactics co-creator
"Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success
with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his
craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!"
- Scot McKay, X & Y
Communications, DeserveWhatYouWant.com
"Carlos Xuma is the REAL DEAL! If you are serious about
creating an extraordinary relationship. You will learn more about the
needs and desires of women than they do themselves! I highly recommend
Carlos to any man who is ready to get the woman of his dreams.
I love his game, its 100% real."
- the dean, Dating4Men.com
"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS
what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond
the pick-up lines and approach techniques that so many guys use
and fail with. Rather, Carlos gives guys everywhere practical, valuable
advice that will make men attractive not just for one night, but for many,
many years. He lays down the foundation for becoming a NATURALLY attractive
man, full of confidence and the ability to fully ENJOY being around hot
babes.
Unlike other pickup artists, Carlos shares information that helps you
not only in one area of life, but in many: in social relationships, at
work, sports, with personal goals. He'll help make you a well-rounded,
self-believing alpha MAN who's capable of just about anything.
And seducing gorgeous, high-quality women, is just the beginning."
- James Brito, How
to Be Irresistible to Women
"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction'
community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction,
and Explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his
character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character.
He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to
the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women
truly crave in a man."
- Grant Adams, CEO
- net2bed.com
"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior.
You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How
do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics -
it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find
sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."
- Joe Quirk, Author
of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"
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Remember what Carlos says:
"NO WOMAN has the self-control to STOP pursuing that
which she TRULY desires..."
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Listen to what this guy says about his experience
learning the Truth:
"I have purchased your Dating
Black Book and Approach
Women Now CD series. I have to tell you that after
reading the book and listening to the CDs I could help but feel
like the dorkiest man alive. I have let woman control my emotions
and have responded to them instead of them responding to me.
I always came off as a needy unconfident pervert!
"... I have learned to set standards and
not let a woman test me without busting their balls. I hope that if
I keep this up I will eventually find a woman that qualifies to be
in my life.
"One big thing too, if a woman sees that
I have things going on in my life, they tend to be more interested
instead of the bore I used to be. I have the motivation now to follow
my dreams and if a woman wants to be part of that then so be it, but
I have learned not to let a woman pull me off course of where I want
to go and do in my life..."
"Hey carlos, thank you for the Secrets
of the Alpha Man course. I think I must've listened to the
CDs four or five times now !
"The confidence I've gained in meeting
da ladeez at work and socially has been tremendous. I was never
skeptical at your
program, but was interested/concerned as how I would notice
the changes in myself. The clincher was when several of my closest
friends ... pointed out to me that I had confidence in so many ways!
"Thank you so much for your hard work for
making it easier for the rest of us!"
- Richie from UK
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send it only with THIS
EMAIL FORM.
"The difference between
great people and everyone else is that great people create their lives
actively, while everyone else is created by their lives, passively
waiting to see where life takes them next."
- Michael E. Gerber
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